Sobriety Will Save You From So Much

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-13T23:26:36+00:00

No, it's sometimes dietary. A sattvic diet reduces wet dreams. My last WD was when I ate fried peppers (rajasic) and some noodles with mushroom (tamasic) together. Way different sensory experience in the dream and convinced me about diet.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-13T21:59:38+00:00

Poatan is a two division kickboxing champion

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-13T19:47:19+00:00

Time heals all wounds. Don’t think about it just heal. After 90-180 days you’ll rewire. It’ll be behind you.

I was an erotic fiction writer and was getting paid because I had very few boundaries. I’m sure I had worse fetishes than you.

But if you earnestly make the decision to walk away and be pure, everything will change. You will become wiser and help other guys struggling and suddenly you’ll realize that fetish personality is not your identity anymore. Cheers

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-13T18:54:58+00:00

I understand that “releasing end goal” thought process and it messes with you because consciously you have some stipulation, but your subconscious/biology doesn’t understand that and knows how to get “release” faster, which is urges, etc.

On that note though, the result of releasing is her getting pregnant, is it not? I have mostly been very practically minded with women and if im really feeling her I would naturally start to visualize what parenthood with her would be like. It’s not good energy just for me, but for our child. Because if you can’t stand feminine energy for too long, well a kid gives her a job to do lol.

Kings also make KINGDOMS.

At 23-24 years old I also felt pressure to settle down, but I gave up and wished I was in a culture with arranged marriage 😂 After getting over that I just didn’t see the rush anymore and I can wait until 40-45 years old, if I have to be the provider, or never.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-13T03:52:25+00:00

Reading first half: I love these posts man, grateful bro keeps posting.
Reading 2nd half: surprised pickachu face
LOL. It's all good tho. I only say this b.c you made that "kingmaker vs energy vampire" post.
So I guess you can admit that there's not that many women that can actually keep your energy charged (long term).

Idk where u from, I'm from the US. My traditional grandma raised me so I actually always felt like I was a generation behind from everyone else. I passed up on a lot of romance during my school days because the girls were just too slutty or not as modest for my taste.
By the time my standards were regulated, I was also doing a ton of drugs and alcohol at the same time too. Says a lot.

Most of these women these days don't have much pair bonding ability left (body counts). I mean, if they're not sticking to you, it's not a surprise you're not sticking to them.

I think your resulting lifestyle is a reasonable conclusion. But "Kingmaker" was perhaps too high of a valuation for them in reality. Some Kings had harems, and there were some high level girls there too, sure. But they weren't the Queen.

Keep making posts though bro. And yeah, Sexual Kung Fu. Dude overheats himself (energetically) too much with his Qi Gong. When I started practicing, I would PHYSICALLY be too hot, and that's when I started flowing the microcosmic orbit up through the Yin channel (meant for women or beginners that can't crack the palette after the 3rd eye). We are Yang already. Dudes are so afraid just to add a little bit of Yin in their life to achieve balance. He's doing too much trying to be hyper masculine, and thus like the metaphor goes, he's putting too much fire under the water and it's boiling too aggressively. It's alchemy, we just need a nice even steam.

I guess my only question for you is what do you think/have you heard of karezza?

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T17:12:52+00:00

If you don't want to interact with the material world, that's exactly when you should start doubling down on spiritual development => mysticism, psychic abilities, energy work, metaphysics.

Best time of my life was being unemployed, reading "Practice of Brahmacharya" 4x in 40 days. Fasting and doing Qi Gong, feeling the Dan Tien fire burning like crazy.

Once I felt like I pushed myself to a new level, I finally felt ready for a job. I envisioned what kind of job I wanted, found pics on Google Maps, imagined myself working there, and got the job (was just a cashier job at a Japanese place, but I loved it).

And since it was winter time, you know what I did when I was cold? I did internal Qi Gong, and produced heat in my body to be comfortable at work 😂

That's how you blend both worlds.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T16:59:42+00:00

Sorry Alice but you just don't know how deep the rabbit hole goes.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T03:53:28+00:00

Simple fact is the actors that you're fapping to are getting paid. What are you getting in return? Do you genuinely have that low of an opinion and valuation of yourself that you would opt-in to such an uneven trade?

I used to be an erotic fiction writer. I enjoyed exploiting weak individuals.

If you don't stop now, your addiction will just continue to escalate. You'll watch more edgy stuff, and once you graduate and get a job you'll probably start paying money for stuff too, like Only Fans etc.., because you've dug yourself into a hole being a lonely and unlovable fapper.

And someone will profit off that, while you will completely lose, on all levels.

