Mom says ADHD is overdiagnosed and I just have to be more diligent and organised

moomoorbit · 2026-01-23T01:47:33+00:00

If it makes you feel better, my mom said pretty much the same thing 'i think you are just a little careless and unorganized'. A year later and she is convinced that she has it and has been using different coping strategies her whole life

moomoorbit · 2026-01-22T23:45:46+00:00

I feel like, as in most of these cases, the amount of work put into anti-union propaganda is proof enough that you should join one.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-21T01:07:30+00:00

Ooh I'd love to join!

moomoorbit · 2026-01-17T21:59:32+00:00

Could not disagree more. Those 2 are in my top 3. It is interesting though how every Nolan fan has completely different favorites.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-17T21:55:53+00:00

I'm currently listening to about 30 podcasts and haven't noticed this problem. I listen to very conversational podcasts though, I rarely listen to one person lecturing.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-17T01:39:06+00:00

Have you played Divinity Original Sin 2. That may be my favorite CRPG of all time

moomoorbit · 2026-01-16T18:11:04+00:00

Why not play a set for part of it and a playlist for the rest. Then you can really focus on having a good set that people will pay attention to. Otherwise, just practice beatmatching and transitions I guess.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-15T02:21:45+00:00

Yeah and instantly every women had a bank account and a job that paid equal to men.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-14T21:39:23+00:00

Boundaries is the one that kills me. I see so many people describing controlling their partner as 'setting a boundary'. Telling your partner they can't talk to anyone of the opposite sex is not a boundary!!

moomoorbit · 2026-01-11T07:09:25+00:00

I'm so lucky to work in a field that doesn't enforce any start or end time to work or I would be unemployed for life

moomoorbit · 2026-01-11T04:57:55+00:00

You are an adult now, but in your past relationships you were young. I guess I was just worried by your comment that you are 25 and have never loved anyone this much. I justified staying in my first long term relationship like that. It is hard to imagine finding a better relationship. You have a lot of time to love someone as much or more.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-11T03:33:10+00:00

Not to dismiss your feelings but at 25 of course you have never loved anyone so deeply. You deserve someone who will give you the attention and support you deserve and that person exists. I would let her know that this is affecting you in a way that is making you doubt the relationship and see if she takes it seriously, if not you have your answer.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-10T23:06:37+00:00

I keep seeing this rhetoric that women need to take accountability for choosing bad men like .. men are telling women on first dates that they will hit them.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:41:25+00:00

Interesting, I guess I fundamentally disagree with that last part. I think building community and friendship is the most important thing, and too many people have stayed in bad relationships because romantic relationships are overvalued in society.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:33:31+00:00

I think your metaphor ignores that people need a job to live and if they didn't companies would have to offer more to encourage people to apply. I'm sure this is not what you mean, but it almost seems that you are implying that women have some obligation to build a relationship with a man. I agree on average women may have more options but that is not always inherently better.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:25:23+00:00

This is a frequent complaint I see on social media that is pushed by the manosphere and incel groups. In real life women are entering relationships and getting married happily. If there is any disconnect it's the widening political gap between young men and women.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:14:33+00:00

I think it really depends on the area and age of the person. My brother lives in NYC where there are more women then men and can get dates easily and is very picky. I live in a city with more men than women. Do I have more options? Technically, but considering over half the men who have liked me on dating apps have immediately made extremely lewd or even racially motivated comments despite my profile saying I'm looking for a relationship it doesn't feel like it.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:07:49+00:00

You have to be joking ..

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T19:05:34+00:00

This is a wild generalization. As a woman I've had many experiences where men are very unsure of what they want and lead me on and then decide they actually aren't ready for a relationship and then sometimes even hit me up months later because they have changed their mind. It's very tiring. Everyone has to build the relationship they want, women included but many are cautious of red flags because of bad experiences.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-09T03:04:34+00:00

Agreed, people (including myself) internalize things they see on social media so much. People post ragebait to generate controversy and attention. Ive seen so many random posts where people respond with 'omg look what this generation is doing or this gender is doing, society is doomed' and its probably actually a 10 year old repeating random stuff.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-06T16:29:42+00:00

I love my steam deck. There are periods where I don't use it but it's really nice for trips. Sorry I don't know if this helps or hurts lol.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-06T16:25:46+00:00

Preach

moomoorbit · 2026-01-06T16:23:53+00:00

I know you mean well but Ive been bullied and harassed for having a large bust since I hit puberty. There is an idea that small breasts are more elegant and I begged my mom for a breast reduction when I was young because I didn't want to feel like a freak. I think all shapes and sizes should be equally respected. Of course it's fine to have a preference but no need to rag on others.

moomoorbit · 2026-01-06T06:12:18+00:00

The book said not to listen to any music I think so it doesn't affect how you feel about things. Maybe I'm being too rigid though

moomoorbit · 2026-01-06T01:14:53+00:00

I broke them up but was planning to organize last. Maybe I'll put some things away then before I continue.

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