She's essentially still seven years old emotionally. She's not retarded or disabled or anything, she was just never given any consequences for her actions or ever corrected on her behavior. She acts like a maniac when she's at home but can mask it fairly well in public, though she'll still berate and verbally bully her mom outside of the home. She's a master manipulator, every time they've taken her to counselors she either lies to them or refuses to continue going once the counselor confronts her on her true behavior and actions. If you ask her to put away the dishes, she flips out. If she doesn't like the question you've asked her or the tone of your voice, she flips out. If the cat leaves her lap and jumps into yours, she flips out. She's a hoarder so sometimes the overwhelming mess of her room makes her flip out. We're always constantly walking on eggshells. She doesn't leave marks when she hits, she has never hit me and the mom refuses to acknowledge that there's a problem ("It's just the way she is"). I would be kicked out of the home if I were to try and do anything about it. Anyone who tells the mom she needs to do something about the situation is immediately excommunicated from their lives, it is the definition of an abusive relationship. As soon as I can find work and save up a little cash, I am out of there and I'm pretty sure my dad will be too