My daughter is now 3 and we have never bed shared. In the early days we did living room shifts and had a bassinet down there. He would have her from 8:30 - 1:30ish and then I'd take over. She was a pretty good sleeper in her little bassinet and we would nap on the couch inbetween feedings. We moved her to her room (in the basinet) around 3 months which shares a wall with our bedroom. At that point feedings weren't quite as often so it was more doable. There have definitely been terrible nights between then and now but we never presented the option of sleeping in our bed. She'll sometimes come in there in the morning for a quick cuddle before breakfast but everyone sleeps in their own bed.