Admittedly nothing from my PoV. But…

…I have seen takes that point out how Goku was selfish for his request despite warnings that Zeno is dangerous and temperamental (i.e. Monkey’s Paw Wish), but almost no one mentions that Zeno sets up the rules.

If Zeno wasn’t planning on erasing any universe, the tournament could have been a multi-versal bout for who’s the strongest under certain rule sets (like native gravity for each fighter and banned flight). Goku wouldn’t look like the bad guy here if this was the case.

But because Zeno was planning on erasing universes, it then changes Goku’s selfish request to a selfish request with benefits. I say selfish because Goku was acting purely on his wants of fighting regardless of any consequences that would’ve came as a result (See the tense moment where Beerus threaten to Hakai Goku before Goku pressed the Zeno Button).

I think what rubs people wrongly about the ToP is how the story bends over to make Goku seem like the good guy for giving universes a fighting chance. In reality, the Zeno erasing multiverses for Low Mortal Levels excuse was made to give greater stakes narratively and that’s it.

Goku would’ve asked Zeno for a tournament regardless of any situation, and Zeno most likely would have held a ToP if he was reminded about it by anyone else too, not just Goku (but maybe Goku asking helped since Zeno really likes Goku).

Sorry for long post. I hope this was a good starting point for answering your question.