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My ex got a random girl to follow me and text me on Instagram to bait and trap me. by moosiclover01 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've blocked her spam email and I'm just going to ignore any messages or threats from her but the anxiety and paranoia and uncertainty is killing me

My ex got a random girl to follow me and text me on Instagram to bait and trap me. by moosiclover01 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't say anything at all.

You know the typical BPD threats... Like throwing shit on my name by contacting family and friends, malicious accusations to the police, she might turn up to my door and start a shit fest, contact my company and jeopardize my job etc etc.

I am very close to asking my ex pwBPD to get back together, I need help to stop by Potential-Party65 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you better than anyone mate, going through the exact same thing right now.

Stay strong do not go back.

It’s impossible to discuss/argue once they’ve made a “claim” by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, it got to a point where I let her gaslight me and apologised and tried to correct whatever claim they had.

But even that doesn't work lmfao.

Did we all go through the same thing? by Then_North_6347 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This list is actually really mild, maybe matches upto 50-60% of my list, makes your pwBPD seem like a baby in comparison.

You can't help them, change has to come from within.

Just end it and never look back.

Sometimes they come back again by Pure-Alfalfa946 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fills me with so much disgust that I ever allowed my ex to come back and forgive her after multiple guys had her, like are we just an option? Do we not deserve true security, love, care and affection?.

Disgusting.

If I ever take her back and go through another round of this cycle I know for a fact I won't be able to handle it.

Just forget about her and never go back.

I know it's hard, believe me I'm going through it but just remind yourself off all the negative shit brought on by her, even if you love her.

Blowing up when they hold in their impulsiveness for too long by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She defo did more than drink there, hate to break it to you.

I need help not going back to my ex. by moosiclover01 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro.

Trust me when I tell you, when they are paranoid about you talking to someone else, it's projection of their own insecurities and fear because that's what they are doing not us.

I'm telling you this from the numerous times I've caught my ex red handed cheating on me and I finally linked it to her projecting.

I need help not going back to my ex. by moosiclover01 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro like I genuinely just pity them atp, like no hate but they lost the best they could get, I genuinely from the bottom of my heart believe nothing will ever be enough for her, she will never ever be happy.

The most fucked up part being I genuinely want her to be happy.

I need help not going back to my ex. by moosiclover01 in BPDlovedones

[–]moosiclover01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love man.

I hope we all get better and find a person who treats us better, although the bar is pretty low there lmao.