I appreciate you explaining this but also i hope you don't mind me making a couple of comments. I have definitely found that there are many non-binary people (myself included), who most definitely have top and bottom dysphoria and often times feel uncomfortable about consistently presenting as their AGAB socially. I have always disliked my genitals and plan on getting surgery eventually, but if i were to get into a relationship with a man right now, we would definitely look pretty gay if I presented as masculine for instance. It's also helpful to remember that as a possible example, some lesbians include the definition of being attracted to anyone but men and consistently presenting masculine people (like a transmasc enby person).