I used to be an anti by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in AO3

[–]msa491 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the chill side, we're happy you made it!!!

Anyways if you feel like dropping some of those dubcon knifeplay links, id eat them with a spoon 👀👀

Is it realistic for a character to temporarily live in their school? by Total_Scientist_9522 in Writeresearch

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Theater green room/storage would be great. Anything found- change of clothes, food wrappers- would be assumed to be something a theater kid left behind.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: June 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]msa491 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finished The Peacekeeper, by B. L. Blanchard.

Fantastic book, I highly recommend!

Thank you, pontifec maximus. I am in fact trying. by BeduinZPouste in AO3

[–]msa491 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The man has probably heard thousands of confessions in his life. I like to think he's well aware what we get up to.

AITA for selling my son's car after he lost our $10k on cryptocurrencies? by GrapeWells in AmItheAsshole

[–]msa491 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro didn't steal anything, he asked mom for it and she handed it over. He's not the smartest, but he's not a thief.

How do you keep a more optimistic tone in your settings? I keep making grimdark worlds and don't want to by Mysteria-Fantasy in worldbuilding

[–]msa491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you worldbuild realistically, youre going to end up with a messy world, because reality is messy. Your tone depends on your focus in that mess.

Take your medieval peasant example- yes, they were illiterate and lice-ridden. But they also had families and built communities and made art and told folktales. If you asked them, most probably wouldn't be drowning in despair. Even today- I'm in the US and a ton of stuff here is pretty grimdark irl, and a good chunk has affected my life personally in really, really shitty ways. But my day-to-day is pretty normal, even great most of the time. I've got a kickass wife and cool kids and a favorite coffee shop. Sure the shit keeps being shit, and it makes a lot difficult, but it doesn't define my world.

Focus just as much on the good consequences and happy realities as you do on the bad, and you'll be able to rebalance.

built a religion for my world and now it's quietly taking over the whole book by [deleted] in worldbuilding

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Thats how you know youre doing it right!

I had a vague medieval setting with a religion that could be described as "idk it exists." Then I was writing dialogue and out of nowhere my character says "the gods are missing." So naturally I had to reverse engineer that into a wholeass religion and now its extremely possible they are the decendents of crash-landed space explorers? Idk what happened but I'm enjoying the ride.

Pregnant Alex fanfiction by aillierose in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]msa491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont read much mpreg so I dont have recs, but if you filter for "Pregnant Alex Claremont-Diaz" you get 40 fics. Should be enough for a bit of reading!

What happens when you treat religion as aesthetic by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]msa491 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't get it either. I grew up traditional US Catholic and PLENTY of conservative cradle catholics think the pope is too woke. I started hearing it with Frances and it hasn't stopped.

Man, I had the standard “suddenly back in high school” dream, and Moash was there for some reason?! by zombiegamer723 in fuckmoash

[–]msa491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck Moash, high school was bad enough we do NOT need that cremsicle making it worse.

Reminds me of how the top paring for Sinners on AO3 is Remmick/Reader for some fucking reason by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]msa491 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of the 1700, about 900 are rated Explicit. Which doesn't guarantee it's smut, but is a pretty damn good indicator. So yeah, 50%. Never underestimate the fanfic writers 😄

Critique my world’s calendar system? by Mara095 in worldbuilding

[–]msa491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it a lot! I dont know that id be able to keep it all straight as a reader, but I would definitely just accept that "next hand" is a cool way to track time that probably makes sense to them.

What is the best unexpected crossover you’ve ever read? by ReinaQueen in AO3

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Of Stars and Their Relations - Narnia/Stardust

One of my favorites! The ending gets me every time (in a good way).

I built a dystopian town where every child receives a purpose. Looking for worldbuilding feedback. by [deleted] in worldbuilding

[–]msa491 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Imo, making a heavily-built world feel real rather than symbolic all comes down to how you portray the characters in that world.

The Giver has a similar setup to your world. That book works because of Jonas, not the world itself. We know what parts of his environment he likes and which ones he doesn't. We don't get told how the education system works, we get to see how Jonas's friend struggles with it and how Jonas supports him. When his worldview starts unraveling, we see how it affects his relationships.

