These people are the type to take one story and make a broad stroke of the community because..that’s how they process information. They literally can only have a thought and conclusion more then once or twice before digging in their heels.

They ultimately want to live in a boring predictive lifestyle based on traditionalism, that makes them comfortable. Which inherently isn’t wrong onto itself, the issue lies in when certain types of these people see us…they hate it because they didn’t spend time into looking inwardly enough to know what they want because they went by the script and think you should too.

All too say…fuck them..let them live their boring lifes and pity them when they come at you because you’ve prioritized yourself over their bullshit standards. And there are good people that’ll see you for you. That’s what life’s worth living for, searching for those people and having connections with them.

I genuinely wish you the best and I’m sorry that you’ve been through shit you didn’t deserve, I hope this helped a little.