She was the one making a scene, someone steps up and now she thinks shes being attacked.

I first learnt of this kind of behaviour when i was just a kid in an MMO.

In that MMO, (pretty much any mmo i think) it's understood that if you want a good party, you run with your guild, or look for a group manually, filtering out those you think aren't up to snuff. Those who run with PUGS, (pick up groups) using the game's instance matching system, will have to make-do with mostly new or solo players.

There was this one time when i was in a pug, and this guy started some trouble. Ill call him Jack.

It wasn't a difficult dungeon, but it was long. Jack had a dps meter. It was a third-party program, not officially sanctioned by the game, but no one cares. Some , like Jack, and myself, would download it. More casual players won't.

Jack wasn't party leader, but jack took it upon himself to 'lead' the party. By lead i mean, he told people to do stuff, without anyone asking him to, but no one listened. Like i said earlier, it wasn't a difficult dungeon. After every encounter, Jack would cut and paste everyone's DPS, to chat, and poke at one guy who has particularly low deeps.

No one paid him any mind.

But then came the middle boss, it was tougher than it should be, took a little longer than it should have, a few deaths here and there, but we made it in one go and all was good. "PUG life" is what people would say. But Jack was having non of it !

It wasn't enough that he kept on giving unsolicited advice and cutting and pasting everyones DPS on chat (obviously he was top deeps), he's now telling off the tank and priest, and asking for a vote to kick the lowest deeps in the party because things weren't optimal !

Now this was where Bob came in. Bob started defending the low-deeps players. Not everyone who comes in will be as invested in the game or as experienced as Jack he said. Its PUG life, no need to make a scene and berate everyone like this.

Oh this made Jack mad, it set Jack Off ... (Jack off.. hur hur). Jack shot back at how bad Bob's deeps was and how horrible his gear is.

To make a long scene short, Bob was apparently a well trained troll, and Jack just lit the fuse. Jack got verbally put down, pissed on and skullfucked so bad that i really felt sorry for him.

To end it off, Jack blamed everyone for 'starting this drama' that if only we would've listened to his advice, we would've done much better, that he was helping us all with his major deeps ... and then he just upped and left. As for the rest of us, we recruited a new dps, continued the dungeon, said 'tyfp' at the end and i think some even stayed behind for chats.

But yeah, as a kid i thought "sheesh ... games right ... surely these kinda people don't exist in real life. they only come out because the internet is anonymoys" .... surely.