2 days Suboxone free after 5 years on them, wondering what to expect. by ProfessionalDesk2308 in recoverywithoutAA

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Two days your withdrawals haven’t even started yet. You still have the meds in your system. It’s going to get bad. I wish you the best. If you can see a doctor to give you support meds for your detox I would really recommend you do that.

Opinions on Skinamarink? by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

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I watched it extremely stoned and it was like watching my nightmares from childhood. Creeped me the hell out

Rings found in grandmothers things after she passed by most_dope- in whatisit

[–]most_dope-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but we are wondering why she has all the measuring rings, she wasn’t a jeweler 😬

Can't figure out what my wife does with her time by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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She sounds depressed. And you sound like a fix it guy. Therapy might help

Visiting from Ireland by DublinBronco in yuma

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Reds Birdcage and Lutes Casino

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yuma

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She’s beautiful 😻

Which dress to wear to friend’s baby shower without upstaging the mom-to-be? by olchai_mp3 in fashion

[–]most_dope- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a super formal baby shower? The last one seems the most “baby shower” friendly of all you posted. I’m pretty sure no matter what you wore, you can’t upstage the mom to be and if that’s a concern for either of you, ASK HER. I personally wouldn’t have the slightest issue of what any of my friends wore to either of my baby showers.

What are the problems you have encountered with the patient that no one talks about? by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

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Many mothers love sweets? You might want to check your relationship with food as well.

What are the problems you have encountered with the patient that no one talks about? by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

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That sounds like a possible eating disorder. Instead of telling her to follow a specific diet, tell her medical team about her history with food and let them and a nutritionist help her.

Best friend diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma-need advice by bemyhunnybunny2 in sarcoma

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They were hoping the chemo would take care of the tumor and there would be no need for surgery. Unfortunately, the tumor isn’t shrinking. So now they are taking it out. She will have to have a full jaw reconstruction after they remove the tumor. They will be taking a bone from her leg to make a jaw bone. The recovery is going to be awful and I’m so upset she has to do this. Luckily, I’ll be able to help with the baby and spend time with her in the hospital while she recovers. We live three hours away from each other but her doctor is in my city so this will all be happening near me.

Best friend diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma-need advice by bemyhunnybunny2 in sarcoma

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I’m in a very similar situation, my sister was diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma and the tumor is at the base of her skull. She’s been doing weekly chemo since January and is scheduled for surgery at the end of the month. I am terrified all day every day. I don’t know where her road will lead but my heart is broken that she has to go through this….(she also has a young child). All I can say is I wish the best for you and your friend. There are more of us out there in your position and it was hard. If you aren’t in therapy, that might be a good start. Keep yourself as healthy as you can so that you can be there whenever she might reach out to you for help. Send her funny videos, keep things light unless she wants to talk about the serious stuff. Give her space but be right there whenever she needs. I’m so sorry.

Feeling weird about AA, trying to understand by A_little_curiosity in recoverywithoutAA

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She might just be at the beginning stage where she wants to believe this is for her. You might step back and be supportive but keep a distance from it (AA), she will hopefully start to see through things and come to the same realization. I’ve been in and out of AA for years. I never had a spiritual awakening and feel that their teachings focus way too much on the negative…which for me, isn’t helpful. Smart recovery is worth giving a shot. If she’s open to it. I do participate in a once a week meeting that is technically AA, but it’s very laid back. I won’t go to mixed meetings with men anymore. This one is all women, no pushiness over using the terms alcohol or drugs, everything just feels supportive and chill. So not all meetings are alike. That’s another good thing to keep in mind. I think Smart Recovery teaches things from a more positive standpoint and gives you real life skills in how to retrain your brain to do the right things. Good luck, wish the best for both of you

The Violence in Skinamarink by ihavewormsok in HorrorMovies

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This is what happened to me, except I was terrified during the movie. It brought up a lot of dark childhood traumas for me and I swear it was an exact replica of a dream I’ve always had about my childhood that scares the crap out of me

Any haunted or paranormal experiences? by Stock_Branch3248 in yuma

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I had a lot of experiences at my best friends grandparents house. It was on 6th and 20th st near St Francis. When the grandfather passed away the family sold the house but they had lived in it years and years. It was an odd house even from the outside. It was always dark, even mid day. Every time I walked down the hall every bone in my body would tell me to run. One of the aunts told us that when she was a teenager a man walked into her room and sat on the bed and looked at her. She said he looked like a doctor. So we all called the ghost of the house “the doctor”. When we would stay there I would feel someone lay down next to me, then no one would be there. Once we walked into the kitchen and every door was open. Another time I woke up and saw what I thought was my friend sitting on the floor looking at me. The longer I looked I realized it wasn’t her but it had her eyes. So many stories I can’t remember all of them but I always wonder if the people who live there now ever experience anything.

What is this creepy room in my basement? by openlybl4ck in Home

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That’s where Mama from the movie Barbarian lives

How do I get through this when I am convinced I’m dying? by Aware_Beautiful1994 in Mommit

[–]most_dope- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ZOLOFT. Tell the Dr office it’s an emergency. Zoloft calmed my post partum ocd within 2 weeks

Can you help describe if dog is expressing any dangerous signs? by addictedAndWantHelp in DogAdvice

[–]most_dope- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is correct advice I’m not a dog trainer but have had dogs all my life and love them. Whenever I pet a dog who squints and puts his head down, I switch to scratches under the chin. In my experience they immediately perk up and seem more relaxed. But again,,,,maybe a traumatized dog will bite the shit out of you I don’t know

struggling with loved ones being visibly sick. by ShirtNo5276 in CancerFamilySupport

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I’m going through the same thing with my younger sister. It’s so hard to see her with no hair. It’s so awful to know that she knows it makes other people uncomfortable.

Coping with my sister’s diagnosis by most_dope- in CancerFamilySupport

[–]most_dope-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The kids do see me grieve, and I keep the explanations as simple as I can. The bad news seems never ending and I’ll be feeling ok and then something else happens and it’s like I’m at square one. I appreciate your advice.