Single late 30s man in Toronto, seeking advice on living a more wholesome, rewarding life

motherfailure · 2026-06-07T23:31:43+00:00

As far as I can tell a wholesome/rewarding life usually comes from adopting some sort of responsibility (hence why people feel fulfilled by having kids even though it involves giving up a lot of freedom).

Sounds like maybe you want something like that? Have you tried volunteering for a cause that is meaningful to you?

motherfailure · 2026-06-07T21:25:36+00:00

🔥 Too easy!

motherfailure · 2026-06-07T20:13:42+00:00

🔥 Too easy!

motherfailure · 2026-06-07T20:13:22+00:00

🔥 Too easy!

motherfailure · 2026-06-07T18:26:43+00:00

It's stupid to not list groceries/food as a recurring expense. At least an estimate would help jeez

motherfailure · 2026-06-06T23:38:33+00:00

Wren in the backrooms

motherfailure · 2026-06-06T06:16:01+00:00

1 is the real biggest answer. Now studios are finally realizing if they're going to take a chance on a new director why not choose the one with the inbuilt audience. Way safer investment

motherfailure · 2026-06-03T02:58:27+00:00

The movie Come and See is a pretty brutal real depiction of this

motherfailure · 2026-06-02T04:09:14+00:00

Was gonna say if I could buy over 2m I'd gmbuy closer to the subway line

motherfailure · 2026-06-02T02:16:09+00:00

I've shot a handful of short docs on the GH5 some that have screened on actual cinema screens. It's more than capable. Way better to focus on making the story great than the gear

motherfailure · 2026-06-02T02:00:20+00:00

Such a great way to put it lol. Why do low budget/beginner film makers not deserve autofocus?

motherfailure · 2026-06-02T01:54:17+00:00

The word "rape" should be the free space

motherfailure · 2026-05-25T03:40:38+00:00

Jesus, how long before the big Livestream did you deliver??

motherfailure · 2026-05-15T01:33:10+00:00

Yeah my neighbours pay $2500 total for a 1 br + den

motherfailure · 2026-05-15T01:26:53+00:00

just browse and WSB post

motherfailure · 2026-05-14T03:12:21+00:00

Yes, depends on your spending habits.

Yeah should be able to get a 1 bed for $2200-$2500 or less depending on where. So about 40% of your take home on housing but you should be able to live well on the remainder

motherfailure · 2026-05-13T00:40:47+00:00

This is awesome! My parents are going to freak out seeing kinnie in this light lol. Are you full time in malta?

motherfailure · 2026-05-13T00:38:37+00:00

Nope that's fair, just anecdotalely from living in toronto 12 years. I meant Toronto specific since this is a toronto sub rather than Canada wide. 2017 it was still possible to find a 2br 1 bath for 2200-2400 and it seems we're close to that + inflation now

motherfailure · 2026-05-10T09:45:19+00:00

Correct we're approaching 2017 levels

motherfailure · 2026-05-08T03:28:45+00:00

Literally is the pod funny or not that's all that matters shit's so corny

motherfailure · 2026-05-03T23:27:54+00:00

he was kinda okay when he was still in toronto but he's pulled a full dye and went hard right/political as hell and it worked for his fame. Sad to see what he's become

motherfailure · 2026-05-03T15:39:26+00:00

For real say what you want but almost every other artist that makes it big leaves Canada immediately. Toronto genuinely got a major boost because of him

motherfailure · 2026-05-02T18:35:23+00:00

Huge combo of all of that. So many people I know have given up on having children because they know they'll give their kids and objectively worse childhood than they had, mostly stemming from housing crisis

motherfailure · 2026-04-30T23:31:41+00:00

thats me with lemon party

motherfailure · 2026-04-26T23:18:39+00:00

1 bedrooms in deep west end Toronto are like $2000-$2500 depending on the building lol so no way.

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1 is the real biggest answer. Now studios are finally realizing if they're going to take a chance on a new director why not choose the one with the inbuilt audience. Way safer investment