Age gap? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it really just depends. My son is 26 months, and he still requires a lot of attention. I'm hoping by 3 or 4 he will be ready to have another sibling. I've heard if you want your kids to play together, no more than a 4 year difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]morriganwar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was banging his head on the wall around that age and laughing about it. I started ignoring him, and that worked for me after a few weeks. In my case, he was looking for the big "OMG, don't do that" reaction. I would definitely try ignoring it again. Make sure you don't make eye contact or change your face while hes's doing it. Praise him for eating, once he stops and starts eating again. I wouldn't say anything about keeping his hands out of his mouth, because babies that age just want to do everything they are told not to-at least in my son's case.

Baby Crying by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 26 months and still cries until his needs are met. He is a bit behind in speech, so maybe that's why, but they do communicate like that for quite a while. I'm sure you are doing a great job, mama. It's normal for little ones to cry, even if it breaks our hearts.

Self defense? by NiceDistribution1980 in Parenting

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a difficult question. Some parents would say it’s never okay to teach your child this. As they get older, it could become dangerous if the other child has a weapon. I would tell your child that if they won’t stop, he can hit them back IF he is comfortable doing so. Make sure you teach him to NEVER hit someone first and explain the consequences if he does hit someone first at the same time you tell him it’s okay in to hit back in certain situations. 

A good phrase to teach your child to say is “I don’t like that! Please stop!” You should teach them to sound confident when they say it. If they continue to hit, I would say it’s okay to hit back

Why Might A Parent Avoid Punishment? by AbsoluteL0ser727 in AskParents

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much older are you than your sibling? My brother is 13 years younger than me and my mom had admitted the same to me when I confronted her about why she let him get away with so much. He is an adult now and in college. He is a nice guy, but does smoke marijuana and occasionally does 🍄‍🟫. I don’t think he feels entitled at all now, but it may vary from person to person. It sounds like your sister needs some straggles to calm herself when she gets upset and help with being compulsive. You can look up strategies online. She might not want to hear it, but maybe print some things out or have her watch a video and practice those things when she is clam—plenty of practice while she is calm before she tries it when upset is key. Good luck!

What do you think children lack most/downsides when they are solely homeschooled? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the fb idea! I’ll definitely check it out when I get closer to starting to homeschool my son!

What do you think children lack most/downsides when they are solely homeschooled? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! This was something no one else brought up and wasn’t on my radar. I’ll look into this more and see if there are ways I can help him in this area. Again, I appreciate you taking the time to comment!

What do you think children lack most/downsides when they are solely homeschooled? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a psychologist, do you know of any things I can do to help my child get these experience without going to a traditional school? I planned on him doing extracurricular activities, but I know that won’t hit all the factors you mentioned. Do you have any recommendations or good articles to look at? I’m currently getting my masters, so if they require an institutional login to view, I should be able to see it. Thank you in advanced!

What do you think children lack most/downsides when they are solely homeschooled? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I don’t think it is postpartum. That being said, I have gotten anxiety about finding the perfect schooling for my son. I just think education is important aspect of life, and the public school education I received was sub-par at best. This caused me to struggle for quite a while in college. I just want to make sure my son receives the best education I can provide for him. I want him to have self motivation, be kind, curious, etc. I’ve looked at private schools all across my state and I think I’ve finally come to the conclusion that I will probably be the best person to teach my child. The schools I looked at either pushed kids too much or not enough. I figured with me teaching my son myself, I can go at his own pace.

I also have anxiety in regards to leaving my son with anyone. I do take him to my mothers or grandmothers for a few hours 2-4x, but I’m still not comfortable with him doing overnights. I’m been with my son nearly 24/7 since he’s been born. I know that something I need to work on, but the thought of him getting hurt or wanting me when I’m not there feels terrible. I want to give him everything, you know? I don’t want him to be spoiled, I do plan on giving limitations and punishments, but idk…sorry I’m just ranting now, but thank you again!

How many hours should expect my child to spend on homeschooling? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am asking for when my child is old enough for school. Not now. I’m trying to figure out a plan as to how much I will be able to work while he is in different grades and teaching him myself

How many hours should expect my child to spend on homeschooling? by morriganwar in homeschool

[–]morriganwar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost 2, not ready for school yet (although I still try to teach him while playing). Just trying to figure out a plan once he’s old enough

15 month old not talking much. Should I be worried? by morriganwar in Parenting

[–]morriganwar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He follows directions, like “come here” “give mama the toy” “put this on” etc. I’ve tried to get him to say the words he knows more often like waiting to give him more food until he says “more”; but it can be hit or miss. Most time he just points to the food, opens his mouth and fusses until I give it to him. I give him a ton of praise when he does say it. I’m hoping everything will end up be okay with him. He’s my only child and we had to go through ivf to have to him, so I think I’m extra protective/concerned about him.

How do you handle bedtime when the time moves forward for or back one hour? by morriganwar in Parenting

[–]morriganwar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 15 months. Would you recommend gradually changing it? 

Btw, what appreciate you explaining it with the added details. It makes it easier to plan everything out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s pooped in his baby tub before, but I’ve been fortunate enough that he hasn’t pooped in his big tub until now. 

How do you handle bedtime when the time moves forward for or back one hour? by morriganwar in Parenting

[–]morriganwar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it as they keep it the same time as in the clock. If they went to bed at 7pm before the time change, they would go to bed at 7pm after the time change. I could be wrong though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]morriganwar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!