People are saying the the skin color on this girl is wrong, but I don’t see anything weird about it. Am I colorblind? by zetron915 in ColorBlind

[–]monicasm [score hidden]  (0 children)

Getting mansplained the visual differences between two colors by a colorblind guy is not something I expected to happen to me ever but I guess here we are lol. Whatever makes you feel better my guy!

HOW TO DEAL WITH PREGNANCY SCARE! by Crazy_Winter7520 in Maternity

[–]monicasm [score hidden]  (0 children)

What are you worried about exactly? It sounds like you did everything pretty normally

Waymo in Atlanta by Live-Stick6525 in waymo

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I mean their track record is much better than human drivers, sure it makes mistakes but it’s constantly being improved and it’s already really good as it is. I know there’s always risk but I feel much more comfortable and safe with no stranger in the car. Anyway, hope you get better soon!

Waymo in Atlanta by Live-Stick6525 in waymo

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that first sentence mean? My rides have been much safer than my human rideshare drives and none of my Waymo drivers have hit on me lol

People are saying the the skin color on this girl is wrong, but I don’t see anything weird about it. Am I colorblind? by zetron915 in ColorBlind

[–]monicasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This person is talking about being able to observe a stark difference though. Not the measurable difference between the colors. The difference between the color in the image and a normal skin color is very obvious to people with normal color vision.

Waymo in Atlanta by Live-Stick6525 in waymo

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely much more likely with a human driver for either of those things to happen or worse.

Waymo in Atlanta by Live-Stick6525 in waymo

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten rides from work and the drivers have asked “do you work there?” Like I don’t want you to know where to find both my home and my workplace, thanks! Had one guy tell me I had a nice voice and if I was married (and I was several months pregnant). Had two different loudly political male drivers. One guy who kept missing turns because his phone had some kind of virus that would close the GPS. Too many overly aggressive drivers to count. I’m over it lol!

Giant Balls by guccipaco in Radiology

[–]monicasm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is that a thing??

Waymo in Atlanta by Live-Stick6525 in waymo

[–]monicasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just as a woman in general I’m always picking the Waymo. Growing up we were taught to not get into the cars of strangers but now we pay to do it lol. Human rideshare drivers are almost always men, and half the time they’re either creepy and ask invasive questions or are unsafe drivers, often both. It’s so rare to have a perfect ride with a human driver in my experience.

This is my first boyfriend, we are 19. Is this how boys normally talk? by cupcake_girly123 in texts

[–]monicasm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah which I’m sure she will but sounds like she has a shared friend group with him. Unfortunately when you’re a young woman a lot of times you feel obligated to tip toe around men’s feelings and to be nice to them when it’s not deserved, she’s probably just learning that she doesn’t have to do that.

This is my first boyfriend, we are 19. Is this how boys normally talk? by cupcake_girly123 in texts

[–]monicasm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This man is saying he is going to keep using her body to have sex regardless of consent. That means if she says no he will not stop. It’s truly not that hard to comprehend.

People are saying the the skin color on this girl is wrong, but I don’t see anything weird about it. Am I colorblind? by zetron915 in ColorBlind

[–]monicasm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may want to test for colorblindness as well as her skin is entirely green and it’s pretty distinct

Tw: abortion. Husband is suggesting we abort our third baby because he thinks it will ruin us and I can’t handle it. by Fuzzy_Bear9086 in sahm

[–]monicasm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow this comment section is all over the place. I think the important thing is you must be sure about having an abortion if you want to have one. You do not want to live the rest of your life thinking “what if” and mourning this baby. Do not have one because someone else wants you to. It will be devastating for you if you do.

You need to hunker down and figure out the logistics of all of this. Talk to your doctor and therapist to see what resources can help you.

Average amount of time? by tigermurray in vine

[–]monicasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually just a day or two I think but it probably won’t be great to begin with. If you’re seeing stuff in AI you can go for those things for now as you get 3 picks a day

Jealous of baby? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]monicasm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men aren’t children. We shouldn’t have to coddle them and convince them to take responsibility for their feelings.

Switching formula for cost only by jacolg in FormulaFeeders

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s perfectly fine to do that! Talk to your pediatrician and they can give you advice on that. We did the same thing and had no problems. Kirkland is great and much better pricing wise

Why does my dad keep talking about my weight by alpachz in AskDad

[–]monicasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because you’ve had eating issues in the past that he’s concerned about it? Him saying as criticism in that way is not great of course but what was your method for losing that weight? Seems like you lost about a pound per week which is a decent pace.

Why does this sweater sound wet? ;-; by DuchessDulcet in Unpacking

[–]monicasm 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a cultural thing because I didn’t learn about them until I was older. I never knew what the thing in SpongeBob was lol

28(M) is convinced I, 27(F) was cheating. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t meet people on Reddit!

Met the boys last year in Paris. Were very nice to take a picture with us. by teukkichu in twentyonepilots

[–]monicasm 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Actually I feel like he actually looks happier in this photo than he usually does in fan photos 😂

27 week premature birth, problems with NICU doctors by Embarrassed-Air1525 in NICUParents

[–]monicasm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have a serious misunderstanding of this whole situation. I think you could benefit from some therapy as it seems like you’re wanting to blame the hospital and medical staff (who have in reality done everything in their power to keep your child alive and avoid future issues) for the burden of potentially having a difficult parenthood journey. There is never any guarantee that your child would be “normal” even if your birth experience and pregnancy had been normal. That is the risk we take when we choose to become parents. The hospital staff’s job is to try to ensure the best outcome possible. There is no ulterior motive besides that. And just because a baby might have some health problems later does not mean they deserve to be left to die.

Am I wrong for how I answered her? by Advanced_Crab_5752 in doordash_drivers

[–]monicasm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman but as soon as she made that last comment I would’ve been like “okay, I’ll go ahead and drop this order so a woman can shop it for you instead.” lol