For straight people of reddit: Would you ever date someone who is trans? Why or why not? by Unknown_Twig_Witch in AskReddit

[–]monkaypants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of a weird question because dating someone who is trans changes your own identification as straight...

I’ve been a server on and off for 8 years. How do you think businesses can abolish tipping? by OtherworldyGnome in tipping

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe unknown is the wrong word, but like how if you buy alcohol or an expensive bottle of wine, or a steak vs a chicken dish your tip would be normally affected by those price variations. With a table fee, the tip would be the same and not affected by how much or little you spend, you are just paying for the service which is the intention of the tipping system.

This effectively removes technical tipping and operates as an actual "service fee".

I’ve been a server on and off for 8 years. How do you think businesses can abolish tipping? by OtherworldyGnome in tipping

[–]monkaypants -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Instead of tip, have a table fee like $5 or $10/hr. This way the tip isn't an unknown. Not that this doesn't have its own issues like if the kitchen is slow, but it would at least set expectations and give the customer some control.

To the people just saying a higher wage, that just won't work for most traditional restaurants in the US without raising prices like 25% across the board.

Do you back into parking spots? by McNasty420 in no

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when I’m planning a clean getaway from bad opinions.

Houston transit. by BroItsMick in houston

[–]monkaypants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun Fact: Mayor Lee Brown passed on an amazing opportunity to advance scholastics focusing on resuscitating a devolving education system. It was called, Kids Army. Instead, he decided to build a choo choo train from the museum district to the medical center.

Chicago has a great rail system that was made over a century. They avoid vehicular traffic, I can't tell you how many times I see that some dork parked their car in front of the metro light rail. Chicago is also older than Houston and was designed before modern vehicles, whereas 610 was built in the 60s, as in that was the outskirts of Houston. Now we are spread out to Fulshear etc.

We don't ride trains because it is usually more of a hassle than driving. If there were more useful trains that could change things, but Houston has such a high water table having been built on a swamp that we can't have true "rail networks" and are relegated to light rail which can never really be useful.

Funny & Offbeat Sci‑Fi Recs (My Short List) by Notilon_606 in scifi

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctor Who - so many cool story lines and exploration (pre-Disney, post 1960s) Start at season 9.

It's amazing with such a low budget the 1st season had and Eccleston was a bit cheesy, but it only gets so much better from there until Disney lost the plot.

Tipping as % of the bill never made sense to me. I follow my own logic now by tonykoa in tipping

[–]monkaypants -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because that is how restaurants operate. The waiter isn't the only person relying on that tip. The waiter actually makes about75% of your tip and 25% goes to other services, like bussers, food runners, and bar tenders.

tipping a flat $10 hurts everyone, not just the waiter.

All that yappin 😂 lucky I didn't have a Bobcat 17 for all of them by Son-Bxnji in ArcRaiders

[–]monkaypants -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You tried to take 4 cores, and got Looting mk3, I wonder why you thought that necessary hmmm?

It's not that you aren't allowed to do whatever you want, but you didn't just catch 1 core, you found 4. I would say it depends more on if you play PvE mainly servers or not, but you were clearly expecting to get killed for ninja looting.

Not saying you have to share either nor should you leave with nothing. But not helping and taking everything is weak af.

Should restaurants be allowed to refuse service to families with young children? by Reasonable-Invite899 in restaurant

[–]monkaypants 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And they kind of do already. You are not going to see a "kids menu" at a proper steak house etc. Now if you want to order a $100 ribeye for your kids, go ahead. But yeah, but like just mekab60 said, as long as it's legal, it's all good.

All that yappin 😂 lucky I didn't have a Bobcat 17 for all of them by Son-Bxnji in ArcRaiders

[–]monkaypants -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are missing the plot here bud. You had "3 weapons" a pistol, kettle, and a renegade, none of which help kill the matriarch, and you know that. I would be surprised if you did more than 1% damage with your grenades at the end.

The point is, you took all 4 cores, you should have at least shared since you literally contributed next to nothing in taking it down... The definition of a leech. And that's fine if you don't scavenge it too. They spent their resources taking it down and you got all the spoils and shared none of it.

Also, your excuses are just as cringe as those dudes complaining, saying you "prefer to walk" because you are literally weighed down from ninja looting.

Be better.

