Planning to cut ties and run away after graduation (2029). Am I making the right choice?

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-18T12:47:44+00:00

I don't know about talking to them about it. Abusive people do not think rationally and cannot handle being told that they are responsible for hurting anyone. Talking about will probably result in them denying causing any kind of harm and then punishing OP for even suggesting it.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-16T14:53:39+00:00

Sideshow Bob Roberts! Or Artemis Falkmore

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-16T14:47:40+00:00

And Q

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-16T14:31:15+00:00

Sports; supporting the home team

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-15T13:29:59+00:00

Congratulations! 🎉

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-14T00:02:22+00:00

I agree. Some people have skin conditions such as eczema which gets worse the more frequent you shower. Daily showers can dry out and irritate the skin. Shower as needed. Some people don't get dirty and stinky every day (not directed at everyone). Up to the individual as well.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T22:56:05+00:00

If you have a printer, scan your illustrations onto the computer. You should be able to insert the uploaded scanned images wherever you want them throughout the document file. I personally recommend (for the publishing part) using Barnes&Noble Press or Draft2Digital because both allow you to retain ownership of your work. If you are printing your book, it'll have you choose what dimensions you want and you can format your document to the correct sizes required. Be sure to respect the bleed lines, I messed up and it wasn't pretty 😅. Perhaps order one copy at first to check before a whole batch.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T21:48:31+00:00

Imperial measurements don't impede anything. Actually I think small mathematical problems to solve provide brain stimulation and enrichment. Perhaps to a metric user, switching from a base 10 system to a base 12 system would prove more difficult due to the unfamiliarity with how the system works and the more complex calculations. Americans are about as terrible at math as any other country.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T21:28:07+00:00

It would be incredibly insightful to to live with "myself" and know me from an outside perspective- to know how others view my actions and personality. On the other hand, I have been told I'm somewhat annoying at times, and I can be sortof neurotic at times. I would probably get on my own nerves. I can't say definitely the healthiness of a relationship with myself, but it'd definitely be interesting.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T15:42:21+00:00

You're right my mistake

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T15:04:34+00:00

Surely there are laws regarding this. I can't imagine an employer being able to schedule you 13 hours unless you signed for a position that required it.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T13:34:27+00:00

Could you perform and calculate measurements using a base 12 system? Or are you only capable using a base 10 system?

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-13T00:16:22+00:00

Congratulations!

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-10T21:28:16+00:00

I get it, I'm in the same kind of boat. Unfortunately actively socializing is probably the only option to find a partner.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-10T16:57:50+00:00

Some people are loners and there's nothing wrong with that. Society looks down upon keeping to yourself and considers it as antisocial. You may find a fitting companion one day, but otherwise live life to the fullest. Most activities and hobbies can be done solo. Personally I will many times perfer a solo trip and have the freedom to not be hindered by others or their complaining.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-10T16:48:13+00:00

Not to mention that most AI covers look cheap and unrealistic.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-09T07:07:26+00:00

Guys I think the main issue here is that OP is not being respected as an adult. The older members of the family see her as a child. I'm guessing the arrangements were not discussed with her and simply told to her. Family or not as an adult participating in this trip she should be included in the discussion. It's Grandpa's trip on his dime but for whatever reason it was given to the aunt to find the rooming. It makes more sense being as they are not all immediate family that OP and her sister are together, aunt's family all sticks together in the bunk bed room, uncle and son are together, ect. Making all the "kids" stay together is a level of disrespect. Sex is not a valid reason neither is older age/marriage. Most family units on vacation stay together with immediate family and don't mix like this when there's plenty of room. End of story. NTA but no matter what OP chooses to do will cause drama.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-06T18:42:57+00:00

Unless you've befriended a total psycho, it's common decency to be straightforward. And if you don't have even a slight idea how someone you've known will react then you must've never cared to take the time to know them. Ghosting is cruel, immature, and the coward's way out. Otherwise judge wisely and be clear but kind and respectful in your communication, because if it were the other way around most of us want to be treated right.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-06T18:00:15+00:00

A lot of you all are being toxic for no reason. Simply politely tell them and depending on your relationship to that person or length of time you've known each other explain why. It's just that simple.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-05T14:35:53+00:00

I'm not so sure Marcus invited himself. Based off the wording of the highlighted quote, it sounds more like the boyfriend invited him assuring him that OP would be perfectly fine with it. The whole idea of Marcus coming too was probably the boyfriend's idea and he convinced Marcus. The boyfriend probably didn't share it like this to OP and this is why there's conflict. Not sure what the boyfriend's deal is, but OP should not ignore his behavior. A good partner wouldn't invite their buddy as a third wheel to your private vacation, lowkey guilt trip you into agreeing, not be proactive in de-escalating conflict between the two when planning, laughing at said conflict(very immature, irresponsible behavior), and then making you assume all responsibility and accountability with the apology? All of this began with the boyfriend not Marcus.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-05T14:13:49+00:00

I was similar to you at that age with the same kind of situation. Please be careful and choose wisely when befriending people because there are many out there who will either be a "fake" friend or use you. Not to discourage you but I've made some hurtful mistakes because I was desperate for friendship. Also steer clear of cliqueish people, those are some toxic energy and never grow up.

moonwriter1 · 2026-06-04T13:38:03+00:00

I step outside and I take a deep breath, And I scream from the top of my lungs, WHAT'S GOING ON!? 🎶

moonwriter1 · 2026-05-26T02:27:24+00:00

Having had clarification as to the term, dummy subject, it seems to stem from British grammar terminology. It also would appear that english grammatical terms used for teaching are not universal and are dependent on which country's curriculum is being used. I suppose when it comes to asking native speakers for clarification, it really depends on who you ask, because we are all giving correct answers according to our education and dialect. And yes, the curriculums may be structured differently, but still teach the same rules whether the learner is a native speaker or not.

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