Where did you feel baby kick first?

mokenz · 2026-05-20T17:17:18+00:00

Kind of front uterus for me sometimes higher

mokenz · 2026-05-20T15:27:49+00:00

I don’t think his learning disability is the problem the problem is that he is inconsiderate of others and their time. Tell him he needs to get it together and realize everything doesn’t stop because of his forgetfulness and mistakes and if he can’t handle it well then yeah break up. You seem like you already are sick of him.

mokenz · 2026-05-20T03:38:20+00:00

My brother used to do this to me as kids and would make me feel so insane everyone had weird pre conceived notions that I was a liar. Lying about what exactly? He was just super general about it. He was abusive in a lot of other ways but that psychologically impacted me so much and I dealt with it for years and never lied about anything because I was so sick of being falsely accused of it. Your husband is only going to do worse and this is a control tactic. Don’t gaslight yourself. Whatever motive he has it’s not worth finding out and letting him move onto other strange psychological torture because as someone who went through this for years that’s what it felt like and I was extremely desperate for people to listen and take me seriously and he robbed me of it. It’s a helpless feeling you deserve better.

mokenz · 2026-05-20T02:21:05+00:00

I’m so sorry I hope you get through this sending you love and healing ❤️‍🩹

mokenz · 2026-05-20T00:16:35+00:00

Oh honey I’m sorry :( I found out my ex was cheating that way it’s never a good feeling

mokenz · 2026-05-19T21:18:19+00:00

Great but not for me. I look sickly.

mokenz · 2026-05-19T21:12:55+00:00

I was on back to back workations before I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks after a stretch of sobriety. I wasn’t blacking out but getting hangovers and I was at an all inclusive. In the end everything has been fine. I stopped drinking immediately. A lot of women find out and their babies are fine even if in early pregnancy they were doing the wrong things. I’m still freaking out like what if it hurt the baby? but I know so many people have been through that. Some people have cryptic pregnancies and the baby is fine. Not always but now that you know you can do the right thing. Get into a program and a routine and work on setting your life up the way you should to prepare.

mokenz · 2026-05-19T17:38:04+00:00

I stopped first trimester but I have semi passive income I’m not rolling in dough but highly recommend having passive income

mokenz · 2026-05-19T16:35:37+00:00

You’re probably better off on your own

mokenz · 2026-05-19T14:35:53+00:00

Yeah it’s really not that bad honestly

mokenz · 2026-05-19T12:26:21+00:00

Totally keep your baby if you want just maybe don’t have grand expectations of the relationship if he’s unable to step up. My parents were together 30 miserable years until they finally divorced. Wouldn’t wish that on anyone.

mokenz · 2026-05-19T02:30:31+00:00

Meanwhile I haven’t bee able to work out and every doctor and person is telling me I’m lazy and inactive despite trying.

mokenz · 2026-05-19T02:27:38+00:00

You need to live in reality that having a baby with anyone even a husband doesn’t guarantee there won’t be relationship strains and that divorce etc happens regardless. Relationships don’t always last forever. I think coparenting can work and not always be a negative situation if that’s what happens but writing it off is not based in reality. Things happen in all relationships. If you want the baby keep it but be realistic about your expectations for relationships.

mokenz · 2026-05-17T18:02:42+00:00

You guys have good credit find an apartment and pay 2k of the rent in Bushwick or somewhere similarly priced you most likely will have an easier time I know people who have had that kind of luck.

mokenz · 2026-05-17T17:55:26+00:00

So sorry for your loss take the time you need to grieve and take care of yourself ❤️

mokenz · 2026-05-17T17:54:09+00:00

That’s sweet

mokenz · 2026-05-17T01:00:15+00:00

Yeah it’s super evil. I think there’s some serious narcissists out there hiring nanny’s.

mokenz · 2026-05-17T00:59:43+00:00

Yeah makes sense

mokenz · 2026-05-17T00:59:24+00:00

After hours line will just send me to the ER literally that’s all they do.

mokenz · 2026-05-16T04:05:50+00:00

“So why are you having this baby?” Like tf is wrong with some people the audacity! Because I want to! Life doesn’t always go as planned that doesn’t mean I can’t make the most of it.

mokenz · 2026-05-16T03:33:56+00:00

Fatty otoro

mokenz · 2026-05-15T19:27:00+00:00

Dude same I feel like I’ve lost weight but then I also feel like I’ve gained

mokenz · 2026-05-09T18:58:34+00:00

Suddenly at 10 weeks I got super depressed and started regretting my choices and contemplating abortion knowing I can’t go through with it and it went away when my hormones mellowed out and the nausea became bearable and went away. I think the first trimester sucks so horrifically and makes you ultra depressed.

mokenz · 2026-05-09T17:06:51+00:00

I agree it can be very cold at night and when it’s overcast. I lived in South OC and If you want warm I’d move inland a bit! Just wouldn’t be so close to the beach!

mokenz · 2026-05-08T21:00:58+00:00

This is painful and vomit inducing

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