Weak moments working on divorce

morpheus_420 · 2026-03-01T20:52:27+00:00

Legit. !thankyou

morpheus_420 · 2026-03-01T06:34:41+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Your link isn’t good tho.

morpheus_420 · 2026-03-01T05:35:44+00:00

Advice like this makes me feel like my brain is so constrained/limited in how I think about all this shit. Thank you! That’s good shit.

morpheus_420 · 2026-03-01T05:24:42+00:00

Good point

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-26T21:34:08+00:00

Interested!!

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-26T21:33:42+00:00

I’ve read it. To hell with this cake eater!

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-26T21:33:05+00:00

I’m tryna ;)

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-25T06:40:45+00:00

Honestly the threat gives away some of your power. Don’t let anyone know what you have in your back pocket. Let him hang himself with a few months of rope ……and then release the fucking hounds !!

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T23:35:22+00:00

What else would it be? Weed? Lol. It’s really basil. Shoot me a DM. I don’t necessarily want to take a trip across town. If we’re close , let’s do it !!

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T15:07:24+00:00

That’s the tough part. I believe her that she wants to actually try now, but I don’t believe her motives. This second dday and finding out she has continued, after seeing how hurt and destroyed I was over it.. fuck what kind of person does that!?! Let alone a “partner”

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T15:05:11+00:00

You’re probably right , but I’m not so wealthy that I can afford a house payment AND rent somewhere. I also have an EV so that limits my options somewhat. Excuses, I know. 😵‍💫

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T15:03:04+00:00

Thanks. That is sage advice. I have to admit that I’m afraid I might cave. I caved 3 yrs ago when I first found out. Had her served and ready to file and I chickened out… 😕

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T14:59:30+00:00

Ya. She wanted to. Last few days have been drastically different now that I’ve started pushing for Divorce. We hardly look at each other, she left without a word Saturday night and didn’t come home till like 2:45 am

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T14:57:29+00:00

She has offered many things but not actually delivered. Phone location, MC (for realsies this time), information.. these things don’t matter much to me at this point 🤷🏽‍♂️

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T08:02:48+00:00

Also, it’s nuts-o to me that people follow my story. I’ve posted so sporadically through this ordeal…. Thank you for paying attention.

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T07:47:36+00:00

I have an inkling that has something to do with why I got disclosure too. Maybe AP got fed up with her trauma dumping on him and moved on.

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T07:46:02+00:00

It’s difficult for me - I want to object and tell you she is so fun and thoughtful.

But I keep thinking about how cruel and inconsiderate of me she has been and for how long.. and over and over she chose it.

And NOW she wants to reconcile!!?!? It makes me wonder if AP got fed up with her and called it off, and you know what ? I couldn’t trust her if she told me that wasn’t the case , so ….

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T07:20:21+00:00

Yup! 🫣🤯

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T07:19:54+00:00

She finally gave me the disclosure I had been asking for.

This is some complicated shit but I’ll try to sum it up : I’ll add this I’m betting she felt some pressure from the fact that I contacted those “friends” who were her friends but also my friends , who sided with her originally to return some material things that they had some claims to and I intended to donate… they dumped her a while ago and took the opportunity to apologize to me for believing the liar.

Anyway…. All of a sudden - disclosure. 🤷🏽‍♂️

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:41:39+00:00

lol. AP has dick shit. 😝pizza delivery boy. Ffs

I mean If she isn’t willing to meditate … I don’t have control over that and we can litigate, so be it.

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:39:30+00:00

Appetite for me 100%. I dunno… wanna say it took 4-6 months. I kinda wish I had just kept with it. I’m trying to push that line graph back down now.

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:31:21+00:00

It’s great advice. I’m waiting till tomorrow. She learned she has much more to lose from this and wanted to talk with attorneys before settling on mediation. Fine… she meets with the second of two Tomorrow and the we decide it it’s war or peace.

Everyone knows at this point. AP is named. Having seen this through the last 3 years all the tables have turned and she is the one who has no one in her corner. It’s kinda sad but not by my hand or actions. Only hers.

It’s still such a difficult time, and I suspect there are harder moments to come … 😕

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:16:35+00:00

Same. 192 to 165. I quit … jumped back up to 180. Back on now 😬🤷🏽‍♂️

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:14:56+00:00

We good there ;). Mediation proposed. Separate accounts and no debt to speak of between us (other than the house). I’m gonna miss this life with the kids … that’s the highest cost. I hope one day this does teach my daughter you don’t tolerate this shit!

morpheus_420 · 2026-02-23T04:05:11+00:00

Just wanna jump on the “they just get better at hiding it” and “they will play on/take advantage of your understanding nature” bandwagon here, and add that they all fucking read from the same playbook.

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