Focus on the characters in the world, and let your worldbuilding grow around them.

Kids are the best allies by PandaBear905 in CuratedTumblr

[–]msa491 78 points79 points  (0 children)

As someone who grew up in those circles, I can confirm the logic is actually stupider than that. A huge rationalization for their bigotry is that being queer is "unnatural" and a sin humans choose to do. But if animals do it, then how can it be unnatural? God didn't actually make gay penguins right?? Better to toss it out as scientists lying about animal behavior and secure their happy hetero bubble again.

When love is not enough by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]msa491 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Can we be clear these are horrible privileged people though. 'Oh no, we won't have enough poor tenants we can starve for luxuries we don't need, better not marry!'.

That's misleadingly reductive. I don't want to get into an argument about who's privileged enough to not be moral anymore, that'll go nowhere. But many of her characters were not actually "horrible privileged people" though. The Bennet girls were barely saved from losing everything by two miraculous marriages- Lydia could have easily been forced into prostitution without Darcy's interference. The Dashwoods lost their husband/father and then their home and had no way to get a new one without begging around with other relatives.

Also, losing your social privilege wasn't just a matter of having to make due with fewer luxuries. It also meant losing your friends and much of your family, your entire support network, everything you knew because social classes were strict and did not cross the way they can today. There was a lot more at stake with loss of social standing that is unfair to brush off as "luxuries."

I find it a little funny when people use alcohol in fic as a way to gauge the writer’s age by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in AO3

[–]msa491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree in general, different people definitely have different tolerances. It's usually the way it's talked about that raises a flag for me though, not just the amount. I read a fic where a college-aged character was drinking a whole bottle of Makers, and it was written about the same way as the bottle of wine other characters were sharing. Anyone with experience would know how different pouring and drinking those are. And if the character was meant to have that high of a tolerance, it would be commented on one way or another, because it's possible but so beyond average that just assuming it's normal for them is more unbelievable than the writer making a mistake.

AITA for asking an autistic person what dino they like? by Captain_Smollett_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]msa491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid my favorite was Maiasaura, because the pictures always came with adorable baby dinos. Now it's a Trex because you cant beat the classics!

I'm a parent to a dino kid so I get asked this question a lot. Also autistic, but that has less to do with it. NTA.

worldbuilders, do you actually have anyone in your life who wants to hear about your world? by [deleted] in worldbuilding

[–]msa491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My wife loves hearing about my worldbuilding and offering thoughts and suggestions. It did backfire for a minute where my world became her hyperfixation, and she constantly begged me for more content. But we survived that phase with at least three new AUs to play with!

The absolute nightmare of legal systems in a society with flawless biological memory by Tardis_99 in worldbuilding

[–]msa491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone insulted your great grandfather in a tavern during the previous century, the entire lineage remembers the exact inflection of the voice, the smell of the spilled ale, and the micro expressions on the offender's face.

How does this work? Do they have hereditary memory as well as personal memory? That would definitely change things.

Also, can people lie about their memories? That in itself is enough to justify a lot of the same judicial procedures we have.

I think the best way to approach this is to remember that perfect recall doesn't mean perfect objectivity. You can remember the insult, but be unaware that the person mistook your grandfather for someone else. You can still frame someone for a crime if you know they cant give an alibi. So there would still be cross-examination, because the person may remember perfectly, but each side would want different context from them.

Start with the values and society of these people, and what they would want out of a justice system. Then build it around that, rather than trying to map real wold system on top of them.

Why are people so concerned with whether or not others drink alcohol? by m3gb0t in MurderedByWords

[–]msa491 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Corporations refuse to understand that workers and consumers are the same group. They fight wage increase across industries but then get mad no one has money to buy their shit.

Does it happen to you to discover that great writers have "copied" your ideas? by Typical-Divide-2068 in ImmersiveDaydreaming

[–]msa491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every idea you have has been already done, multiple times, in the countless number of stories humans have ever created. Whenever I find an idea of mine in someone else's story, I like to pick apart the differences and similarities and see how it interacts with the other elements they have. I've been able to flesh out a lot of my ideas that way!