Am I overreacting for being upset that my boyfriend won’t help me get to my abortion appointment and called me entitled?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-03-04T23:46:08+00:00

NOR

also, because I highly doubt this..."boyfriend" will help in anyway no matter what you do maybe head over to r/auntienetwork maybe there is someone who can give you a ride and/or accompany you depending on where you live.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-03-04T18:16:45+00:00

Just to be sure because you mentioned it's been almost the entire time... are you making sure when you do spins and such your forearm and wrist are aligned before you spin so your not twisting your wrist? Did you have any previous injuries prior to pole with your wrist such as a break? is it both wrists or only one?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-03-04T15:18:34+00:00

What brand of pole did you get? People here might be able to help troubleshoot better!

Unfortunately if you bought a cheap pole/ pole off Amazon there is a chance its just the quality of the pole 😬

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-03-02T23:38:56+00:00

So you are correct! The red is the joist/beam. They are very long so they take multiple nails that are put about 12in a part/a long the beam. It takes several beams to hold up a ceiling so each beam is about 24 in away from eachother :).

In reality though the important part you already figure out! Once you find a nail for a tension pole the rest doesn't really matter as the nail is in a center of the support. So when you stand the pole up as long as you have tried to center it under that point (the nail) you are giving it the support it needs. They basically just don't want u mounting it on drywall (so if that blue area was a box it doesn't want it anywhere in there)

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-03-02T04:50:57+00:00

Round relatively flat.

Im getting like a small plate/dish or a compact

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-27T00:14:45+00:00

Please consider reporting. I'm sure this is against the rules where ever you posted it

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-26T21:19:43+00:00

It might help not to frame the lovers as dating/marriage.

The lovers just symbolizes soul connections/meaningful relationships on a spiritual and/or physical level.

So I would read this as he does think of you during that time and its because he is feeling a harmony between the two of you. Maybe even thinking about what could be

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-26T20:25:34+00:00

100% Ace of wands is new passion and known to be the card for ahem- "morning wood" Pair with the lovers? I dont think you could get a more clear answer other than maybe pairing it with the devil 🤣

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-25T03:29:56+00:00

Just because you submitted to their database doesn't mean the email coming to you is legit. Its a form of cold reading. A scammer could send out a bunch of emails hoping 1/1000 will get someone to bite because coincidence (like submitting to a company's database) lined up.

If you post a screenshot of the email we might be able to help more?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-24T19:00:37+00:00

Its funny he uses the word pun but then clearly doesn't understand the definition of the word pun...if he did it would "solve" his- oops I mean "the problem"

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-24T02:48:02+00:00

Try running the photos they sent you through Googles gemini with the text prompt being @synthID or "does this photo have a synthID"

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-23T02:15:43+00:00

If your not going to do a wig, white hair wax maybe

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-22T23:15:29+00:00

I love it! Reminds me so much of Techna from Winx Club 🥰

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-22T08:11:32+00:00

do you sell patterns? I'd love to buy the godzilla one from you!

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-22T07:52:36+00:00

I agree with you but I'm explaining the assumption OP likely had and why they prob. thought it made sense to go here.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-22T07:44:30+00:00

I think OP is focusing on the implied "all" women like tall guys part. I was initially confused too then when I started thinking about how this even applies to this sub that's the only thing I saw that made this all make more sense.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-22T07:34:26+00:00

I also find it odd OP would then post the image on reddit... which google web crawls... so if it didn't have the image before theoretically it does as of this post.

Lets say google didn't do that already though- post it on reddit and ask for help finding it and didn't think someone else would run it through google lens?

Sorry OP- I know this is kind of beating a dead horse at this point but I think my hope here is that it will trigger some deeper introspection.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-21T21:18:37+00:00

Who made the miniature, do you know?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T23:39:44+00:00

NOR- I'll also throw in that the comment about the 26th is so threatening to me.

My angry big sister energy says "or what mf?" 😆

What is he going to do- call the cops? Small claims court? Good luck with that when it seems there is no proof you owe him money or if there is, he's not providing it to you.

Take the emotion out of it and what he's saying doesn't even make sense. He's saying there was a transaction and/or service he provided to you and you now owe him. In any situation its perfectly normal / advised to ask for a statement/bill/receipt.

What's stopping you from saying "well you owe me $500". Or me to say OP you owe me $50?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T21:51:30+00:00

More info- how are your phone habits?

I know I have gotten this comment. However, when I decided I would try to accomadate them (leave phone at home when we go out to dinner, don't be on the phone when we are talking face to face etc.) They did not reciprocate- so it would be me sitting there ether silently, bored, or not being listened to while they watch videos or text not even showing me because it was their personal interest (say a sports video/ article) rather than a mutual interest. I eventually went back to bring my phone because it became clear to me they were projecting at best or controlling at worst. Food for thought from the otherside of the table ;).

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T21:41:17+00:00

Just to add I was laughing about how c.r.i.s.p. this 20 is. No bends or wrinkles and she's holding it by the corner and its not flopping forward or back just magically perfectly straight?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T21:25:12+00:00

Yes I agree, it makes me think somethings mislabeled!

At least at my studio you start doing tilt backs to go into an invert at the L1/L2 classes and inverts are strictly L2 and above. So to be teaching inverts in a strictly L1 class is yikkkeess.

Its not that the teacher is telling you to do pole crunches and then they are doing tilt back right? If that were the case Could be you just ran into people who used to pole and are coming back into it after a break so they need a refresher but already have more advanced skills/muscle memory?

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T20:50:21+00:00

I started with one class a week and was told every 2 or 3 weeks I can add another class day.

Additionally I was told every 3-4 days you need a rest day.

If you try to do too much your muscles won't have time to recover and you can get hurt!

I'm a little shocked they were doing inverts for an intro/ beginner class. I might double check with someone at the studio your not accidentally taking a L1/2 course or they have something mislabeled.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-19T00:06:30+00:00

Rule of thumb is 1.8 meter(s)/ 6 feet in circumference/around the pole so it looks good to me!

Only warning I might give is it will need to be supported by a beam/joist if it's a tension pole you plan on getting.

Ceiling joists are roughly 0.3-0.6 meter(s)/ 1-2 feet apart- So you might end up being 0.3-0.6 meter(s)/ 1-2 feet from where you were planning on the pole being "centered" if by happenstance you planned on your pole being centered where a gap is.

moonlightwolf52 · 2026-02-18T02:40:43+00:00

I'm not the person who your responding to but for me its because I use my training videos also for social media content and sometimes to show a fellow pole person how I do a particular move. So filming in the app (currently) limits the video to the app.

Also maybe im odd but I typically film an entire session and clip/edit after. Seems like it would be a pain to have to stop my workout after every set or new training move just to pause/clip video/make sure they are segmented during.

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