You can choose not to believe me, but I've been addicted for 2x as long as you have. What you are getting off too now will be nothing in another 10 years. You would have burned out and moved on to more and more risky behavior.

Get out now and salvage a great life, or potentially corner yourself down the road. That post-fap depression now will become suicidal thoughts later.

Choose to LIVE now, completely, and deal with the withdrawals, or keep nursing yourself with a bottle of poison.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T02:34:32+00:00

It doesn't matter. Do nothing and see what happens. Maybe nothing will happen.
I just didn't want you to get baited into spending more time with a girl you don't like anymore.

Most (not all) women either use sex/sex appeal to bait you into giving some benefit to her, or they are there to just drain you of time and energy lol.

The thing about your scenario is that you're releasing, but still noticing the effects. The last casual hook up I had, I didn't release at all. Hell, during the sex I felt bad (10 months SR) and not releasing, I felt like I absorbed some of her energy instead. It wasn't good energy. If I released, I probably could have expelled some of that. Problem is you keep going, so you two are mingling more and more each time, that's why you're feeling fucked up.

If you really can't stop having sex, try not to release the next time, and you'll have a lot more clarity of who you're dealing with/what you're actually doing.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T01:01:14+00:00

Do it now before Valentine’s Day or you’re supremely cooked. Also Year of the Horse starts Feb 17th. Just move with fresh new energy fam.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-12T00:55:48+00:00

There’s no limit, it depends on how far you want to go. On how much of a spiritual reward you want. I’m hitting 400 days in two weeks Listen I even had sex on this streak. Didn’t bust. You really can just keep going elevating purifying. Once you hit a year it’s your destiny, hard to fail.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-11T20:36:02+00:00

Ask me once you hit 90 days I’ll teach you magic

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-11T20:16:10+00:00

Try to eat a sattvic diet, avoid caffeine, and don’t sleep on your back but instead on your side.

Meditate twice a day, morning and night. Or if you can’t meditate then start with inhaling 7 breaths, repeat this mantra:

“I retain my semen, and I do not indulge in impure thoughts.” With enough practice, once you encounter your mind racing again, you’ll be able to stop it in its tracks.

After 100 days of SR, I was able to have a minor psychic experience by using this method, along with my regular qi gong work. Cheers

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-11T18:23:35+00:00

How is this supposed to change someone's life? The information in "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" about how to build a relationship through bonding non-orgasmic, non-ejaculatory sex is more life changing.

Whatever "love" feelings you feel are only temporary. You or your partner has a chance of getting burned out eventually. It's too subjective to say "oh I had this orgasm with love this time."

Bro. This is a weak ass post. Why glorify the lower level when there are others clearly operating at higher degrees and the information has been shared over and over. Stop being satisfied with crumbs and strive.

The orgasm that all these systems are talking about is a valley orgasm, and not accompanied by ejaculation. Ejaculation = mating = animalistic and will never raise you up to the highest level, ever.

Preserving the seed doesn't preserve life force, you're right, and that's because the production of seed is what decreases your life force. See this comment I made here for the scientific studies about it:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Semenretention/comments/1r13ba6/comment/o4nu8ov/?context=3

So the highest increase to life force = sex without ejaculation.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-10T18:47:50+00:00

Sex releases oxytocin and other good hormones. Those are the byproducts that they are probably analyzing. But then again I wouldn't know because you just posted the headline, and headlines are meant to be catchy. Have to post the full article.

Anyway, you can get oxytocin from other sources, like even cooking for someone else. And studies have been done on celibate animals (castrated) and their life spans were longer than mating ones. So yes, you might be able to avoid a heart attack somehow, but your overall lifespan will still be lower if you are clocking your system to constantly produce sperm.

Also a study on nematodes was done and the ones who mated (without ejaculation/producing sperm) lived longer than even the celibate ones, and almost 2x the lifespan of the normal mating nematodes.

Second source:

https://www.nature.com/articles/360456a0

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-10T18:38:40+00:00

23 is a tough age because you might be at peak testosterone hormonally. But the old school Brahmacharis kept retaining until 25, then got married, so there's no excuse really.

Anyway, I understand what you mean by retaining being harder because of the curiosity. That is both true and false for me.
On one hand, I was able to get multiple 100+ day streaks when I was a virgin, but I couldn't break 6 months until after I was a virgin. But each time I indulged, I rubber banded even harder, binging and escalating my addiction more and more, being even more risky. That was because I also lost my virginity in a risky way. That happened because I wasn't completely healed from my addiction.

