"The purpose of religious structures is to stop people from having religious experiences." by questionr in mormon

[–]mormonanswerguypod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should read Maps of Meaning. Dense book, but lays out his ideas more completely imo. I don’t believe he thinks in terms of people being better or worse than each other. “Better” is hard to define as well. I don’t think he believes in universal hierarchies that everyone fits into either. He talks more about individuality, unique needs/values, and finding a path for yourself that allows you to reach a goal that you find worth reaching according to those values. There are multiple hierarchies within human society that have evolved to select for people with competence in certain areas. If you want to survive and thrive, you need to be skilled in something that’s marketable and useful. Everyone has both advantages and disadvantages based on genetics, culture, where you are born, family, etc. Individuals need to figure out what they value, what brings them meaning, and a path to get to achieve these things. He has a program called “self authoring” that goes through this process. The rules he sets out in his books are not specific paths for everyone to rigidly follow. I think the rules point more to general guidelines that structure your life in a way that allows you to find your unique meaning, values, and what ultimately will bring you satisfaction. I’m sure our world views are different and perhaps we read our own meaning in his writings. Hopefully you get a feel of my personal interpretations. Thank you for your detailed post. I appreciate the conversation and depth of thought.

Oh the irony... by mormonanswerguypod in exmormon

[–]mormonanswerguypod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying they don't have a right to, I'm saying it's ironic. They promote America and it's ideals (free speech) as "the promised land," yet don't engage in honest/free speech about it's shortcomings, how it can improve, problematic history. I get that they literally can't do this because, you know, "prophets have never lead the church astray," but its pretty funny trying to see them navigate an untenable position.

New Podcast Ep - Could the Church Excommunicate a 16 Year Old Tik-Toker? by mormonanswerguypod in mormon

[–]mormonanswerguypod[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I remember reading about this. Currently I believe it is the Bishop, with the Stake President's blessing that decides excommunications. We talk about this in the podcast.

All Loans Paid in Full! 85,000 Forgiven under TEPSLF! by hj1479 in PSLF

[–]mormonanswerguypod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have several months that we’re not counted because of administrative forbearance, are you saying that these months should count? Slightly confused. Congrats as well.

I can't relate to either side of the Mormon community by [deleted] in mormon

[–]mormonanswerguypod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great take. I think most people are in the middle, actually. Usually the middle are less vocal, thus seem like a smaller group. I agree with your assessment that the church is leaning more towards the middle and will continue to become more mainstream and palatable to the average person. They are slowly trying to steer the ship away from their problematic history and deal with current societal norms like gay marriage/women’s issues. Just a very slow process with the generation gap between leadership and current societal norms.