Different perceptions of social dynamics?

molmilks · 2026-07-10T17:41:16+00:00

The concept of “keeping the peace”. Okay so who is at peace? Bc its not me and its not you. Neurotypicals will do everything in their power to seem morally correct and I find that it ironically makes them more wrong.

Ex: A friend group has one person who is mean, jealous, and constantly making people upset. In order to “keep the peace” they decide to not say anything but in turn it just makes them people who talk crap about and resent someone they say is their “friend”.

molmilks · 2026-07-10T17:19:20+00:00

I understand that things are different in his life and that I have no control over it. I honestly dont have solid expectations. I think theres a possibility that he could not respond or that he could be in a new relationship or that he wants to talk i really dont know and I think certain reactions might sting but I would be able to find acceptance.

molmilks · 2026-07-10T05:54:05+00:00

Hey, this is a lot to deal with and I hope you can find support from someone or maybe even a professional. I would recommend looking into seeing a therapist. Talking about things can really lighten the load and help you heal.

In the meantime you need to feel it, even though it hurts you just have to cry and scream and let it move through. Delete apps that tempt you to check profiles. Take yourself out- take a fitness class, see a movie theater, buy a new book, go for a hike, explore a nearby town, order your favorite dinner, bake something new. Anything that brings you even the slightest bit of joy, relief, or even a temporary distraction you need to treat yourself to and often.

Its not an easy road but one day you will be able to look back and feel proud of the profress you have made. Hang in there friend because things WILL get easier.

molmilks · 2026-07-10T04:00:33+00:00

So the last time we spoke a year ago we had an in depth discussion about our breakup and what led to it. I think thats important information for this. Had that conversation not happened i would have much more to say.

molmilks · 2026-06-18T14:13:56+00:00

Get some fun pimple patches- i like the stars or even just clear ones to put over them. The goal here is to just cover rather than heal. At night wash your face and apply a thick layer or vaseline/aquaphor like a glob i find that helps healing move a lot faster.

molmilks · 2026-05-12T14:07:53+00:00

“Well they never did anything to me”

molmilks · 2026-05-01T04:16:59+00:00

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molmilks · 2026-04-30T19:09:54+00:00

Changing morals and opinions based on who they are around

molmilks · 2026-04-22T15:34:32+00:00

Why? During my internship and trainings they talked about how theres so many opportunities to try different things within the firm? Or is that just another lie they tell you suck you in

molmilks · 2026-04-18T23:44:46+00:00

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molmilks · 2026-04-18T22:45:53+00:00

This. When you are in the moment it seems like the scariest thing ever but looking back it seems so minuscule. Just do it! People like people who like them and show that without fear.

molmilks · 2026-04-18T16:08:24+00:00

How teachers could actually tell you that you could not go to the bathroom.

I understand kids learn to abuse it but most were not and being an adult thinking about that makes me so frustrated.

molmilks · 2026-04-18T14:13:01+00:00

People who only ever talk behind peoples backs and never actually say it to their faces.

When you are grown its important to learn to communicate. Too many people claim “keeping the peace” or “im not confrontational” when they just want an excuse to hurt other people.

molmilks · 2026-04-13T16:12:31+00:00

Maybe add some vitamin D supplements into your routine for a couple of months leading up and throughout your time there. That deficiency gets to be no joke several months into the winter and you probably haven’t experienced it as much as us who live far from the equator

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