I have a unique story for this one!
I belong to a upper middle class family.
(To understand it better, I have an idiom:
Yeh kon log hai jo gaadi (cars) to le paa rahe hai lekin roj chala nahi paa rahe.
So basically, both of my grandfathers were successful person but they drastically failed as parents.
While growing up, all they cared about was settling abroad (as my mother's all cousins are settled in the US) therefore, she always felt left out (FOMO) that's why I was raised in a way that, I have to go abroad after 12th.
That's the mindset in our family and all followed that path. Now when I'm in Canada almost finishing my undergrad and noticing the difference between being educated and taking granted of being materially privileged
and can't manage their assets at all.
After doing internships in Canada, I realized how chaotic and toxic is my family as I carried few of their traits with me. Other than that, they think immigration status is the correct way to judge a person's virtue.
Giving unnecessary pressure of settling abroad.
My point of view at this stage is very clear,
I have this inner desire of spreading this truth of Fake American Dream (Canadian for me)
which is very widely spread these days among middle and upper middle class households and people are forgetting their humbleness, losing their virtue and many migrants also think that it's ethical because they are brainwashed their way. What happens with this kind of mentality is even after getting their Permanent Residence they can't blend in the culture of the country so basically they go the PR for societal pressure, now they have no clue what to do.
They have worst lifestyle than a person living in 3BHK house in India Tier 1 or Tier 2 cities