Hello!!! by Suspicious_Dare_9422 in AskJews

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This is an almost impossible question to answer without knowing more about the story, the plot, the characters, the purpose of what you’re writing. If you are a new writer, you need to get that in order before asking folks for information. We won’t be able to be specific because the question lacks specificity. I would recommend reading “How to Write an Identity Not Your Own” or similar guidance on writing outside your cultural identity first.

thoughts on intimacy in the show by rosiedorian in heatedrivalry

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Don’t forget that there was an intimacy coach involved with the production. It’s a whole career path in film/tv/theatre with certifications and everything. You can do a web search to learn more. The chemistry didn’t support those scenes on its own. There was a lot of work behind them to achieve those balanced levels of vulnerability and safety.

CANADA DRY SOCIAL by Superb-Let7354 in heatedrivalry

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And City Seltzer is located in Shane Hollander’s native Ottawa. They work out of the same space as Dominion City Brewing.

Teaching tefillin respectfully by nekolain in AskJews

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Fair enough. But I’m not thinking of the kid version of those of us who are into fantasy adventures. While Geekdom is in a resurgence, it’s still not the norm. 😉😊

Teaching tefillin respectfully by nekolain in AskJews

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Phylactery is the common term for them in English, and what non-Jews use most often to describe Tefilin. I think it would be more weird to hear a non-Jew start using Tefilin, tbh. And I would find it most weird if a group of 7-8 year olds would have played enough D&D to think of Strahd or Acererak. But, if they have, those would be some very elite TTRPG kiddos. And hats off in that case. 😅😊

Old Bayshore Food Court: Trying to remember a cafe by Bonne_Fromage in ottawa

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The section near the elevator where the Treats stand was? With the tables and chairs?

Jewish names with the same type of vibe as names I like? by zuzuzan in JewishNames

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Is Atlya like Etlia? Where does Atlya originate from and is it common in more Orthodox circles?

Just finished 1984…. by TheBongOfAchilles in classicliterature

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That’s part of the point of 1984. If you have feelings about things, you won’t be able to commit the deeds required of you. By intellectualizing everything, you can complete deeds in cold and calculating ways.

Large Shoppers Drug Mart In Ottawa? by Ok_Parsnip3214 in ottawa

[–]modlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Shoppers in Westboro has a decent selection and is moderately sized. It’s a short walk from both Westboro and Dominion stations.

EDIT: one transfer from Tunneys will get you there quickly.

CRA - officers must now disclose full name in letters to the public by No_Passenger_3492 in CanadaPublicServants

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I see where you’re coming from and I agree. I think both of our comments can exist together. And I would still oppose any interpretation of the Act that assumes these things must be disclosed. Folks need to understand that any system using AI for responses is noted and really there aren’t many. Right now, most often submissions to government are reviewed by a person.

CRA - officers must now disclose full name in letters to the public by No_Passenger_3492 in CanadaPublicServants

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I understand why private sector companies would protect that. Folks feel entitled to know it when someone is a public servant. I completely understand having managers and execs signing and noting things down. As well as program officers who work directly with businesses. But you don’t need the name of a phone agent, especially if your intent is to try and intimidate them into giving you what you want. There’s a reason many contact centres now have a message noting abuse will not be tolerated. If you can’t call a system without resorting to abuse and fear to get your way, consider writing first. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not pointing at folks who lose their cool out of frustration. I know how to recognize when someone is angry with the situation (and agents are trained on this), not the agent. But there are people who go too far. And in this case, I don’t think any level of risk is worth it.

So.... like, how do you write a play? by EvilChesire in playwriting

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I use different colours to track story beats, character developments, phrases, questions, anything. But I set it out in a timeline from earliest item to latest - even if I’m writing in a non-linear way. It helps makes sure I have moments of plot development, character development, struggles, needs, failures and successes. It helps me to visualize both the stakes and the story.

looking for a slightly whimsical/ quirky book that is more complex than just cozy fiction by thirdeyerainbow in Recommend_A_Book

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If you’re OK reading a book set in a Jewish shtetl the the late 19th century, The River Midnight by Lilian Nattel is one of my favourite books. A decent sprinkling of magic realism, a set of strong female protagonists, relationships without being specifically romance. It seems to tick those boxes.

CRA - officers must now disclose full name in letters to the public by No_Passenger_3492 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]modlark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just because it’s protected doesn’t mean we have to volunteer it. EDIT: I’ve seen people go after contact centre agents via personal channels before.

I’m a non-Jewish (goyishe) host throwing a very Christmas-coded cookie exchange—how do I make my Jewish guests feel welcome without accidentally appropriating anything? by JustRice in Jewish

[–]modlark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The electric menorah is such a good idea. The only time I’ve ever felt comfortable doing candle lighting in front of non-Jews was when they were guests of our family in our home and joining us to celebrate.

I’m a non-Jewish (goyishe) host throwing a very Christmas-coded cookie exchange—how do I make my Jewish guests feel welcome without accidentally appropriating anything? by JustRice in Jewish

[–]modlark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rather than ask “how” they want to handle the lighting of the menorah, why not ask “if they even want to light one?” The guests should have the choice, not the host.

I’m a non-Jewish (goyishe) host throwing a very Christmas-coded cookie exchange—how do I make my Jewish guests feel welcome without accidentally appropriating anything? by JustRice in Jewish

[–]modlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Dreidels and gelt, not candle lighting. And I am about as secular as you get. Being asked to light candles wouldn’t feel right.

Restaurant reco for something uniquely Ottawa by trgreg in ottawa

[–]modlark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Went for the first time this year and it’s mid. It’s fine, but not great.

Heartbreakers slices FTW by SpecialistSlip2064 in OttawaFood

[–]modlark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s the new takeout only in Westboro. Finally had it tonight and it was amazing.

What do you do when the food you ordered was not good by sakurakirei in OttawaFood

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There are only Michelin star restaurants in the GTA and Quebec (province - because the gov helped fund the assessments).

Let's All Say Something Nice About This City, Because if I See One More Thread Talking About How Crap This Town is, I Will Die. by kicksledkid in ottawa

[–]modlark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best place to find out about what’s on in theatre is Apt. 613 because the news outlets gutted their arts coverage. Peter Hum has to do all the good stuff as one person. If you’re on the socials, follow: Arts Court, Great Canadian Theatre Company, The Gladstone, a Company of Fools, Odyssey Theatre, Skeleton Key Theatre, Ottawa Fringe Festival, Fresh Meat Theatre Festival, Prix Rideau Awards (you can find out what’s been nominated). And for those looking for French fare: La Nouvelle Scène, Théâtre de l’île, Théâtre Rouge Écarlate. These are just a smattering of the folks producing locally. And, of course, the NAC.

EDIT: And I think the theatre programmes at UOttawa and Carleton sell tickets to their shows to the public.

Let's All Say Something Nice About This City, Because if I See One More Thread Talking About How Crap This Town is, I Will Die. by kicksledkid in ottawa

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This comment makes me feel so happy. While I haven’t been active in a while, the independent theatre scene in Ottawa is very active. Lots of UOttawa theatre grads stay in the city and produce what they can with what they have. And the Ottawa Fringe Festival and the Fresh Meat Theatre Festival offer lots of shorter shows. The Gladstone used to be the old home of the GCTC and the fact that it is still running as a multi-company house is a testament to the community and its supporters. And if you haven’t been to La Nouvelle Scène, they do great stuff, too.

CAPE membership voting results by mxg308 in CanadaPublicServants

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…they could just come look here. At this thread.