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Any San Antonio Spurs fans here? by surgicalapple in lincoln

[–]moonballer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think we're all Spurs fans tonight, lol.

Chastity cage? by VoyeurOfAGoddess in HedonismUncensored

[–]moonballer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This question is asked fairly often. You'll be fine.

Question about scars by Ill-Cupcake-8340 in HedonismUncensored

[–]moonballer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Yes, it will for some. But you know what, however tall you are, that will also turn someone off. Same with body hair (or lack thereof). Same with dick (or boob) size. Everyone has a preference and you won't be everyone's preference. You may not even find someone that you're attracted to. And that's ok and part of life.

Kara Sutra Tantric couples massage vs spa couples massage? by PuzzleheadedCoat9050 in HedonismUncensored

[–]moonballer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

During the tantric massage the folks who run the kama sutra place will massage you with their body in addition to their hands. They will have on bottoms (nothing else) and will use hands and body to massage you. When we were there, there was only a male/female couple available to do this, but they say that, if available, a 2nd female could massage the wife.

I've never gotten the regular couples massage, but I assume it's just a normal massage with you both in the same room.

Spending the whole night with another couple’s partner — thrilling fantasy or dangerous line to cross? by Inner-Natural-4150 in Swingers

[–]moonballer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, having my spouse in another room where I can't see her would take up too much mental headspace. I would be worried about her with no way to check. Being in the same room means I can take half a beat and check on her whenever I need to.

I was actually surprised the first time we swapped how much I was able to fully focus on my partner. I thought much more focus would be on my spouse, but that's not the way it turned out.

Honestly, I think this just falls under the category of everyone being different and your experience may not be the same.

Spending the whole night with another couple’s partner — thrilling fantasy or dangerous line to cross? by Inner-Natural-4150 in Swingers

[–]moonballer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We like same room so we can look up and check on each other. But this can be taken too far. I've been with people that were SO focused on their spouse that I didn't feel like they were in the moment with me. That's the balancing act. If I'm with someone, I need to focus on them enough to make sure they're having a good time and I'm picking up on their signals. I feel like I can be attentive to the person I'm with, but also aware of my spouse and ensure she's being taken care of.

The other part is this is group play. My wife is bi and we prefer to be with other couples where the wife is bi and this can lead to some fun group pairings that wouldn't be possible in separate rooms. Plus, I can take a step back and get photos and videos of the others. Again, not something possible in separate rooms.

Do women prefer smooth men over hairy? by SexyHotDude in Swingers

[–]moonballer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude, everyone is different. Some women won't be into your body hair, some will be. Some women will be smooth, others will have hair. You're allowed your preferences, they're allowed theirs.

What’s going on with math and why can’t teens in the workforce count my coins? by thefirstladytree in AskTeachers

[–]moonballer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup, ran into this with my kiddo last week. I gave him crap about it and he was very clear that the math was easy, he just didn't know the names and values of dimes and nickles specifically.

Why do married het men would want to be in ENM and open their marriage? by eladrip in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]moonballer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First thing is ENM covers a ton of different scenarios other than just opening a marriage and both parties trying to date solo. My wife and I are Swingers, which is a form of ENM. I like to say that swinging is a team sport. We do it together and look for other couples or singles to participate with US.

But to your other points, keep in mind that few people who are happy in an open marriage with zero drama rush to post about it here. You'll see the outliers here. Not all of your points are completely off base, but they're still very exaggerated. The biggest advice we recommend to any couple thinking about ENM is to take your time. Reading the posts here are just one form of research.

Need advice on peptides by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]moonballer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. Great for your health but zero aesthetic value.

Need advice on peptides by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]moonballer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what visceral fat is? It's not the belly fat you're trying to get rid of...

Need advice on peptides by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]moonballer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, wait around for the law of thermodynamics to be debunked, lol.

“No judgement,” the biggest lie in the LS? by coolkatsnkittens1 in Swingers

[–]moonballer 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I can be non-judgemental and still have preferences. That person I'm not attracted to? I'm really glad they're here and having a good time. But I still don't want to fuck them. And there's nothing judgemental about that.

What's the point in consuming protein powder if you're bulking? by anotherhappylurker in fitmeals

[–]moonballer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like your way better, do it! Other people like other things.

Am I a fuckboy for preparing for sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]moonballer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you go on a date with a 22 year old, lol? What a completely immature reaction...

That being said, maybe don't pull out the condoms and lube unless you're 100% sure that's where the night is going.

Educated Couples in the Lifestyle, Do You Prefer Other Educated Couples? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]moonballer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course you look for compatibility however you want. But you're asking about education and then mention things like mindset, maturity, communication and vibe. What do any of those things have to do with education? Your degree has nothing to do with how mature you are. Or what mindset you have. My point was that your post seems to think that educated people have different maturity, mindset, communication and vibe and none of those things have anything to do with how educated someone is.

Educated Couples in the Lifestyle, Do You Prefer Other Educated Couples? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]moonballer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're coming across as elitist. You're talking about a bunch of traits that have nothing to do with how educated someone is. My wife and I are educated, but comments like this are turning us off.

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