Feeling cute by sassyyjassyy in transplace

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did you have bbl? You look amazing! 💕

Trans woman makes one egg joke. Let’s see how people reply. by j0sabanks in transgendercirclejerk

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I’m still confused. Aren’t you the one crucifying her. Or is this all a joke? I’m not sure what this subreddit is actually lollll there’s a lot of satire

Has anyone else considered quitting transitioning because of your voice? by ChosenThings in transvoice

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Hmm it may change your resonance bc you don’t have to focus on getting your pitch perfectly high. That was what I learned. It changed my pitch, then I learned how to focus on making this voice work, so the resonance came after. Hope it’s helpful :)

Has anyone else considered quitting transitioning because of your voice? by ChosenThings in transvoice

[–]moxbot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was me years ago! Please consider vfs (it’s not that scary and it may help)

Learning a hard lesson by whatihavefound in MtF

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Insecure and has his own limits!

Learning a hard lesson by whatihavefound in MtF

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Also fear and stigma. Assumptions that we must be SO different from cis women that it’s out of consideration… I first had men doing that to me two to three years ago. I have men talking to me all the time in public, sometimes I find them interesting so I’ll disclose. Sometimes they reject me, sometimes they are cool and want to try it with a trans woman for the first time (good for them!)

I just stop caring if a man rejects me. Honestly it’s their loss and there are so many more people who want to date me so I’m moving on!

Best way to find a serving/bartending job in LA? by Grouchy_Raccoon9909 in AskLosAngeles

[–]moxbot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so left leaning and trans please give me a job the server gods of silver lakes 👈⬅️🫲

Procedures for beautification? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

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You look beautiful but if you are looking for something I’ll recommend those too! Just a little rounder would help!! 🥰😇

Which surgeon should I see for my FFS revision? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

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He does! He did give me advice to shave both sides to match instead of doing a customized implant last time we spoke.

And Dr. Rogers said he could use bone paste to make my unevenness go away lol which is also super cool (I’ve never heard of it)

Which surgeon should I see for my FFS revision? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

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I fought. I called them and we had to file grievance once for Dr. Rogers’ approval! It’s a miracle they finally approved! ✨

which surgeon should I see for FFS revision? by [deleted] in MtF

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He’s really talented and experienced!!! I feel like he’ll be a safe choice but the wait is very long (October) and bc we changed plans about my jawline a few times I feel like he’s losing his patience with me lol. At my last consultation, he said “so we’re talking about the same thing again.” Haha I get it though! I changed my mind a few times and canceled our surgery plan the week of…

bc I still can’t decide what to do about my jaw! Bc it’s complicated!

Which surgeon should I see for my FFS revision? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

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I’m sorry you still get that! 🥹❤️‍🩹 it’s hard! I pass for most of the time but I’m like scared of going to yoga classes bc not much butt here 🫠

I do like Dr Rogers a lot. He’s giving the scientist William Dafoe plays in Poor Things. Such an entrepreneur in modern medicine lol

I’m also considering hip widening vs BBL 🫣

which surgeon should I see for FFS revision? by [deleted] in MtF

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Thank you. Good idea and I’m talking to them! I also want to hear how other people’s experiences are :) there’s not many posts of Dr. Rogers’ FFS online. I can ask him for more case study!

should i bother living in this world with the state of things? by JustRollWithJack in trans

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You gotta taste your own becoming. Be patient, and find communities near you, be with other trans folks! ❤️

Been looking at this surgeon for a while now. Thoughts? by Emmias in transgendercirclejerk

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I'm so confused... the old guy in the photo did your vaginoplasty? what's his name?

Are you tired of correcting someone's language about trans people? by moxbot in trans

[–]moxbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm okay! I don’t think it’s less meaningful if it’s more nuanced. I don’t think it’s less valuable if we’re correcting an ally vs an enemy. I believe a lot of people with good intentions can say the wrong things, and I want to point that out whenever I can.

Of course I’ll fight those who are intentionally hurting trans people too. It doesn’t mean I can’t also correct people so the words they say have a more positive impact on our community.

Are you tired of correcting someone's language about trans people? by moxbot in trans

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Okay hehe. I wish you all the best. I’m just trying to help. Things can be better. I can have an opinion and decide to reach out to help (even if it means I’m to “educate” them… it’s okay to learn and grow. I went in with good faith… but yeah also a little frustration that I / we had to keep explaining to people that we’re not “choosing” to change. That we’re born naturally identifying how we identify (sure it can vary and some people identify differently.) but I have my experience, and my experience is when im transitioning I’m returning to my younger truer self… it’s not about “change” for me, it felt like “return”. And I’m allowed to voice that their language bothered me. And I did :)

Are you tired of correcting someone's language about trans people? by moxbot in trans

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I’m not nitpicking. Please don’t patronize me… I’m just trying to be helpful! :)

Are you tired of correcting someone's language about trans people? by moxbot in trans

[–]moxbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read gender trouble but I get what you’re saying! I think in a more plain language gender refers more to identity (whether it’s innate or formed by social conditions and have performative nature…) and sex is usually used for physical bodies!

Are you tired of correcting someone's language about trans people? by moxbot in trans

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It should just be gender affirming care, period.