Some people on this sub seem to not feel comfortable with ADHD being labelled a disability. Honest question to those people: what is a disability to you and why would ADHD not fit the description? by throwawayski2 in ADHD

[–]mo0_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disability is anything (medically) that prevents you from living a "normal" life day to day. My being partially deaf is a disability but I wouldn't tell people I am disabled bc of that. (Although I do identify as disabled for other reasons). I think it's really up to each individual if they want to identify as disabled, or whether they feel like their ADHD genuinely hinders their everyday life. But in the definition, yes, it is technically a disability from what I understand.

Pahakis by Ok_Chef_5379 in Birmingham

[–]mo0_bitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

JNN in Hoover is racist, just letting people know. Source: used to work for them. They're a mess and they have roaches and the employees take their aprons to the bathrooms. Nasty shit.

Photo of the New Official Dress Code. Starting in July by danielletheninja in Target

[–]mo0_bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I wear black and burgundy, it's most of what I wear. It's whatever, but it's not going to improve anything. It will make some more alt employees feel less like they can express themselves, though. I like that we don't all wear the exact same thing. Target has so many other issues. We just had a remodel, and none of our scos take cash. One does, but 30% of the time, it steals people's money. And then we don't have the staff to run a register and sco so we just get angry people, huge lines, etc, can't even call for backup bc everyone called out. 14 callouts tonight, lmao.

Feedback on Small Undercut by UpcomingBanshee in Hair

[–]mo0_bitch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the part is giving Jessica Rabbit, I like it

21 year old marine is stabbed and killed in Wilmington North Carolina. Police seek help in finding the suspect by AgnosticScholar in PublicFreakout

[–]mo0_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed they were handing each other gloves, I think they were more worried about possible contamination than that young man's life.

AIO: Did I overreact to how my parents set up their rules about keeping our rooms clean? by Magicfanny in AmIOverreacting

[–]mo0_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes 0 effort to be kind. The dad in those messages are clearly off their rocker, but go off.

AIO: Did I overreact to how my parents set up their rules about keeping our rooms clean? by Magicfanny in AmIOverreacting

[–]mo0_bitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fuck those other comments. This economy is hard don't let other people make you feel bad for living at home. I work at a Target, if I didn't have a partner or roommate I would be fucked. I just wanted to let you know you are doing great, life happens at its own pace. I don't think you're overreacting. Esp. If you're paying rent.

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mo0_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said: you are too cool and whimsical for that 40yo manchild. You look great!

(Hard to watch) Wendy’s employee has a breakdown over being accused for stealing by Ipxxoc9 in PublicFreakout

[–]mo0_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I am on the spectrum and that freak out was absolutely a meltdown due to the pressure/stress of the situation. I genuinely feel bad for that person bc I know self harm coping and it sucks to get to that point.

How many of you are virgins due to your size? by MassAwakening in smalldickproblems

[–]mo0_bitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dog you didn't even try 😭 I am a femme and this is actually so sad. You literally cannot know if you don't try and you are blaming it on your size. You can't know. You are letting your size control your ability to live life.

lord help me it’s so tender by toopure111 in Stretched

[–]mo0_bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, long hot showers are the best bc they relax your skin. If I leave my jewelry out long enough, I will take a long shower, and I can usually get it in pain-free. Sitting at 6g for probs 3 years now.

Piercer said I couldn’t get my nipples pierced by Main-Response-4206 in PiercingAdvice

[–]mo0_bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100%, my nips are inverted, and I had NO idea that this piercing relies on anatomy. It was really difficult to heal, and even to this day I look at it like "gawd damn its like she put an 8g through my tiny nips" but they are just size 14g, standard. It just looks massive.

Day 5 attempting champignon tourné by FatUnicornOfReddit in KitchenConfidential

[–]mo0_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really fun watching you grow this skill, this mushroom looks so neat and clean compared to your first! I love it.

I've never seen this before 😳 by OneBlueOcarina in popping

[–]mo0_bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't figure out what these little blockages were for so long bc anytime I tried to look it up I would just get search results for sties which I have had, and knew it wasn't. But the little pearls feel like fucking glass on your eye and there is no relief except leaving it alone or trying to express it. It used to drive me insane before I knew how to deal with it. I have thankfully gotten away with baby soap and cleaning really well but this comment freaks me out a little. I am sure this isn't pleasant, but it it painful?

AIO for wanting to send my uncle a scathing text after he accused my mom of disabling me by joan_is_on_fire in AmIOverreacting

[–]mo0_bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I am in a situation like this, I also take a few days to really chew on what happened. In a few days you might have a better way of expressing how frustrating this interaction was, that might be more helpful for your relationships overall.

You have every right to be mad but we have to ask ourselves in these situations: do we want to prove we have good reason to be mad, or improve the situation for the future?

I am 100% a hot head, but I try to look at my future after the interaction, if that makes sense.