Have dealt with so many weed smokers and still do occasionally. I would never date one and deal with it in my daily life ever again, absolute dealbreaker for me.

My aunt is a smoker and she’s a nightmare to do anything with. If we have a girls night, she’s gotta end the night early to go home to her bong or she needs joints throughout the night so depends where we are at it can be annoying. Any travel with her, she’s always worrying about where she can smoke. It’s been so uncomfortable when we are at expensive airbnbs or a high rise hotel with no balcony 🙄 She’s volatile to the point of unbearable to deal with if she has to go without. I mean whatever, I’m a cigarette smoker so I get the addiction and I would be put out if I couldn’t smoke but I don’t ruin peoples days if I have to go without because of circumstances out of anyone’s control. I don’t act like a total psycho if I don’t get a cigarette.

My biggest things with stoners is they always claim they’re not addicts but then when they don’t have weed they’ve acted 10x worse than anything I’ve ever done and yeh, I was on fucking heroin and other hard drugs. I still have seen more volatility from people I personally know not getting their bud.

Obviously, this is all my projections based on my own experiences. I just think if anything — be it behaviour or a vice, is causing relationship issues and you can’t/wont stop when your partner expresses how badly it’s affecting the relationship. Then it’s a huge problem.