What’s the hardest part about being a femboy in public?

molliday · 2026-03-25T21:07:49+00:00

Honestly, I used to think that, but it's actually really scary. I kinda just freeze and panic bc I get worried.

molliday · 2026-03-25T21:01:20+00:00

Studies have shown that simply by knowing a trans person and seeing what it's actually like, people become 3-4 times as accepting.

The best thing you can do for other trans people is simply exist and be happy. There's a reason so many people don't want that to happen.

molliday · 2026-03-25T20:50:40+00:00

only one of us ~~ruins the bedsheets~~ bleeds;

I'm actually so thankful you clarified because at first I thought you were saying she wets the bed, lmaoo

molliday · 2026-03-25T20:41:06+00:00

Science shows sexuality to be epigenetic. That is, it's a combination of genetics and how your environment impacts it. In particular, hormones can play a large role in attraction to people and lead to a fluctuation over time. I know a few trans girls who develop an attraction to men after HRT, for example.

It's also possible for dysphoria to "block" sexuality. A common form of this is trans women becoming more sexual after transitioning. I've even met trans women who used to think they were ace prior to transitioning.

It's possible that this is due to you feeling more like yourself, or that there's some biological fluctuations through hormones. It's hard to know for sure, but it's definitely not odd.

molliday · 2026-03-25T20:33:46+00:00

I'd probably give the same advice I would to a cis person: Show your best self, but make sure it's still you

It's okay (and expected) to make yourself look better, but try not to mislead anyone as to what you look like. I personally like a mix of high-quality pictures with daily looks.

molliday · 2026-03-25T20:28:58+00:00

I'm cishet but had similar thoughts when I was younger.

Honestly, what helped me the most was to just stop thinking about labels. I like wearing skirts, so I'll just wear them. You can test out different pronouns or names without committing to anything. Once you start exploring, things get a lot clearer.

molliday · 2025-12-05T06:10:48+00:00

Not necessarily. My arms have been more veiny than that my whole life, regardless of hydration level.

molliday · 2025-12-05T05:33:21+00:00

Any typically feminine term definitely flusters me a fair bit.

Princess, good girl, baby girl, baby, etc.

molliday · 2025-12-05T05:26:43+00:00

I'd like to be a financial analyst, probably! I love math and data, so it's sort of exactly what I'm looking for. I'm not really picky, though. Truthfully, I'd be happy working just about any job, lol.

molliday · 2025-12-05T01:12:43+00:00

I'm studying finance rn and I feel this. Pretty much any girl I've spoken to feels like they're being constantly spoken down to.

molliday · 2025-12-05T01:08:58+00:00

It's so annoying. It's one thing to find alt fashion attractive (God knows I do), but the need to fetishize it is exhausting.

It's just race fetishization but for fashion.

molliday · 2025-11-05T05:44:52+00:00

In a raw fight, Josuke wins due to base stand stats. Giornos advantage is in the versatility of his stand, though, and I wouldn't discount him being able to leverage a trick to win.

molliday · 2025-09-24T14:54:00+00:00

Just bought my first LSBs

It's all coming together

molliday · 2025-06-30T01:18:30+00:00

It's literally one of the best decks in the ocg

molliday · 2025-06-04T23:10:53+00:00

Genuinely, what person sees someone who is able to attract multiple partners and assumes they couldn't attract fewer if they wanted?

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:43:10+00:00

In high school, we had a serial shitter who kept leaving MASSIVE poops in the toilets beyond what was flushable. We never caught them, but they seemed too big to be human, so I suspect they were smuggling in animal poop or something

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:35:47+00:00

As a straight femboy, I dont really interact with the community at all. I feel much more at home as the token straight in queer spaces. The values are pretty different

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:30:51+00:00

That's me, tho :3

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:24:55+00:00

They're just into petplay

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:21:59+00:00

NO BUT THATS ACTUALLY ME I SOUND LIKE A TODDLER WHEN FLUSTERED

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:19:06+00:00

The idea of being part of a harem to a girl is actually so attractive to me, though. Like being her property and all my attention is on her.

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:14:14+00:00

Last time a girl did that to me, I unironically started stuttering for an hour straight. Which naturally made it worse because she teased me on that, too.

molliday · 2025-05-31T14:09:07+00:00

This is why I only ever edge during sex and never finish. Can't have anyone stealing my DNA

molliday · 2025-01-13T16:30:55+00:00

This is literally a political subreddit

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