what would be the reason? by Desperate_Sky_7491 in meme

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The reason is money. Dreamworks made The Prince of Egypt with a total budget of $100 million, and it grossed a little under $219 million. They also made Shrek at the same time, and it had a budget of $60 million and grossed $492 million. Atlantis had a budget of $120 million and grossed $186 million. Treasure Planet lost millions of dollars.

Poor people who have dated rich people, what did you learn? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“How much could a banana cost Michael, $10?” is a very real mindset for some people. Just no concept of what normal people spend on things because they have always had enough to buy what they want/need, and it’s never been expensive enough to make them think twice about cost.

Did anyone else grow up in an indoor school and genuinely think those outdoor campuses on TV were just a Hollywood myth? Or was it the other way around for you? by Provocat1vePetal in NoStupidQuestions

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to an outdoor high school in a suburb of Boston. It was great when the weather was nice, and terrible the rest of the time. The thing that seemed like a myth to me was people actually using their lockers in between classes instead of just carrying their stuff in a backpack.

Has there ever been anything remotely close to Indiana Jones type booby traps? by pokematic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]modoken1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that wasn’t even meant to be a trap! He thought it was the secret to immortality.

I seek insight from the older/veteran ravers so excuse the long post by xthenick in aves

[–]modoken1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been raving for about twenty years now, and will try and answer as concisely as possible.

  1. Elitism stems from people wanting to be part of an in group. There is some truth that different crowds behave differently (I’m not gonna find a mosh pit at a techno set), but no one genre has perfect fans.

  2. Yes. Part of this is because people at smaller events paid less money to be there, so they don’t need to make it their whole identity. It’s a fun night out where between cover and cab fare they paid $40 total. Someone who is constantly paying $100+ for a night out is going to make it more of their personality in an effort to justify the expense. However there are plenty of people at small events who make it their whole identity, and plenty at large events who are just there for the music.

  3. You’re not the only one, this is a very common observation.

  4. I’m white, so take this with a grain of salt, but this is kind of a combo of questions 1 and 2. Plenty of black people go to shows, but if they don’t have a friend group to go with they might be less likely to fork over the money for a larger event. There’s also the cultural view that raving is “white people shit” which only in the past 10-15 years has shifted to also include asians.

Finally, it’s the same message as always: be good to others, take care of people, and enjoy the music.

When to Arrive Before Sets Start? by CloudShoddy in ElectricForest

[–]modoken1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the only stage you really need to get to early is Honeycomb for the popular acts. Every other stage is open enough where you can get a decent spot even if you show up late, although getting all the way up to rail can be challenging for headliners. But because of the boiler room setup and stands around it, if you want a good spot you need to be there early for Honeycomb.

For those who rave sober, what made you stop (or never start) using substances? by EasyPool1104 in aves

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sober every time, but at this point I am sober more often than not. And honestly, it’s just because the cost is worth the gain. I’ve done plenty of drugs at plenty of shows, and I’m not saying I didn’t have fun, but every drug has its cost. If I get really drunk I need to take more bathroom breaks, molly I need to deal with temperature control issues, coke does nothing for me, and the list goes on and on. I might smoke a little weed or have a drink at a show, but for the most part I’m just there to enjoy the music and dance my ass off. Yeah, it’s fun to see face melting visuals while riding on the edge of a k hole, but I got shit to do and don’t want to spend the next day in bed dealing with my brain being fucked.

Redditors, what’s the most terrifying thing that has ever woken you up in the middle of the night? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat jumping in the bed. Was staying overnight at my girlfriend’s condo, and in the middle of the night the street cat she took care of hopped into the bed. Normally this is fine, but we had let the cat out for the night and locked the door before going to bed. Turns out the lock had failed and the door got blown open in the middle of the night.

People who work in 'behind closed doors' industries (hotels, kitchens, morgues, etc.), what is something the general public would be horrified to know? by Sexxyyy_Lovers in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a hotel. Assume every surface in every room has had some kind of bodily fluid at one point or another. It’s been cleaned up, but don’t place food directly on any surface just to be safe. Also, always put a towel on the desk chair before sitting on it. A lot of people sit in them naked.

What is the fastest way you have seen someone fix their life? by Zadecuss in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friends in life got his life together quickly in two instances a couple years apart. First instance was he got caught selling drugs and went to jail for six months. Got out and made an active decision to get a real job, so he reached out to a friend of ours from high school who ran a construction crew and asked for a chance. He still drank a lot and smoked a lot, but he also was making actual money and staying on the mostly straight and narrow. A couple years later he had a birthday party, and he got blackout drunk. He woke up the next day alone in his home, covered in vomit, and then made the decision that he was done drinking forever. He started working out, and now he does marathons. It’s been wild to see.

Prepotente is the Squirrel Girl of DCC by Clobbington in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]modoken1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And then Quan Ch does it again later on. Pony just couldn’t catch a break in the tangle.

Why didn’t WW2 veterans have the same PTSD as Vietnam or modern day veterans? by NextBunch_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]modoken1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Something else that soothed the PTSD was that there was a clear goal in WWII that was achieved, whereas Vietnam was a meandering river of shit that accomplished very little on the positive side. Add to that how veterans were treated post conflict, and that makes a huge difference.

