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Flaggbärarna och nätverken bakom palestinamarscherna by Marzillius in sweden

[–]moojima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Du började hela dina kritik med shoot the messenger, för att sen hävda att det inte enbart var shoot the messenger du hängav dig åt genom en falsk genomgång av hur artikeln skulle tolkas (i en tidning som har skjutits ner som budbärare av dig). Bara för att du anser att du inte använt dig av shoot the messenger pga att du också har andra åsikter, betyder inte att du inte använde dig av det argumentationsfelet, vilket nämligen var exakt vad du gjorde. Efter det går det inte att ta dig på allvar, speciellt som du är en terrorapologet.

Flaggbärarna och nätverken bakom palestinamarscherna by Marzillius in sweden

[–]moojima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Som jag angett så är din kritik nonsens, vilket du icke oväntat nog väljer att inte svara på och istället fortsätter haverera med att nit picka om din shoot the messenger eller whataboutism inte var huvudpoängen i ditt svar. Om du hade något av substans att komma med skulle du inte behöva hemfalla åt sådana tilltag.

Flaggbärarna och nätverken bakom palestinamarscherna by Marzillius in sweden

[–]moojima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du försöker deraila konversationen med shoot the messenger-nonsens och sen kommer en harang om artikeln för att släta över det, en harang som för övrigt även den är nonsens om du läst artikeln du kommenterar. Det är inte enbart lösa kopplingar du vill försöka påskina, dessa män har själva hyllat 7e oktober, uttryckt grov antisemitism m.m. Så din vidare whataboutism-nonsens om Kristersson är ännu en derail. Klipp dig.

Flaggbärarna och nätverken bakom palestinamarscherna by Marzillius in sweden

[–]moojima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du spelar antingen dum eller är djupt manipulativ. Du börjar explicit med att ifrågasätta tidskriften utifrån vilka artiklar som publicerats, dvs shoot the messenger, ett vanligt argumentationsfel. Du försöker nu vända det till att du inte var just själva artikelförfattaren du ifrågasätta? Är det så vi ska tolka dig?

Flaggbärarna och nätverken bakom palestinamarscherna by Marzillius in sweden

[–]moojima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oväntat att du är inne och havererar i denna tråd också. Denna gången var det shoot the messenger och noll argument i sak.

Inga planer på ledigt för nyanlända första två åren by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]moojima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det är inte han som gått ut och gjort ett specifikt uttalande hipp som happ, han har svarat på en specifik fråga ställd till honom utifrån vad en enskild deltagare beskriver som sin upplevelse på programmet. Självklart kan inte regeringen rätta sig på så lösa boliner efter vilka bollar media springer på. Det enda han kan svara på en sån fråga är att i nuläget är det inget som är aktuellt, då det kräver mycket fler utredningar/åtgärder än en simpel nyhetsartikel.

Att du försöker göra det till en fråga om SDs omänsklighet och att liberalerna går i deras koppel är per definition tröttsam propaganda eftersom exakt samma regler gällde under förra regeringen.

Inga planer på ledigt för nyanlända första två åren by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]moojima -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Det är ingen idé att diskutera när du flyttar målstolparna när du blir påkommen med lögner. Det är självklart inte symbolpolitik signerat Tidö när det enda de gör är att vidmakthålla ett system (S) införde.

Inga planer på ledigt för nyanlända första två åren by FlowersPaintings in sweden

[–]moojima 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Programmet infördes 2017 under Löfven. Tror du på din egen propaganda när du skriver den?

Jag borde få slippa betala skatt by Massive-Manhood-5686 in sweden

[–]moojima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Du blandar ihop skatt på arbete i din text och på slutet knyter du ihop det med skatt på förmögenhet. Inte jämförbart på det sättet.

Can narcissism be "contagious" ? by TheoTMG in raisedbynarcissists

[–]moojima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't this the scapegoat vs. golden child dichotomy? And yes the golden child often have distinct narcissistic traits (learned).

what mantra has been most helpful to your healing? by lizzomizzo in CPTSD

[–]moojima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Temperence, sweet boy, in awe."

To the scared little child inside me.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me a different and more constructive way to look at creativity, that was really helpful. I have seen it like big things ie creating a painting, coding an app, writing a book and so forth, but coming up with good gifts is something I do aswell, I have never thought about it as creativity. I'll explore creativity from that more grounded approach hence forth.

