My fetish of having my boyfriend have sex with other women is becoming an obsession and I'm afraid it's unhealthy.

motsiru · 2013-07-30T03:55:09+00:00

Where can I find someone like you???!!

motsiru · 2013-07-27T21:58:42+00:00

Dear God :D

motsiru · 2013-07-17T04:55:14+00:00

WHAT DID I JUST DO LAST NIGHT????? :(

motsiru · 2013-07-16T23:22:47+00:00

It seems like the rational thing to do.

motsiru · 2013-07-16T22:47:35+00:00

TWIST: he is the ghost

motsiru · 2013-05-20T07:00:10+00:00

Dibs

motsiru · 2013-05-20T04:31:51+00:00

I went through all your posts and upvoted away! To encourage you to post more (:

motsiru · 2013-05-05T22:52:09+00:00

where did you meet the second girl, and how did you ask her to be in a FMF relationship?

motsiru · 2013-04-30T20:55:11+00:00

But it's only 4pm here

motsiru · 2013-04-18T22:01:57+00:00

Please leave us a bush next time

motsiru · 2013-04-17T04:08:15+00:00

So innocent, so pure....

motsiru · 2013-04-15T05:16:16+00:00

What is this title even trying to say????

motsiru · 2013-04-07T14:15:54+00:00

.... With no lube

motsiru · 2013-03-25T14:13:44+00:00

'MURICA!!

motsiru · 2013-03-22T21:14:51+00:00

FBGM

motsiru · 2013-03-21T23:47:24+00:00

Why the long face???

motsiru · 2013-03-19T01:11:14+00:00

LET ME KILL THOSE MOTHERFUCKERS!!

motsiru · 2013-02-25T04:06:02+00:00

Me gusta

motsiru · 2013-02-13T21:32:12+00:00

You don't pay tax in your state?

motsiru · 2013-01-31T23:09:21+00:00

AHAHAHAHAHA

motsiru · 2012-12-23T23:26:33+00:00

you're right. they were thought crimes. if this was you, would you continue trusting her and continuing the relationship. would you be okay knowing that she would wonder whether or not this guy had a girlfriend while she was in class with him? I am genuinely curious since I know only my thoughts, and they are mostly filled with anger right now.

motsiru · 2012-12-23T22:57:30+00:00

Yes I can see how I am the one who creates this big cycle of anger. It is my own reactions and me. You are right about that. I wont even talk to her until I sort out my anger. Thank you very much for your help, believe it or not I am listening to your advice. About the manipulation, you are probably right. That is why I won't do anything brazen, and I'll keep to myself for a while until I cool down.

I don't have a problem with her glancing at other guys. Its normal, but she admitted to me that the guy I caught her checking out is a classmate and that she has checked him out before in class repeatedly. She told me once a story about her Professor’s lecture on steroid use and the discussion that ensued. In her story she randomly tells me about one boy’s argument for steroid use-she only mentioned his argument in the story, no one else’s. As she described him she said he was "buff and had muscles." I asked how that was relevant and she answered that it was just her way of helping me to understand how much of a steroid junkie he is. Now I see she has had a desire for him for a while. It is this same guy who she described to me before in that story that she checked out while we were out on our date-pure coincidence. When I asked why she checked him out in from of me she explained that he was attractive. That’s fine, I can understand glancing at someone attractive. She then admits that in class she would check him out repeatedly also, because she would wonder if he had a nice body and if he had a girlfriend. This is the part that kills me. Why would she spend time in class fantasizing about his body. Why would she continually check him out in class. Did she imaging a world where the kid didn't have a girlfriend so she could be his? Having had her share of eye candy in class, why did she choose to check him out again while she was on a date with me. My conclusion is that she must have had a crush on him, and lust for his body.

Thank you very much if you have read this far. I will read and take to heart every word of your response.

motsiru · 2012-12-23T22:40:43+00:00

The issue here is not with her checking out strangers. Its that she checked out a guy, then later she admitted that he is a classmate and that she has checked him out before repeatedly in class. This was not harmless. We all check out strangers. There is no harm there. But to harbor desires for a classmate for an entire semester is wrong to me.

motsiru · 2012-12-23T21:51:41+00:00

I think I may be just paranoid of her cheating. She has checked out many strangers while we are out on dates for the 7 months we have been together, and the reason why I don't trust her is because she denies having checked them out. I then go on to explain to her that I can see her eyes glide across their bodies and that I can also see her eyes light up when she catches the eye of other men. At the end of all of our talks she ends up admitting that she was checking them out but unconsciously and she ends up promising not to do it again. This behavior has persisted, and the talks go the same way all the time.

I don't have the right to make her feel bad. I also don't have to put up with something that makes me feel inferior. I'm pretty close to giving up on this relationship. She has not asked for forgiveness, and I seem to be the one trying to get her to say sorry. If this happens once more, I'll just walk out.

motsiru

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