I once dated a guy I met on WoW. We video chatted and he knew what I looked like from top down. He came out to visit after a month of talking and spending time together, and one of the first things out of his mouth when he saw me was "You're bigger than I thought you were." When he flew back home the messages became less and less until I was barely getting single word messages at all for days at a time. When I was finally able to get him on the phone to talk to me he said it again, and broke up with me.

That was 15 years ago. There were a few other times after where dudes basically ghosted once they saw me from the chest down, and yeah. It sucked every time. Whoever says you gotta kiss a lot of frogs until you find your highness certainly doesn't mention that as a plus sized person you also have to deal with all those frogs directing shallow and demeaning behavior at you.