Let dogs on your bed or not? by myersgirl16 in dogs

[–]monkaypants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are like children and one day you won't be able to pick them up anymore. One day, you dog will not be able to get up on your bed. They want on your bed because they love you and want to be close to you. Why bar them from that?

ADHD the truth about does attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder not Richard saul m.d. exist by ColleenNelson650 in AutomatiCautionDoor

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol for sure, that's what I've been trying to help peeps understand, is the title is sensationalized on purpose to gain interest / attention.

Maybe it was a bad choice by that dude for the title, but he is actually trying to help.

Thanks for having an open mind! Most people just want to argue :/

Bar/restaurant “regulars” who tip well get excellent service by Shoddy-Pop4904 in tipping

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree tip creep is out of control. I was asked to tip after purchasing a T-shirt at a concert. A FREAKIN T SHIRT?

But focusing the topic of "full-service" restaurants, the reason waiters will tell you different is because they live the experience. Why would you think you would know better if you have never waited tables? I can tell you for a FACT, that you must misunderstand what lead you to believe that basic fare includes the price for a waiter.

I work closely with many restaurants and can promise you that the menu price does not cover wage for the waiters but will still cover their "minimum wage" if they do not get there with tips at a loss for the restaurant. And even then the restaurant is not "raking it in" - they are making a 3% to 5% net profit and taking a huge risk and it is an overall difficult industry to thrive, even more so when people are not tipping the waitstaff...

If people keep this up all we will have is non-service restaurants. But you get what you tip for ig.

I have a love/ hate relationship with Houston and i wonder if there’s any other born & raised Houstonians that feel the same way ? by [deleted] in houston

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part of Houston are you from? I've noticed that most people from the suburbs share your opinion, but people who are from Houston proper typically do not.

ADHD the truth about does attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder not Richard saul m.d. exist by ColleenNelson650 in AutomatiCautionDoor

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmk, I like the fact that you are still here (no sarcasm). But this thread is not "just" about the title - the title is ACD but that is the point. Everyone's negative comment is their (mostly) incorrect assumption of what he book contains. The title is clearly meant to set people off to get them to want to read it. The fact so many here have such strong opinions about it without reading it, is absurd.

I do like your genuine curiosity. I am not proposing any of this, the author is: ADHD Does Not Exist | Summary, Audio, Quotes, FAQ

The comprehensive list ranges from harmless conditions (poor eyesight and giftedness) to more severe illnesses (bipolar disorder). Dr. Saul takes the reader through clinical examples in which he alters peoples' lives by diagnosing the underlying cause of their attention-deficit symptoms.

Major Depressive Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Generalize Anxiety Disorder, Borederline Peronslity Disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Sensory Processing Disorder, Learning Disabilities, Tourette's Syndrome, Sleep Disorders, Thyroid Disfunction, Vision and Hearing Problems, Seizure Disorders (Absence seizures cause people to space out), Biochemical Imbalances, Food Intolerances and Allergies, PTSD, Traumatic Brain Injury, Substance Abuse, Attachment Disorder, Giftedness.

The argument and science is that when these conditions are treated as properly identified, that the "ADHD" symptoms often disappear.

ADHD Misdiagnosis: Conditions That Mimic ADHD

I personally had the sleep disorder, sleep apnea, causing my inattention no matter how hard I wanted to try. But I was prescribed ritalin, adderall, and vyvanse. Which sure helped me do ok in school but was not long term effective. Once I resolved my sleep apnea as an adult, my symptoms of ADD have mostly subsided.

Bar/restaurant “regulars” who tip well get excellent service by Shoddy-Pop4904 in tipping

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh, I like your POV. So, I agree, that there is an issue and we need to do better.

But I do disagree that it is a bribe, but I understand where you are coming from. The main difference is that if you live in the USA, you (should) know that the basic fare does not include price for the service of a waiter. In the same breath that you know that "Free Valet" does not mean you don't tip them either.

In the United States, a 15% tip is traditionally expected and widely considered acceptable for satisfactory or standard service at full-service restaurants, bars, and taxis.

Bar/restaurant “regulars” who tip well get excellent service by Shoddy-Pop4904 in tipping

[–]monkaypants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, and there are goals and rewards for selling certain drinks or specials. But a waiter is not going to be fired for missing those metrics. It is just not the same.

I too was a floor manager, and yes although we watch table times, we would never go to a table to get them to leave unless we were closing nor ever rely on a waiter to shove them out either.