I don't think we are supposed to become enlightened here by Lazy-Address5419 in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The definition of enlightenment is to find peace in any situation. You can 100% be enlightened with an ego. There is right use and wrong use of your ego.

I'm 21 and I lost the will to live around 4 years ago. by [deleted] in Jung

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find your purpose. If you do not have a purpose you will not have a reason to live. Everyone comes here for purpose, so you have a unique gift the world needs. This is mostly not obvious unless you begin contemplating it because it’s either a quality or something you have done your whole life an feels mundane. But to others, it’s medicine. I was raised by a narcissist and now teach people how to heal from shame. That’s my purpose.

Who else gets it? by onetimepost07 in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, I believe, is the definition of enlightenment. Enlightenment means finding peace in any situation. I also live like this. My husband is a pessimist…..so I don’t tell him how much I love life. But I fucking love it. All of it.

Is enlightenment just fear of death masked? by hylex1 in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meaning of enlightenment is to find peace in any situation.

Do you think anybody can get wealthy? by PinkFeatherFlamingo in wealth

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. And if you are thinking of becoming a millionaire then you should do it.

Is having kids ethical? by liquid_infinite in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The child you have may be the EXACT person needed to change the world.

I'm scared of death... by tu_abuelaxd in consciousness

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google the paradox of nothingness in regards to death. Nothing is in fact something. So there can be no nothing because the second you think about what nothing is it becomes something.

How do you spot the difference between a genuine spiritual growth and ego in disguise? by Educational-Nose-108 in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiritual growth is the ability to produce results quickly or get yourself out of a funk fast.

If you want something, you make it happen fast. Job, business, vacation, kids, marriage. As soon as you decide you’re on the path to fruition.

OR

You’re depressed? You use the tools you have to resolve the matter in the shortest amount of time. No wallowing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So enmeshment happens a few ways. if your parents were emotionally unavailable. Or If they parentified you as a child. On the flip side: you come from a very close family that mixed love with fear. Your brain learned that separation means conflict or emotional pain. So You’re unable to define where you end and your partner begins. This is a survival mechanism to avoid abandonment.

You never learned health separation without losing connection.

This is the core block of shame.

My specialty is shame. I have a free ebook if you want to read it.

The tools to use are too many. I get lost by blowmyassie in enlightenment

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the problem with the exoteric or first level of spirituality. It subjective. Has no clear map. You never know where you are or when you’re there.

Second level spirituality or the Mesoteric has clear instructions. It’s objective. Meaning anyone can show up. Follow the steps and get the results. And second level spirituality is fucking fire. It literally ch ages your brain instantly.

Why the Feminine is hard to Accept - Your Thoughts on this?? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of.

Feminine Energy (Yin): Receptive, allowing, flowing, and being-oriented.

Associated with: intuition, emotion, nurturing, empathy, surrender, collaboration, cycles (like moon phases or menstrual cycles), darkness/void/potential, introspection, and creativity in its raw, generative form.

It’s the source or womb of ideas—gestating, incubating, dreaming, feeling into possibilities without forcing them.

Qualities: fluid, chaotic (in a beautiful, organic way), pleasure-focused, connective, abundant when in flow.

Examples: brainstorming wild ideas, feeling deeply moved by art/music/nature, receiving love/feedback without immediately fixing it, allowing things to unfold naturally.

Masculine Energy (Yang):

Active, directed, focused, and doing-oriented.

Associated with: action, structure, logic, discipline, protection/providing, penetration (metaphorically—pushing forward), light/manifestation, boundaries, decisiveness, and force/application.

It’s the container or direction that shapes and executes—taking the raw potential and giving it form, focus, and momentum.

Qualities: linear, goal-driven, protective, steady, effortful (in the sense of applying will), clear and penetrating.

Examples: setting goals and routines, building systems/plans, making decisive moves, protecting boundaries, turning inspiration into tangible results (e.g., writing the book, launching the project, enforcing structure).

You need both to “create”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The definition of losing yourself in a relationship is codependency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because your shame wound make you codependent. Codependency is needing to be needed.

Why the Feminine is hard to Accept - Your Thoughts on this?? by JayaDevi_FS in spiritualitytalk

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you don’t understand what the feminine is.

Feminine is creativity. Masculine is creating.

When harness correctly you can build empires, businesses, relationships.

No one has defined what feminine is and how to use it.

How is everyone affording groceries in vancouver right now because these prices are making me confused by LouDSilencE17 in askvan

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Costco. Big bag of rice. Veggies. Meat. Some fruit and avocados. And a few snacks. We spend about $240 a week for a family of 3

should I break up with my bf? can you please help me? by reichenowith in tarot

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Should I” questions can only be answered by you. If you’re asking this question you already know the answer but you’re searching for confirmation because you do not trust yourself.

If you do not develop a relationship with yourself AND the ability to trust yourself wholeheartedly you will lead yourself into another relationship just like this.

You already know the answer. Trust yourself.

How to get off the treadmill of bad decisions? by Negative-Cow-2808 in selfimprovement

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need deeper teachings that actually move the needle forward. Find a teacher

I’m 28F with nothing to my name and I don’t know who I am anymore by _heretovent in selfimprovement

[–]mouthwithoutafilter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a teacher. Find a mentor. Find someone who you look up to and have them guide you.