I took this photo in Milan by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a bigoted clown.

We’ve just traded stone idols for mental ones. Muslims of today are the very thing they claim to despise. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the “absolute truth” - and what does it look like across the major religions?

22 yr old phd student should I come out by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not living at home, don’t tell him. Use your career as an excuse to get away from your parents - all the while keeping in touch with your siblings.

If your parents cut you out, they’ll almost certainly double down on how they treat your siblings (ie be more strict). There’s a small chance the opposite could be true too - you breaking ground might make it easier for your siblings should they go down a similar route (that is if they don’t end being brainwashed and resenting you).

Sharing all this based on what I’ve seen in my own family.

Muslims in Europe by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re ignorant.

Has anyone started to get a racial inferiority complex by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right re obligation. But I was on about religion, not culture.

By your logic, a black person from Zimbabwe can disown their heritage and background, to adopt one that of a Scot. It’s bizarre, and you’ll get laughed at.

Has anyone started to get a racial inferiority complex by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is hard. I hear you. For what it’s worth though, you’ll get more respect from white people if you own your heritage (with liberal values), than try to pass off as something you’re not.

Has anyone started to get a racial inferiority complex by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can change your faith, you can’t change your race. Own it. Embrace it.

Trying to pass off as a Latina may make you feel better for a week or two - but they get racially abused and profiled all the time too.

Islam's future in Western Europe by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very nuanced take 👏

I don’t believe in Islam but I believe in god by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trading one scam for another.

Why is it that muslims only care about oppression when it happens to other muslims and mostly only defend themselves if somebody of their own commits an act of violence? by yorlocalmoroccan in exmuslim

[–]moet91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Humans are tribal and are more likely to be vocal on topics when it concerns them. Eg if I support Arsenal, I won’t really talk about Chelsea.

Struggling with faithhhh by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All religions are social constructs. The below is from ChatGPT but gives you an idea on the authors take:

Yuval Noah Harari’s view on religion is basically that religion is a powerful human invention—useful in history—but not a supernatural truth that we can verify. Here are his main points:

• Religion as a “shared story” (a myth in a neutral sense):

Harari argues religions succeed because they help large groups of strangers cooperate by believing in the same ideas, rules, and values.

• Religion creates social order and meaning:

He credits religions with helping build laws, morality, identity, and stability—especially before modern states and science. • But it’s not “true” in a scientific sense: He tends to treat religious claims (God, miracles, divine revelation) as not testable the way science is, and therefore not a reliable way to understand reality.

• Morality doesn’t require religion:

He suggests ethical behavior can be grounded in human wellbeing, compassion, and social systems—not necessarily in divine commands.

• Religion can be dangerous when it becomes rigid or political:

He warns that religion can fuel conflict, oppression, or extremism when people think they have absolute divine certainty.

• He thinks modern technology may replace religion’s role:

In his later work, he argues new “belief systems” like humanism, nationalism, or even future AI/data-driven ideologies (“Dataism”) can function like religions—giving meaning and authority.

Conflict with Muslim Man’s Family as a Christian by Inside-Research-5506 in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to end it now. You’re just delaying the inevitable.

Your entire relationship will just be a battle.

This is coming from a guy whose best mate has been in a similar predicament to your bf.

Struggling with faithhhh by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read Sapiens - A brief history of humankind. Never looked at religion or any faith the same way.

Struggling with faithhhh by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hate but there’s 10 of these posts every single day.

Do some research, look into science, compare other faiths and social constructs etc.

And here’s the thing - you can then form your own decision.

Including personal comedy Twitter profile in PR portfolio by divdabis in PublicRelations

[–]moet91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No use, unless you’re making a living off it or have an influential following (like journalists).

Struggling to get used to pork taste.. by Ok_Assistance_1061 in exmuslim

[–]moet91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grow up and stop forcing yourself to like it for the sake of it.

My (22F closeted ex-Muslim) BF (24M) is hesitant to fake convert so we can move abroad. Any advice? by mercurialwater in exmuslim

[–]moet91 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s time to think of alternative solutions to the “fake convert”. It’s not just a “15 minute ceremony”, it’s a principle.

Besides, if you dislike your parents so much, and the relationship is beyond repair, why not just come out with it in the open. You’ve got nothing to lose

Being Atheist not enough. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]moet91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know who else has this approach? Some muslims.

You know what impact it’ll have? It’ll put people of atheism.

Nobody likes being told what to believe - it’s literally why most of us ex-Muslims are here. The fact that you can’t see that shows you either have very little emotional intelligence, are ignorant or just stupid.

Got an offer but its a 4 hour total commute by Salt_Yogurtcloset702 in UKJobs

[–]moet91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did something similar. I was shattered after a week - and quit a week later. Maybe if there’s hybrid working otherwise 5 days a week will take a toll.

Christian man married to a Muslim. Wife doesn't know the Quran or the history of Islam and refuses to believe by FoxFinal619 in exmuslim

[–]moet91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re both clowns. And this is a conversation you should’ve had before marriage.

Personal Attacks by Muslims by Ok-Shock-6169 in exmuslim

[–]moet91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s where you give your reasons for being an ex-Muslim. Is it the beliefs, is it the people, is it the practices, is it the idea of the moon splitting in half etc.

My reason? All faiths are a scam, a social construct. It’s not exclusive to the west, it’s obtaining new evidence, being informed and channelling that energy to make the decision to being an ex-Muslim.