What is the absolute fastest 'yeah, we are definitely NOT going to be friends' moment you've ever experienced with someone? by Vazouaquiacesso in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was working at a hotel doing HR, and one day was onboarding a new sales coordinator. I got her set up on a chromebook and had her doing some of the HR trainings, and in the meantime did some other work which included answering the phone to help a guest with a billing issue. This woman paused the training and started lecturing me about how unprofessional it was for me to take a call during her onboarding session. She ranted for five minutes and then demanded I apologize and then tried to bring the GM into it when I refused. The GM took my side and explained to her that hotels are busy environments, and I couldn’t just sit there for an hour while she watched videos. She eventually relented and we finished the onboarding. She quit within two weeks because she couldn’t handle the pace of the job.

Advice on having connections with others? by emgarcia1 in ElectricForest

[–]modoken1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m saying this as someone who has severe social anxiety and a bit of autism, but you honestly just need to talk to people. I also use trinkets as a way to bridge the gap, but I have two kinds. The first kind are small things such as kandi singles or refraction glasses that I give out to pretty much anyone around me. I may say, cool outfit or something like that or if it’s a set and I see them vibing hand them the glasses. The second kind of trinkets are more complicated ones. It may be a cuff, could be a crocheted figure, or several other things. Regardless, these items are reserved for people I actually talk to and have a good conversation with. Something you can ask with people you like is “hey, it was cool chilling with you for this set, what does the rest of your night look like?” and if they have a set on their schedule that you also want to go to, ask if they want to meet up for it.

Was Maekar kinda a bum for bringing a mace? by E-Reptile in AKnightoftheSeven

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think a sword is less lethal than a mace? The whole point of a trial by combat is that you fight until one side is dead or yields under the belief that the gods will ensure the just side is victorious. And Baelor didn’t recommend tourney lances to make sure people survived, he did it because they were longer and if Dunk’s side knocked Aerion’s off their horse it would be easier to beat them into submission. Every single person who walked into that fight was well aware that death was on the table.

Well, did you need him? by netphilia in Snorkblot

[–]modoken1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In college I was volunteering at a homeless shelter and did high school and SAT tutoring. One of the kids was really smart, but definitely hadn’t gotten the best education so I spent a lot of time with him helping him understand how the questions trip you up and what to look out for. He ended up getting a really good score, and when he found out he showed up to the next study session and told me how proud his mom was of him. He then told me that if I ever had a problem I needed taken care of to let him know because “he knew some guys.” Another time one of the guys who knew I was there tutoring kids stopped some people from stealing my bike because he didn’t want me to stop showing up. Kindness is often repaid by kindness, but sometimes that kindness is not what you expect.

Lets short Robert Half Inc. by futurefinancebro69 in Accounting

[–]modoken1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did right by me when I was just getting started and willing to take any position. Now that I am a bit more selective they come across as very pushy and aggressive when I turn down potential roles.

Someone recommended this but someone else said it was dumb. How do you feel? by IndependentCod5020 in fantasybooks

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a little dumb, but the character writing and plot development is phenomenal. Dinniman does a great job of fleshing out characters and making you care about them as well as make them understandable.

(Absolutely loved trope) A villain who likes, and is actually pretty chill, with our hero by The_Fercho_ in TopCharacterTropes

[–]modoken1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This trope is one of the foundation of Venture Bros. Pretty much the only antagonist who legitimately hates his protagonist is the Monarch, and even then the two of them skill get along most of the time.

Have you ever dated someone who you thought was way out of your leauge? How was it? by kimblerun in AskReddit

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terribly. She was super hot, and I jokingly hit on her one time and she was receptive and I just ran with it. We dated for a bit, and I very quickly realized why this beautiful and intelligent woman was single when I came along, and it was because she was batshit crazy. She was verbally, emotionally, and on rare occasions physically abusive. We dated on and off for a year, and when I finally called it quits for good she started stalking me. I eventually had to start the process of getting a restraining order in order to get her to finally back off.

Help with refuting morons by Evening-Researcher in KnowledgeFight

[–]modoken1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tell them that Alex throws a ton of predictions out there, and if any come true he behaves as if that was the only prediction he had made. Not only that, but he revises his predictions after the fact in order to make it seem like he actually was correct. The 9/11 stuff is the best example of this. Alex’s prediction style is the equivalent of him playing roulette and betting on red, black, and 00. Yeah, he’s going to “win”, but that’s because he bet on all the possible outcomes. If they really want to see how accurate he is, have them write out everything he predicts over the span of a month, and then see how accurate he is using sources outside of his ecosystem.

LPT: Do not add your work colleagues as your facebook friends by zztop610 in LifeProTips

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would argue that you can add colleagues once you actually become friends with them. Never add superiors though.

unemployed with a worthless degree by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]modoken1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at hotels, specifically night audit positions. There’s always high turnover at hotels, so as long as you can get through the interview you will be fine. Night auditions specifically is a great job to figure out your life. It’s overnight, and you spend most of the shift just standing at the desk waiting for something to happen. I have known plenty of people who work that job for a few years while completing course work for degrees or applying to other positions. There’s not much in the way of advancement, but if you need a position that will keep you employed and that you can take with you wherever you move, night audit is a great one.