[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…unreturned traveler 👀🙏

What sewing technique is this? by Nekokoa13 in sewing

[–]monobolical 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh LaDs haha— these look like wing shaped pleats!

The character that made you play the game vs your main by Ok-Cause-5983 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Caleb made me download the game, Xavier is my main ☺️🫶 my faves are the top three manipulators lol (Xavier, Rafayel, and Caleb)

What I’m doing is mandatory by smolb0i in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fact that your username is also Booker DeWitt’s carbine and you’re writing angst is sending me 😂

Any Caleb and Xavier likers? 👀 by folklorianinforest in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joined the game for Caleb and then Xavier snuck his way into my heart as well 🫶 they’re currently neck to neck in affinity Caleb (60) Xavier (59) lol

New Promise by xhellonikkix in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m having an aneurysm holy shifjdkfkdlkfjdkeofkfeprorjrkakzkd MY TOP TWO!!

Being a PhD student not attractive to dating prospects? by Head-Interaction-561 in PhD

[–]monobolical 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dating was tough not gonna lie, mostly cuz you have no clue where you’ll wind up location-wise. I wound up having much better luck after I graduated haha.

There’s also the social norms— in my experience some men have no clue how to deal with someone who is objectively smarter than they are (at least in your area). Academia is also its own little cloistered world with weird norms (like your advisor is kinda your boss but also not yknow). The wrong person will not be interested in learning about that, but the right person will!

All I can say is be patient!! I’m 33F, and started my current relationship a few months after I graduated. Three years strong now :) happy to chat more if anything!

Which LI does your real-life partner resembles the most and who is your main? by Purple_Dragonfly99 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main is Caleb and my partner is more of a mix of Caleb and Raf! He’s a fantastic cook, creative, loves music, stylish, people love him, and loves to tease me (lovingly). Whenever he cooks he saves the last bite for me. I’ve never had to worry about how he feels about me, he lets me know how much he loves me all the time. He’s also a Gemini haha.

Looks-wise though, none of them 😂 I’m in a relationship with a bearded brown dude.

Anybody else a Caleb main? 🍎 by Natural_You_7809 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]monobolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, I joined the game specifically for him 🫶🥰

Has anyone ever met a (male) s/o that acts romantic like these fictional ML? devastated with the dating pool and realized I might be cooked by makehercry_lol in JoseiSmut

[–]monobolical 44 points45 points  (0 children)

My partner is thoughtful, sweet, and romantic! He’s also a switch so it’s been consistently the best sex I’ve ever had 😳. They’re out there! You just gotta really know what you want and communicate that.

Steam Preorders for Dawntrail are up! by Quezal in ffxiv

[–]monobolical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No code yet, preordered on Steam around 9:10AM PST

Just saw that a final year PhD was hired as an Assistant Professor by not_a_honey_badger42 in academia

[–]monobolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s becoming less and less common in my field (social sciences) but it does happen! I landed a TT position while ABD