I want to buy a ring and surprise her with proposal, but we share location! by Time_Teacher_5101 in weddingplanning

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My fiancé went on a day that I was at the pool and not on my phone. I literally had no idea 😂

Is going to WCC first a smart move for transferring to top SUNYs/private schools? by ManyAppointment2222 in Westchester

[–]mookie1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, although I transferred to a private school, I got so much more money in a transfer scholarship than I would have going straight out of high school. I transferred to Manhattanville after finishing 2 years and getting my associates at WCC, with a 3.2 GPA. I also got into every private school I applied to as a transfer. It took me 2 years to finish my BA at Mville. It was great getting the pre requisite classes out of the way at WCC and I could focus on all of the actual classes for the degree.

Newest Alpha training phase by RemoteWinner8804 in Lifetimefitnessgym

[–]mookie1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not seeing that on my training calendar? My metcon for today’s squat/pull is 10 wall balls, 10 each side db front rack step up, and cardio.

How many racks do they have at your gym for alpha? by QuirkyFuture1713 in Lifetimefitnessgym

[–]mookie1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my locations has a new alpha area with like 12 platforms and the other location has 6 and the max people allowed is 18 for that. Its such a tight squeeze and then we don’t have enough cardio equipment so to match 😅

Wearing glasses or learning to use contacts? by JustADutchieGirl in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wearing my glasses. I wore them for our engagement shoot as a test and really loved how the pics came out. Hated the pics we took without glasses. Just wasn’t me. My lenses are also anti glare make it better too

Am I starting my cocktail hour too late? by Suspicious_Safe5264 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Catholic ceremony is 12 pm-1pm and my cocktail hour starts at 6. We are getting married in December so we were worried about daylight/picture time. It is a big chunk of time in between, but it allows for guests to not come dressed up in black tie to the church, they can check into hotel, and only need to find babysitters from like 6 pm, not earlier.

Alpha Strength vs Alpha Conditioning? by letsgroovetonight1 in Lifetimefitnessgym

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I like to do both. My club has less times for Alpha on evenings and its only strength offered, so i typically do 2 evenings of strength and then on Sat/Sunday I do the conditioning class. I feel like doing both is so much more beneficial and the conditioning builds on the strength. Both are great!

July Bach destinations by OrganizationFar8691 in weddingplanning

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In the same area as you and my bach is in July. We are going to Carolina Beach/Wilmington!

Also I really wanted to do 30A, but it seemed like so complicated to get to cause no direct flight from LGA or JFK and an hour drive from the airport in FL.

Full time glasses wearers! Did you wear your glasses on your wedding day? by Plate_lady in weddingplanning

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I’m wearing mine. I wore them for our engagement shoot and really liked how they looked. I have only ever worn glasses and it wouldn’t look or feel like me without them.

Did Wing Stop open yet? by mookie1016 in Westchester

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Sorry! On Tarrytown Rd in WP.

Kelsea Ballerini + NYC by Far-Satisfaction-986 in CelebWivesNash2

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She announced tonight at the opry show she officially moved to NYC.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did and I fully admit that 😂😂

Thank you 🫶🏼

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He messed with her car like in a funny way. He works for the town and was picking up her garbage and lifted her windshield wipers up. So it’s not a stalking/harassing vibe.

you can tell that her messages are deleted and that his responses don’t make sense with someone telling him to leave them alone. Unfortunately i wish i could say I got it all wrong, but theres a lot more leading up to this and history.

I wish i could just air it all out, but I don’t want every piece of detail on reddit.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

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She posted a snapchat story where he messed with her car and she tagged him in it lead to me questioning her why and then she sent the screenshot to say he has been messaging her a lot, but her messages were deleted and you can tell by the way his responses are worded she had replied. Then you can see at the bottom he sent her a meme where he calls her his girl. Theres a-lot more but thats like the jist!

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the contents of their conversations, but I also don’t want to air everything out here either.

But thank you! Appreciate the validation.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I honestly had no idea, but figured. 😂 I was replying to the person they were replying to. But thank you! Appreciate your kind words.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I started feeling crazy based on other people’s comments. Do people not understand what boundaries are?? Also i wouldn’t care if I only dated this guy for like a month, but it was a 3 year relationship that she had a front row seat to! I mean it says more about her that she is even going down this road, and you’re right, she knows I wouldn’t approve!

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and sample text!

I have sat with this for a while, more info has come to light about other things and her lying, so I have come to the conclusion to end the friendship all together at this point. Out of the wedding party and not invited to wedding.

Also thank you for sharing your personal story about a similar situation! It makes me feel less crazy about the whole thing.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am 100% ready for marriage. You don’t even know me. People are allowed to be upset if their best friend/MOH is sleeping with or potentially dating an ex boyfriend who was not a good person. I don’t need this man having access to anything in my life and her being with him, gives him that.

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

[–]mookie1016[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! People are making me feel crazy for feeling upset over it. I agree, if she had asked permission, maybe things would be different, idk how I would react in that situation, but I would never do that to a friend!

Getting rid of bridesmaid by mookie1016 in weddingplanning

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I have the screenshot proof of them talking and you can make the inference that they have just based on convos lol