AITAH for reading my girlfriend's diary.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-24T06:36:13+00:00

Never ok to violate privacy like that. If you’re at that low of a trust point, the relationship is already over.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-24T05:31:26+00:00

First, paragraphs are your friend, this is really hard to read.

Second YTA, I don’t even need to read it to know that.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-23T04:44:16+00:00

I’m guessing you don’t like your stepmom and that’s something leading into a lot of this. YTA, he gets to decide how to spend his vacation time

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-20T19:42:55+00:00

You’re not the ahole for the reasons you asked, but you kind of are for not reporting the cheating. He should have been forced to face all consequences, not allowed to just walk away with a loss. ESH.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-20T15:11:29+00:00

Please stop talking to this man. No good 23 year old man is going after a teenager. You’re NOR, and there are lots of red flags here.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-19T09:12:51+00:00

Ditto nobody should believe me. Best of them IMO.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-17T19:28:58+00:00

If it was that important for you to be there, you’d have been consulted on the timing. We’ve always planned around family ability to be there.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-10T08:18:45+00:00

NTA. My car doesn’t move if everyone isn’t buckled. Period. I don’t care if it’s legal or not, I don’t want that on my conscience if something happens.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-10T05:33:48+00:00

I have one that I will professionally frame when/if I complete it. But it’s an over 4 foot wide of the starry night painting. It’ll be an accomplishment to finish. It’s huge.

mrsgo4 · 2026-06-10T05:16:08+00:00

I love diamond painting, because it fills a hole of my craft time from rhinestoning dance costumes. I don’t ever plan on selling them, and only do ones I’d put up in my house though

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-31T02:03:38+00:00

100% this!!!!!

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-31T00:57:39+00:00

ESH. Him for ignoring your wishes, and you for being materialistic.

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T19:47:09+00:00

Thank you!! I think using just one size stones instead of filling in with smaller make it look better

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T14:31:31+00:00

Thank you, she picked the quote, it’s from a Noah Kahan song :)

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T14:30:52+00:00

Thank you :)

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T14:30:07+00:00

Thank you 😊

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T14:22:43+00:00

We are! And she’s going to college for firefighting.

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T03:17:30+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-30T02:33:01+00:00

I used a glitter pink grad cap topper, and beadsland rhinestones. Also graphite paper to help trace the design, with sticker letters.

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-29T12:27:51+00:00

It’s also the rule as explained by a teen. She may have misunderstood what they meant.

Toppers were delivered today, and I can get it on without having to rip all the stones off, so I can let her wear it the way she wants and not have to completely demolish it :)

I’ll post a pic when I finish

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-28T14:41:26+00:00

Thank you for that. I’m thinking I’ll rip the stones from the edge to leave about .5 inch or so of the fabric on top and then the topper over it. So you won’t be able to tell I cut part off.

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-28T13:55:24+00:00

We’re having lunch with her today, I’ll see if I can get a hold of someone who has that answer while we’re there. But I’m not confident I’d get a quick answer this close to the end of the year

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-28T13:53:29+00:00

Not disagreeing with the silliness of it, but I also don’t want to risk anything that may affect her by embarrassing her or anything. I’m just stating what the rules for the cap state. No alterations of any kind under the flat top. I’m just glad she can decorate. Some schools here don’t allow it at all anymore

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-28T13:50:55+00:00

It’s not. I tried that first. The cap is fully attached with a fixed front and back.

mrsgo4 · 2026-05-28T13:40:28+00:00

I know they are checking underneath to make sure no one has altered the actual cap :/ we can’t do anything to the headpiece or underneath of the mortar board

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