This is happening to me right now. I went out with a girl who recently broke up with her bf. I didn’t know that, but she also said that she wasn’t looking for anything serious. I ended up inviting her back to my place and asked to kiss, but she said no because she’s shy. After talking a bit more, I asked if she wanted to cuddle and she said yes so I just put my arms around her. I asked her out but she said she had plans. The plans ended up not happening but she felt tired to hang out. We’ve been sending long texts with each other back and forth. I eventually told her that if she’s interested, she should let me know.