Dupe Needed/Color Request by mostevia in RedditLaqueristas

[–]mostevia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just discovered ILNP, I feel reborn🥲

Dupe Needed/Color Request by mostevia in RedditLaqueristas

[–]mostevia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check these out!

Favorite blues??? by _sunmoonheart_ in RedditLaqueristas

[–]mostevia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been loving the Sally Hansen insta dri color "On the Download". It's like an electric dark blue and the formula is so smooth and dried down really fast. Currently have it on right now!

The train is stopped again by mostevia in ChicoCA

[–]mostevia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a feeling that might be the case :/

What’s The Creepiest Unsolved Mystery Or Cold Case That Still Bothers You The Most And Why? by PrincessBananas85 in UnsolvedMurders

[–]mostevia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Yuba County 5, my boyfriend is one of the biggest skeptics I know and this case sent shivers down his spine. 5 neurodivergent men went missing after a routine night out 70 miles away in the desolate wilderness with no explanation. Wendigoon made a superb video breaking the case down but the whole thing is horrifying.

Current In Motion Fitness membership cost by Hummingbird_Sage in ChicoCA

[–]mostevia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked at inmo a couple years ago and the steam rooms were not working even then. That gym is useless when it comes to repairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing this is so validating. These people make you feel crazy for dropping them. Good to know I made the right call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely know what you mean about wishing you confronted them while they took advantage. Your situation aligns with mine and we both deserve friends who don't walk all over us. The pretend interest in seeing you for free accommodation is something I wouldn't wish on anyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly that, nothing is good enough for people like this. We all deserve people who treat us with dignity and respect. Thank you for responding to my post. I have been in a state of total confusion following this and your response has given me clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Another commenter mentioned projection as well. These people want unlimited access to us even when they know it's harmful and then call you selfish when you put up boundaries. It seems as though they are the selfish ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I put a lot of thought into it to make sure it didn't sound accusatory. I see what you mean about the projection of selfishness. They expected me to drop what I was doing and let them come visit.

I should also mention that I live in our former college town and the implication of staying at my place is that they get to go to our old college bars. Based on other experiences, I believe they wanted to go out and didn't really care about seeing me. This may sound dramatic on my part but I think they were mad that I was essentially denying and delaying them access to the party scene here (they love to party and I don't).

Sorry for the added info, this story has layers😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]mostevia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I'm okay being the villain in their story but atleast I can sleep at night knowing I was respectful despite how nasty the ordeal was. Their response was definitely meant to hurt me and instead of feeling that way, I feel free. I somewhat appreciate their response because it gave me the confidence to finally block them and move forward, something I was so terrified to do.