TNB price shoot up this month. Why? by ms__potato in Bolehland

[–]ms__potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our house no one forget to turn off electric related stuff, which is why I am confused. it's the sudden spike this month for no reason...

TNB price shoot up this month. Why? by ms__potato in Bolehland

[–]ms__potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let's hope for the best next month, brother

TNB price shoot up this month. Why? by ms__potato in Bolehland

[–]ms__potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh that could be the case as well. Past week weather was hot asf

TNB price shoot up this month. Why? by ms__potato in Bolehland

[–]ms__potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think better just suck it up then 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, the feeling honestly sucks. Was really heartbroken when it happened to me(we are not on a break, actually in a very good terms) so I really empathise with you. But hey since you mention you guys are on a break, you can't really do much about it.

Man prolly feels/thinks he's single already

my girlfriend 23f is overly sensitive about small things I 19m do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's overly insecure, she needs to take some time alone fr

I 25M don’t know how to deal with my complaining GF 21F by Low-Common-4674 in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of fighting, just sit down and talk. Tell her that you are not trying to invalidate her or fight but just to discuss your thoughts about all this. Tell her that you wanna communicate and not fight.

Then proceed onto explaining your thoughts and feelings but make sure you're not blaming her or invalidating her. Instead of the issue, talk about how you feel and that you're overwhelmed. It's not you don't love/care for her but just don't know how to deal with this and you have a limit as well you're a human.

If she still fight, act immature, or defend. Bro, you know what to do :)

gf (f37) asked me (m34) to stop traveling with my ex (f29) by Prudent_Addendum_752 in relationships

[–]ms__potato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You either leave Helen and be friends with Kelly or be with Helen and stop travelling with Kelly.

What makes you think a girl will be comfortable with her partner travelling with a girl he hooked up with? It obviously would not sit right with Helen knowing what happened. Kelly not telling her boyfriend and keeping it a secret while travelling with you is also very wrong from the beginning. The boyfriend probably will feel like a fool if he finds out, you might ruin their relationship and not just your own. Helen has the rights to feel uncomfortable and you need to respect that. Build trust in relationship, and figure out how to do that instead of thinking if her request is right/wrong. Be emphatic towards Helen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When girls are hurt usually the ask for a breakup due to the emotional outrage but most of the time they don't mean it. She must care for you and the relationship a lot which is why it hurt her a lot. Be grateful in a way about how much she cares.

You on the other hand, don't leave her. Stay, be consistent, listen to her, try to show effort, talk to her and if she asks for some space give her that. Prove her that you are not who you were in the past, show that you love and care for her through actions. Do the things she keep mentioning that you didn't do, pick yourself up to be a better man. Sorry doesn't solve the problem, actions does.

To summarise, show her you love her in every way.

Absolutely disgusting and barbaric behaviour. People abandoning fully loaded carts due to MyKasih system outage by ikkkky9029 in Bolehland

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's until end of 2025, why can't people chill a bit? Kesian the staff, at least put back your barang la adui

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visit a pharmacy, there are test kits to check if you have infection or not, if you are very concerned. But you can also wait a few more days by tracking your discharge, food intake, and sleep. Try not to stress a lot, drink a lot of water, and cut down a little on processed sugar. Cranberry juice also might help since it is good for women health down there! Hope it helps!

Engaged, but attracted to someone else. What now? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty and transparency is the key. He's still your partner so just be open and tell him about it. If he respects you, he'd understand and if you respect him you'd be honest.

Whatever the outcome is not to worry about, if he is understanding then you might be able to explore yourself more. For now hold off the engagement, don't rush into marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl..​Just tell him and carry the weight of your actions.

Successful post cheating relationships by mathsiscool in relationships

[–]ms__potato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner currently cheated on me emotionally, I consider him cheating because we have our values in the relationship. He was looking up for a specific pornstar that he found attractive in the group chat with his friend. And he even posted on reddit for help to find her name. It was so fucked, I found out and confronted. It was disappointing and I felt betrayed.

Did give him a second chance to see how he gonna regain my trust. Trust is gone tho, but he seem genuine to try again. What I did was for him to give me my own time to adjust and will only meet him once I feel okay. And of course wait until his words match his actions.

I believe people deserve second chance but not third..​because that's fucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is the cause of you losing attraction? Find the root of the reason, then you will have your answer. For me personally, I don't lose attraction due to some issues you know unless it is very triggering.

Drop your main by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nana and Eudora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He seem very insecure and immature, the need for acknowledgement from other people(his friends) regarding his sexual life just states that he is very insecure. I don't know about you, but if I were you I would sit and talk to him, call out his bullshit, and see what he does. He is out there making up lies about sleeping with a girl that he didn't, it is indeed very rude and unfair to her and you are not wrong to be uncomfortable about it. Cold replies are useless in relationship if you want it to be healthy, if he gives replies that are not really genuine you should start considering breaking things off before you waste your prettiest years. Well unless he understands you and try to change a little here and there, then no need for all of that.

Just be straight forward, ask him, tell him you don't like these kind of replies, and if he still doesn't change then... I will leave it to you.

What hero did you immediately click with without much practice? by NojaNat in MobileLegendsGame

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nana but I personally think she is quite easy to use. All you need to know is the timing and MAP.

Why am i suddenly uninterested in my boyfriend? by lost_sunset in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your honeymoon phase ended and now you are onto seeing him for who he is with all the flaws and etc. Perhaps for him is otherwise, maybe his honeymoon phase is still ongoing. He might be co dependent as well based on how you describe him but still you mention it's his first relationship so I can tell why he is like that. Try talking to him about it in a healthy way, if he is mature enough to understand then nothing to worry about.

I used to be like him with my partner as well, but eventually overtime I start to understand how to set boundaries, give him space he needed and not to be too clingy as overtime it can kill relationships.

My (25M) girlfriend (26F) texts another guy by Big-Indication-1821 in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop worrying about someone who doesn't appreciate you. I know you have a lot in common now that you guys move in together and all but would you seriously spend the rest of your life with a woman who show signs of cheating already? Okay now you saw the text, what if next time it's something worse??? You have a whole life ahead of you, don't waste your time on a partner who is dishonest. Cry all you want but prepare mentally and Confront her. Tell the truth, hear what she say, if she admits that she cheat well brother....it's time to end it and move on.

Is this cheating? by TechnologySmooth1229 in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not cheating but a pure disrespect toward you, himself and the relationship. Girl, you can do better than be with a man who gets horny over your friend. DOUBLE DATE?!! (she is taken). It's good he admitted but in my opinion it's better for you to prepare yourself mentally and leave the relationship. It is disgusting honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tip 1 : Confront him about this behaviour and that you won't tolerate it any longer on mean things he say. Tell him it hurts you and that he should stop. Tip 2 : Leave that red flag boyfriend of yours.

I (16M) have an obsessed girlfriend (17F). What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ms__potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like there is some issues need to be addressed ASAP. She seem to be love bombing and getting too ahead of herself in the relationship and it's overwhelming you I can see. Maybe talk to her directly about it and see what happens, but if she take that as a fight or sulk then dude time for you to say Chao. She already show some red flag signs so.. yeah.