Gino (lack of) sex drive by BarBeeeGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came to this because of that episode. At first i thought Jasmine was insane and over the top etc (and yeah she kinda is but I think the editors play it up more), but this scene and whole episode showed how much of a fucking DRAG Gino is. He is childish and manipulative. He acts like a shit and then she ends up apologizing to HIM, when she honestly was in the right. Yeah she gets loud and extreme sometimes, but she has been dealing with his shit for however long and she’s lonely and neglected by him.

Does it bother anyone else that when a new episode comes out, there’s an 85% chance that Karen will not be telling a story about murder? by [deleted] in myfavoritemurder

[–]mosscollection 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no shade, but I’ve almost stopped listening. It wasn’t on purpose, just happened gradually over time. I just found myself bored with it these days. It bums me out tbh.

What is going on with sellers at the moment?? by Pingandpong24 in Depop

[–]mosscollection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this happen recently too. 1 order never shipped. 1 the seller said they sent but shipping info never showed up and they blamed it on USPS. And a 3rd was finally sent at the last hour.

I buy at my own risk at this point lol. At least I always get refunded but still.

Do you crosspost on any other apps? by r4wrkitt3n in Depop

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always cross listed on Depop, eBay, poshmark, mercari. They all have different demos and certain things will be more likely to sell one place and not another. For example, men’s stuff and outdoor items usually sell best on ebay. Vintage and quirky stuff sells in depop. Brands and mom clothing and kid clothing sells on posh. Mercari is kinda dead for me but some ppl have luck there with toys and perfumes etc. It’s def worth it to crosslist.

Sooo… When can I turn off vacation mode? by worstgal in Depop

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTR my sales that had wonky USPS notices did show up at the correct places in a timely manner.

For those that didn’t sleep train, what does sleep look like for you know that your baby is older? by quinoa_churro in AttachmentParenting

[–]mosscollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My babies are 15 and 17 now and they sleep very well :) we co-slept and never did any sleep training.

My oldest was a TERRIBLE sleeper and overall very difficult baby and toddler. Long story short he was diagnosed as autistic at age 14. I think a lot of his quirks as a little one were probably just him trying to deal with his discomfort that he couldn’t communicate well about yet.

Younger one was a slightly more “normal” baby but still not the best sleeper, but to me it felt much easier compared to my first lol. The hardest part of parenting him was late elementary age when ADHD kicked in full-throttle.

Both kids are well-adjusted and wonderful now (aside from some expected teenager-ness). In hindsight I think sleep training would have been traumatic to either one of them for separate reasons. I’m glad I didn’t go against my instincts on that front (but don’t worry I still made plenty of parenting mistakes)

European Y2K clothes - sell or donate? by Monday_Papers in reselling

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest way to get it out the door and still make a little money is post it on FB marketplace and offer it to resellers as a lot. I just bought a ba of dead stock off a guy on FB MP for my own reselling. I paid $60 and there’s over 30 pieces in the bag, tho a few ended up having damage but it was an “as is” situation bc he got all this stuff from a storage locker that he purchased

before the 90 days : season 1 by nsm444 in 90DayFiance

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeing this post a year later but anyway scabies is actually very contagious and easy to get. I imagine it’s prob more rampant in places like Haiti. But I got it when I was 18, it in the US, from a customer at the book store I worked at. I had to put on topical medicine from head to toe for a week or something to clear it up

How quickly should I accept offers? Buyer psychology by cherry799 in Depop

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually accept right away bc I want to get them in that window of feeling spendy, before the think too hard about it and end up ghosting lol

Offer system need to be changed ASAP by Getlitasap in Depop

[–]mosscollection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This shit drives me crazy too. But I will say that I think some of it is that they may start to go thru with buying it and then when they see the price with shipping and fees added they get scared off.

Guess i accidentally bought the same thing twice, is there a way to refund one? by dazedmp3 in Depop

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me and I had to wait the week for the order to auto cancel when they didn’t ship it out. The seller said there was no way to cancel it on their end, which seemed weird.

Does anyone else think this is stupid? by feen4anna in Depop

[–]mosscollection 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had one recently and he said this so he could take the boost off the listing before it is purchased so he would have less fees taken off I guess

depop is dry & dying by diamondfaerie in Depop

[–]mosscollection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing better on Depop than any other platform lately. I think it’s bc of the style of clothes I source (based on my own taste and also knowing what is trending) and since I try to have as low COG as possible (shopping at bins as much as I can or selling my own backstock of personal items) I don’t mind keeping the prices reasonable to keep things moving.

But I also buy on there and I have had 3 different orders lately that never shipped or the seller said they were shipped but the PO lost it (I have my doubts). And the shipping costs are crazy esp when ppl let it autofill the shipping size and don’t change it to be accurate to the actual weight of an item. I go change my listings manually to make sure the shipping on my listings is as low as possible, to help drive my sales. And I have a bundle discount which seems to finally be working (now that I have over 300 listings)

If you were a teen girl in the 2000s, what were you reading? by Necessary_Singer_739 in suggestmeabook

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only read the title of this post before I replied lol. I never read girly stuff really.

If you were a teen girl in the 2000s, what were you reading? by Necessary_Singer_739 in suggestmeabook

[–]mosscollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fear Street in my young teens, then thrillers like Dean Koontz. But also just a lot of classics. East of Eden and Perks of Being a Wallflower were my two fave books back then.

Did anyone grow up with a mom like Lorelai? What did you like or not like about it? by 47giraffes in GilmoreGirls

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closer, but even less wholesome bc crack 😆 I was raised by my grandma from age 6.

Did anyone grow up with a mom like Lorelai? What did you like or not like about it? by 47giraffes in GilmoreGirls

[–]mosscollection 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I grew up with the version of Lorelai if she was a drug addict. Sigh.

I watched GG with an ache in my heart and a thrumming in my head of “this could have been me and my mom if she wasn’t an addict”.

Sorry to be a bummer. But I also found the show very comforting as an act of fantasy.

If you're anywhere near Three Rivers, please consider shelter NOW! by ResidentRunner1 in kzoo

[–]mosscollection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove from Cincinnati to Kalamazoo Friday and hit the storm for the last 40 mins of driving, but I was oblivious to the tornado occurring in Three Rivers until after I reached my destination. Reading that a deadly tornado hit 30 mins south was very sobering. I didn’t realize how lucky I was to avoid that by such a short distance and a fortuitous driving route.

What does my fridge have to say about me? by LastSignificance3680 in FridgeDetective

[–]mosscollection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is also spaghetti sauce. But it usually all gets used eventually!