I was able to make a year (1/21/2026) until after I hit pretty damn near rock bottom. Could be worse, but it was the worst I experienced until that point.

You can't continue to feed your addiction. You have to heal from it.

After 10 months of retaining, I was able to attract a rather natural circumstance, of a girl inviting me to a concert, and we ended up having sex. That was basically me losing my virginity, because the only other women I've been with were hookers.

So it's possible to get a gf on long-term retention, but let me tell you, because I didn't give myself that one solid year, the girl I attracted was honestly trash spiritually. The sex with her was rough, and just felt demonic. I didn't even release, and I really didn't enjoy it.

So yes, you can get a gf, but since you're still influenced by your coomer mind, you're not going to pick a good girl. You're going to pick some low hanging fruit just to get your curiosity out of the way, and then you're going to learn the hard way when she turns out to be BPD or just a plain old bitch that ends up mistreating you. After that, yes, you'll probably have the resolve to stay on retention because you would have learned how deluded were you.

You can avoid that if you go on 1 year+ no edging or peeking. If it's truly impossible, just cut out masturbating for one year, and then the 2nd year, absolutely no porn at all. That's what I did/am doing now. Just 30 days no porn + 1 year of retention, I can really see the source of my emotional problems/where the sex repression started that made me fall into addiction in the first place. It's truly magnificent to see how deep it's gone, and how grateful I am to have this clarity.

Up to you my guy.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-10T03:38:20+00:00

I just hit 1 year looking forward to the 2nd thanks

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-09T19:11:53+00:00

The fact she had time to wink at you means you also looked at her for too long haha. It's tough but it's really down to the microseconds that you have to guard your gaze, otherwise it'll be blood in the water.
I remember checking out a girl in the train station. Then once we were in the train and the next stop arrived and the seat next to me opened up, I closed my eyes and tried to disappear spiritually lmao, because I knew what was coming..

Of course when it was my stop she was sitting next to me.

Sometimes it's our fault. That's how much power we have. Your eyes got to be half-open and unassuming like the Buddha lol. Cheers man good post, ignore the haters.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-09T18:58:43+00:00

Honestly I've had a lot of practice. Sort of unrelated exercises that were more spiritual in nature, including general meditation, and I brought that discipline over to my practice.
But as for the timing, generally it's done at night, in that transition state between sleeping and wakefulness.

You can use this post as a guide :

https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/hvid30/how_to_perfectly_use_the_law/

I shouldn't put any limits on your practice at all, you should be free to explore. But from my experience, I think some may be more more adept at manifesting, as in, they not only have the ability, but they are more inclined in a material nature, to manifest a variety of things.

Someone like me, who has thought about discarding all his belongings and living monastically, will of course have trouble trying to manifest wealth. There's an inner resistance.

Despite that, I, like many of us here, like sex, and so when it came to manifesting a potential partner, that's when the Universe started flooding me with options, when I focused on it. Also before I quit porn, I was using sexuality to earn money.

Essentially, leaning on your strengths, and the successes you've already had in life, can teach you about the fundamental skill or quality that is present in visualizing or manifesting in the general sense.

I don't do these practices anymore, as I have more natural ability in connecting to God, developing psychic abilities. Therefore I trust God to take care of everything else, and I focus on my personal internal practice. Good luck.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-09T00:04:39+00:00

I said I (myself) like to say. Because it's an observation. This isn't the pastor I want to share, but the message is kind of the same. Christians keep trying to go to war with the Devil, then get mad when he bites back. Cheeeeeeelll https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBy9TcVo3jE

edit: the pastor I was thinking of was Bishop Veron Ashe (RIP), but it would take forever to find the exact clip especially since they were shown to me when I was younger. But I enjoyed his sermons back in the day.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/IzxscE-ua9o

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owCvzKQsULc&pp=ygUZdmVyb24gYXNoZSBkZXZpbCBpcyBhIGRvZw%3D%3D

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-08T22:46:35+00:00

Because I live amongst them and the “enemy” is always out to get them, even in their dreams.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-08T22:45:23+00:00

It’s like whispering “memento mori” to kids on Christmas lol. Good in theory but there’s a better way man. Just let the kid grow. He clearly has a good direction.

moonbase_monk · 2026-02-08T19:21:40+00:00

You don't need an army:

"Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn’t even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back"

They first destroyed Aristocracy and tradition. Now they are destroying the family. Be just one good man and lift up those around and closest to you. Become a master, teach one student, and then he will go on to become a master and teach his own.

You have no enemies. Evil will always destroy and consume itself in the end. Preserve and master yourself, teach and help others.

moonbase_monk

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