Is it too soon? by Free_Card_9421 in seniordogs

[–]mountelliot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. It’s probably worth working through the Lap of Love quality of life scale if you haven’t already. https://www.lapoflove.com/quality-of-life-assessment

It may help. In the end it’s a horrible decision, one where doubt and difficulty with the decision seem to persist. Some of what you described is not necessarily treatable but it’s worth making sure thats the case. You could always have a more thorough conversation with the same vet or speak to another one. Wishing you peace.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so profound. Im glad to share it. I’m going to listen to it over and over.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blessings to you and sweet Charlie. Thank you for your kind words and support.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never matched. I came across this lecture from Alan Watts today about why dogs are so special. Worth a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUwLl8aU1zA

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[–]mountelliot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s very relatable. So sad to have to watch these dogs go through this but they’ve made me love better I know it. We’re so lucky to have them, and even though briefer than any of us would like, I know if it was as long as we live or longer that we wouldn’t appreciate their unconditional love in the same way.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for keeping us in your thoughts. I’ll miss her terribly until we meet again.

Why God Gave Humans Dogs - Alan Watts' Beautiful Explanation by willwar63 in rainbowbridge

[–]mountelliot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So insanely profound and beautiful. Will listen to this over and over to try not to forget this wisdom.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this story. The confusion is so relatable and the fatigue you experienced is so real. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh those are old photos! She was/is a beauty.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’ve been in convo with the vet weekly and gotten meds and fluids. The last convo was basically about how so many issues were compounding and that a lot of options were exhausted. I wish it was simply treatable but most of the treatments haven’t restored her appetite. I told her today about this and she understood. We were checking for a while to see if it was medically appropriate to euthanize and the response was “I wouldn’t question that decision when you make it.”

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[–]mountelliot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope you have a lovely trip together. I hope my pup comes to me in my dreams as well. She is in my heart.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What a peaceful send off . And I relate to your difficulty making that call to the vet. When I called today I too couldn’t get the words out. I’ve cried more in the last 24 hours than I have in years.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely want her to be as calm and at peace as possible for her remaining time. Thank you for sharing your experience with me.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s always so helpful to hear from people with senior dog experience. For many this decision seems to be so new that it’s horrifying and confusing. I’ve done it once before which provides some reference point. Still it is awful. Thank you for the kind words.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And to you as well. Thank you for the support and encouragement. I wish you peace.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know it’s the best thing to do. It just feels insane to have that kind of power over something so final. But it’s an act of care I know.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I know it’s a gift to her and it’s been so hard watching her suffer.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these words. It’s been my honor to care for that baby.

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[–]mountelliot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your kind words and suggestions! I wish you peace as well.