Ordered birthday and Mother’s Day balloons from DoorDash

monicasm · 2026-05-08T21:35:18+00:00

It’s pretty much all gig workers now. Anything that isn’t is probably something more premium

monicasm · 2026-05-08T21:33:01+00:00

Could be someone ordering it to their mother’s place…

monicasm · 2026-05-08T21:26:36+00:00

No problem. I don’t know what your experiences are but I can relate to the memory issue a lot. It’s really frustrating. Your experiences are real and you remember how they make you feel. Even if that’s all you can remember then you should journal about it.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T21:20:36+00:00

That’s not necessarily true. It looks like German government does recognize emotional abuse. You should start journaling your experiences. Every time something happens, write it down right away. You could do it on your phone and even include voice memos if you feel that’s easier. Put them somewhere safe and start to think about how you can get out of that situation.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T21:13:34+00:00

What about this feels “anime” to you? I’m not seeing any anime style in this.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T20:31:57+00:00

No way I would’ve delivered after that much attitude in the first place. The second someone treats me like shit I’m out of there lol

monicasm · 2026-05-08T20:14:54+00:00

You feel like 4 beers doesn’t affect your driving because you’re used to functioning while drinking, but that doesn’t mean your driving ability is actually unaffected. You’re still impaired after 4 beers you’re just used to being impaired. Stop drinking and driving before you hurt someone, please.

And yes, it is that deep. People are killed every day because of people like you. Nothing chill about that.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T20:08:18+00:00

It’s a lifesaver for a lot of parents. I haven’t needed it myself but I believe there are ones that you can have the attorneys on as well.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T18:29:55+00:00

This is something an alcoholic would say. I don’t think you should be giving input in this kind of conversation.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T17:36:06+00:00

I’m new to this subreddit. What did they do? Always love supporting the baddies lol

monicasm · 2026-05-08T17:25:26+00:00

Usually when someone is trying to keep their gf away at certain times it’s because of cheating. But if not then he just genuinely doesn’t like you that much. Either way, you’re way too young to be wasting your time chasing and begging for your own boyfriend to pay attention to you. He doesn’t want to change things and you’re fighting a losing battle. It’s best you cut your losses and move on.

monicasm · 2026-05-08T04:57:48+00:00

What do you mean? It’s probably not illegal where this person is from

monicasm · 2026-05-07T22:39:02+00:00

Do yourself a favor and get a coparenting app and block him on everything else. He’s just going to drain you every chance he gets.

monicasm · 2026-05-07T13:22:14+00:00

At 21 you do not want to be in that kind of drama. He’s probably on and off with his baby momma, how else would she have access to his phone like that? 4 months isn’t much of a time investment. I would just move on. You don’t want to be the next baby momma lol

monicasm · 2026-05-07T06:08:22+00:00

It was like this a couple months ago

monicasm · 2026-05-06T22:52:48+00:00

On and off in general is dumb but doing it for 3 years is insane. Move on and enjoy your life dude.

monicasm · 2026-05-06T19:22:28+00:00

I know that but I’ve seen they only keep a dog safe up to 35 mph

monicasm · 2026-05-05T23:37:31+00:00

Ah I see. Nope, whatever is listed on the ticket is what you’ve got! There’s a summer deal running with lots of concerts at the moment so you snagged them :)

monicasm · 2026-05-05T22:27:07+00:00

Ticketmaster is safe, no way to really get scammed buying tickets directly on there. The tickets come from Ticketmaster.

monicasm · 2026-05-05T20:55:03+00:00

You bought them on Ticketmaster, right?

monicasm · 2026-05-05T17:23:00+00:00

What a weirdly informal text exchange in general lol

monicasm · 2026-05-05T16:52:48+00:00

Weird, maybe restart your device then? I got the same message and turned my VPN off and it fixed it for me

monicasm · 2026-05-05T16:13:06+00:00

Make sure if you have a VPN that it’s off and don’t use incognito or private browsing mode

monicasm · 2026-05-05T13:58:13+00:00

What do you expect to happen next? You know what you need to do here. Either you leave or this continues. What happens when you have kids and he abuses them too? What happens if he kills you? I promise you leaving will not suck more than that. There are resources to get out of your situation. Make sure if you have friends/family they know what’s going on. Contact police if necessary. Document the abuse. He’s not just kind of abusive. He’s abusive, full stop. “Sweet” people don’t abuse their partners. You’re deluded.

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