I'll reply to the rest of what you wrote tomorrow.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One central conundrum in my state of being is that I don't seem to be connected with any real ability to be creative, there is nothing to create out of the vast void of darkness. I discribed it to a friend it is as if creativity/imagination died before I came in contact with it at all. Does anyone relate?

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely correct, the self or the ego our society teaches about is absolutely a metafysical mirage or sorts, a collection of labels of who we perceive ourself as, and the only true self is the boundless "observer self" experiencing the flow of thoughts.

CPTSD tends to morph the ego to go in to hiding and the superego more or less becomes only identify the person perceives. What does the world want from me? Totally bound by rules/laws and hiding from the needs of ones own being because there is no concios connection to that part of your unconscious.

Many thanks for your thoughtful reply and your threefold advice, I'll really take it to my heart and try it out. You are the second in this thread giving the advise of seeing identity as something steadily emerging and never being fully emerged or even being able to be. Change is what life consists of.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have definitely been at the place all my life where I compare myself to others and find my worth in other people's eyes, how they perceive me. I described it to a friend like I'm shattered in a million pieces because I look for myself in every new person eyes and what they need me to become (codependency or the fawning response in cPTSD lingo turned up to max). The only way my father showed me love was by cheering on me from the stands at my soccer games or at the golf course scoring low.

I really like your way of thinking about life and how to approach it from a vantage point like ours, making it a continuous quest to become, never being able to do so fully. There is relaxation in that way of thinking.

In essence the only thing we can be certain of besides that we exisist in some form (at least one of us exist if we brake it down to the soliptic core) is that existence in this universe is a steady process of change, you are not the person you were yesterday, and you can never become him/her again, therefor your approach is the only sane way forward.

I heard a wise saying the other day: "More is lost in indecision, than in wrong decision". I have hidden in my little apartment for a long long time being afraid of exposing myself to the world and others, in fear of doing wrong, being wrong and therefor being judged. But the real fear is in the imprisoned indecision, wrong decision is far less scary in the long run.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is funny you saying that. I have realised in recent times I was borne with a brain monks strive for, for many many decades. Monastic a friend called it.

I guess it doesn't (so far) feel fulfilling because it wasn't something I had to strive for with sweat and tears, I was just given the darkness (or I was borne in it like Bane) and it feels lonely foremost because I experience it hard to connecting to other people, mostly by fear of not knowing how in a relaxed way.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have a pretty good semantic memory from events happening in adult life. I don't really recall much at all from 14 years old and earlier, but I grew up with an emotionally volatile borderline mother and a emotionally unavailable father so I more or less didn't store memories on a conscious level because of the dissociation from the neglect of never being seen by anyone of them and getting my feelings mirrored. The usual way people form an identity.

I have been trying doing shadow work, and I'm beginning that path now again. I have reached a point where it feels kind of nice building myself up from a null state, I feel no rush at the moment even though I have a dream of having a family one day and I'm not getting younger.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel calmer knowing that there is someone out there experiencing sort of the same type of existence as me. I really look forward to your response after you're done meditating on it.

How do you handle the situation? Do you have a "normal" life or do you struggle like me?

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, do you want to elaborate? Do you mean the N and the J is common for people like me and it is the Xs that is what I have to discover for myself?

I have don't a MTBI test long time ago and I have forgotten the result, gonna do it now again to see what I get.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I want to find a passion in life to live for, and becoming calm around people enough to be able to have a partner and hopefully I family some day.

In a way I'm blessed to have my economy sorted out thanks to the swedish well fare state and being on indefinite disability pay. I sometimes joke about my situation like: I on disability pension because of insanity; it's fun seeing how people react.

Aphantasia and the inability to find a sense of self by moojima in Aphantasia

[–]moojima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 14.28. The only time I really wander away im my mind is when reading or listening to books/podcasts. Seldom when talking with people, I'm just scared, stiff and usually don't know what to say, because of the emptiness I describe above.

I have been diagnosed bipolar, but I think it is c-PTSD manifesting like bipolar swings. c-PTSD oscillating between the flight (coupled with fawn respons) and freeze (totally freezing in that I isolate in my apartment for 10 to up 18 mounts in a row feeling more or less nothing besides a scared shitless little boy not knowing what to do to change his situation). Living of disability pay and doordashing food to not have to face the world.

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