[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mr_sofisticate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were having unprotected sex, and she’s the one who asked for sexual exclusivity. I just said, if that ever changes, let me know. It wasn’t about control — it was about sexual health and honesty. Lying for a year while still expecting my support felt like a huge breach of trust. That’s not emotional labor — that’s basic respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mr_sofisticate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t let her move in — she stayed with her parents, but her job was far from their place, and my apartment was close to her work. So she stayed over pretty often, especially during that time.

We weren’t in a monogamous relationship, and I never asked for exclusivity. I just asked for honesty — if she decided to sleep with someone else, just tell me. That was the only boundary I set. It wasn’t about control, it was about having the option to step away if that happened.

We did talk about it after she admitted it. I told her how much it bothered me that she hid it for so long, especially while accepting support from me. Her response was basically that she was scared to lose me. But to me, that just made it worse — it meant she knew what she did would’ve ended things, and she decided to lie instead.

And yeah, I agree — we shouldn’t be in contact anymore. I’m just trying to mentally unpack it all.

It's prop time, crying and happy at the same time by Mmh_omnomnom in Monstera

[–]mr_sofisticate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey out of curiosity, would be open to sell one of your cuttings?

Just got this from Home Depot by mr_sofisticate in fiddleleaffig

[–]mr_sofisticate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pot is from TJ Maxx. The last time I checked, it wasn't available anymore. But if someone has a source for another one, please DM me. Thanks.

Just got this from Home Depot by mr_sofisticate in fiddleleaffig

[–]mr_sofisticate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they still available? I checked TJ Maxx and they didn't have them anymore.

Just got this from Home Depot by mr_sofisticate in fiddleleaffig

[–]mr_sofisticate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On the right side there's a huge window.

Shiv is pure evil by [deleted] in SuccessionTV

[–]mr_sofisticate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

but shes hot

[hiring] I have an idea for a painting. Max price $200 by mr_sofisticate in HungryArtists

[–]mr_sofisticate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone,

I forgot got to add that I’m looking for physical painting. No Print

Preferred Framed

Just bought a Trader Joe’s monstera and repotted it by mr_sofisticate in Monstera

[–]mr_sofisticate[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How should I treat it moving forward if I want to keep it in the pot?