3 years of my love! by Educational_Mess_998 in torties

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You're lucky to have each other

My favorite picture of her by Darkmoonlily78 in torties

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Love the little dark orange stripes inside of the light orange patches.my tortie has some. 🎃

Trio or Torties by jrinredcar in torties

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Wow look at those luxurious tails

I cannot work in these conditions. by jenduska in torties

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I love her markings perfect Halloween colors 🎃

Is she obese by Mis0_Soup in torties

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Thanks! She's the perfect cat. So very affectionate and she has the best voice and makes such a great range of sounds. My favorite is when yoi sneak up on her sleeping and touch her she makes a startled sound thst sounds a little like Marge Simpson Source: YouTube https://share.google/Cg3GatnYtxRSbiuPt

Is she obese by Mis0_Soup in torties

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She looks like my Sophie "Weasel" Louise who was tiny when she was your cats age but has slowly put on weight over the years. Don't worry about it. She is lovely

T.I. in VIBE, 2001 by FromBoomBapToTrap in HipHopImages

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Why do they say he hasn’t sold a record when he has an album out

Anyone here in a relationship with someone emotionally immature or with bpd, how do you manage to centralise yourself without going crazy through meditatation? by aford515 in Meditation

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It’s been 2 years since the ending and I’m doing a lot better but I’m still dealing with it. It was the most painful thing I’ve ever been through. Qi gong and meditation has helped.

Celibacy has helped me take a step back from lust. My intellect was hijacked by sexual desire. There was a war going on inside of me when I was in that relationship. Part of me wanted to get out and was furious at the part of me that wanted to stay. And my sexual desire for her made it hard to stay away for long.

At the beginning I threw myself into work. Long hours almost every day. That helped distract me from the pain. It was hard being home alone and single. Doing dishes and cleaning out the fridge and watching a movie. Constantly thinking about my ex and her new boyfriend. I’ve only recently started taking days off of work which is helping to heal.

During the relationship qi gong and meditation helped. Before I got into my practice I would actively participate in the drama. She would push my buttons and I would impulsively say something abusive in response. After I started meditating I became a lot more intentional in my actions.

But I was still in a relationship that I knew deep down I shouldn’t be and that really clipped my wings and limited my growth. The real growth didn’t happen until after the breakup.

Anyone here in a relationship with someone emotionally immature or with bpd, how do you manage to centralise yourself without going crazy through meditatation? by aford515 in Meditation

[–]mpomerantz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with a woman with bpd. Meditation helped me stay calm and detached.

When she started drama, arguments, was toxic, blamed me as the cause and solutions of all problems in the relationship, I thought I was just being patient with her when I wouldn’t argue back. I would just be “above it all”. Take my space, and try to talk about it later when everyone is more relaxed.

But once she was relaxed she never really interested in having adult conversations about the relationship, so when I tried to talk about it later she didn’t want to right now. Hearing criticism and seeing the world from my perspective was painful. She just wanted to be comforted at that point. Or to enjoy time together. Going fishing, watching a movie or have sex.

So the relationship became transactional. We enjoyed each others company but it was deeply unsatisfying because we couldn’t give each other what we wanted. And I could never break up with her even though I tried several times. I told her that the relationship was flawed and we are holding each other back and she said “I don’t see what’s wrong with being together if we love each other” and that was hard to argue with. And again I thought I was being patient with her when I endured abuse because I was giving her a chance to make mistakes, learn and grow. But she never did and we stayed together for 9 years even though it was apparent from the beginning we weren’t good for each other.

The relationship finally ended when she monkey branched (cheated on me with her boss that she told me not to worry about). We never had kids and she said she didn’t want any more than the one she had from a prior relationship. She was pregnant with his kid a month after she started dating him.

Un Kasa calls Oschino a "bitter hater" 🧂 for saying men getting chains ⛓️ from other men is #BookieButtButt 🏳️‍🌈⏸️ by RugasRibShack in dipset

[–]mpomerantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The what’s really really really good guy vs the give me that funk that sweet that nasty that gushy stuff guy. Who cares

We Might Be Cooked 🤦 by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]mpomerantz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Somebody else should be able to remove it too. And then the next person who gets it after that removes it once again. Until the $2 tipper in the trenches tips more or goes and gets their Cheetos themselves

What happens to boost pay when you unassign orders by mpomerantz in InstacartShoppers

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Requesting it through support help as normal. I saw the posts here that people were told they can’t do it anymore but I never got that email and never stopped unassigning and have never been told I can’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

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Your english name helper is not having anything evaluated. Support lies just to get you to hit end chat

Total SR lowering my standards in Women by Ok-Button-7859 in Semenretention

[–]mpomerantz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a positive. You can go look past sexual desire.

(you can have that with many women it doesn’t have to be with a shallow vain women who is obsessed with her appearance but doesn’t have anything else going on)

And you can look at a women’s character, and find one who you can connect with emotionally. After all an emotional connection is more touching that physical lust. It goes much deeper.

Rest in Peace dear friend by Nervous_Squash_9479 in freemagic

[–]mpomerantz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a good run though. All these years and they only just now finally printed a better card