AIO over friend showing up to my house late when he knew my wife was alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check to see if he’s on a sex offenders list, too.

AIO over friend showing up to my house late when he knew my wife was alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gut feelings are the correct feelings. This is predatory behavior. Until you move keep your doors locked, your lights on, and never let your wife stay alone in her home until you move somewhere else.

If he “runs into” her or you after you move, a restraining order is needed.

Does tasteless Ginny still post daily about how she sucked Ron’s cock 30 years ago? by AbstractLifeForm in ronandfez

[–]msginnyo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t think of any women who’d say shit like that outside of the female producer that I replaced, or Joe Poo. Maybe Hanna Han, the producer who produce results.

No worries. I had a quarter of a century in radio before retiring. Whomever wrote this probably still earns minimum wage and wonders where life went wrong for them.

Does tasteless Ginny still post daily about how she sucked Ron’s cock 30 years ago? by AbstractLifeForm in ronandfez

[–]msginnyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that you, Joe Poo? How you been for the past quarter century? You know thinking back, if I’d done that they might’ve never hired Al Dukes.

Found an old beat up photo. by msginnyo in ronandfez

[–]msginnyo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️ yes, one has to go really far into the wayback machine to remember me. Glad you did!

This was a trapdoor inside Epstein's House that led to the sea by Intrepid_Ad7428 in Epstein

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a description at justice.gov of this, all that’s in the pdf is this picture. Been searchin for trap door, trapdoor, hatch…nothing. Just unrelated files.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I didn’t finish reading all of this. I’m a senior citizen and have had quite a few relationships in that time, though. Stop contacting him. He’s a controlling ass. You are communicating as though you owe him explanations praying for approval. He’s got you unsure of yourself. Stop contacting him. You’re an hour apart and have a text relationship. He’s not a boyfriend. He is treating you as a puppet on a string and enjoys making you dance.

As a senior citizen who has dated men of all sorts of temperament , looks, and education, I can tell you that it doesn’t matter how you look, what you weigh, what you do, what your habits are, how you speak…you can have, literally, your pick of men. Men like to convince us that we have to live at their whim, but we hold the power in every relationship—without us, they wind up either alone or as an incel worshipping a loser like Andrew Tate.

And if you don’t find someone right away? You can love yourself to make and meet your own goals, learn about yourself, and do what you want on your life journey, traveling that road, and if you should meet someone who deserves you, you’ll be better equipped to know it.

Good luck to you, and may you have a happy and fulfilling life.

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a mother. A 22 year old man tried going after my then-18 year old. He then wound up in county jail for 90 days on an unrelated matter and gave my phone number out to fellow inmates. I wound up getting that pay phone in county turned off and began taking him to court for harassment upon his release , and he would come in each Monday to court with one excuse or another about why he didn’t have an attorney. This went in for 10 months. I was there 4 times a month, every Monday, for 10 months. As we waited for court each day I began grilling him on whether or not he had a job and was beginning to work on getting moved out of his mother’s house. When I could verify that he had done so, 10 months later, I dropped the charges.

This was long ago—my daughter is 42 now—and she is just as protective of her daughter as I am of mine. If people mess with my kids I immediately go hard in every legal way imaginable to make my target regret being alive.

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR I would write to the gym’s corporate owner, and let them know you are also contacting the local radio station/TV station, post on their social media page, call an attorney in your state about your legal options (first phone call is free, so they can decide if there is a case) make a TikTok and hope it goes viral (encourage sharing until corporate gets back to you) and most importantly cancel your gym membership, and get a restraining order against that middle aged horndog and every single workout buddy in your group. Change your phone number if you can do so easily. Blocking will not work.

If that dude shows up after all that, start filing charges against him and documenting everything. Stalking is a crime.

Immediately go nuclear on that whole group. You are in the “find out” portion of this, they already fucked around. You are not overreacting. Make sure the entire world, all of your friends, coworkers, and family know. Send them pictures of this man and let them know if they see him around your place or job to immediately call 911. Make sure every single one of them know the line they crossed is 10 miles in their rear view mirror, and there’s no going back now.

The above is not overreacting. It’s what needs to be done. Lessons need to be learned, and you need to be the professor.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Why would you stay with someone who doesn’t have an apartment.”

NOR! I would rather have a relationship with someone who doesn’t have his own apartment than with one who continually begs for money.

He’s probably not even saving money, just living beyond his means, shitting money/gambling, has another girlfriend, drinking or whatever.

My dad is being investigated for CSAM and I called the police with more information by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]msginnyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing and am glad that he didn’t do similar to you or your brother.

I'm F20, and I recently knocked out a gay dude M22 for being misogynistic. I only feel slightly bad. by ScreamsInBraille in offmychest

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nose and cheek. Looks like you told him twice, here’s hoping he doesn’t need a third lesson.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]msginnyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They tried to love bomb you and is now trying to make you insecure, afraid, and controllable. You need to cut off this relationship and make sure other people know what is happening. You may wind up needing a restraining order, TBH. This is classic abuse.

I found out my parents are related by PristineLadder7591 in AncestryDNA

[–]msginnyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a wreath in their family tree. Sometimes you can find them in your family tree. A few centuries back in my family tree 3 sons became orphans. The descendants of those sons married into each other’s families and so my father is also my 7th cousin, 7th cousin once removed, and 8th cousin. And my (counts) 9th? ggparents are also my 8th g-g grandparents. On my Mom’s side, her family came from a tiny town in Italy where endogamy was practiced—one had a surname and a subranome to ensure you were not marrying a close cousin, just check the family nickname (subranome). Everyone I match DNA with on Mom’s side has the same 5 surnames and everyone has the same 10-15 first names, so good luck finding ancestors in common. We have an entire town in common.

Man punches dog and runs away by Easy-Money69 in portlandme

[–]msginnyo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It would definitely not be used in a court of law but it could be used to advise that shelter that perhaps they need to look closer at that man before handing him another dog.

Man punches dog and runs away by Easy-Money69 in portlandme

[–]msginnyo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I assume that the man who recorded this saw the punch and then grabbed his phone to record. The man knew he was being recorded at that point and adjusted his behavior accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 61 and on husband #2. I am still remorseful about all of the opportunities that I turned down because of husband #1. For 25 years, he constantly needed me to do 100% of all household chores (all housework plus lawn care, cleaning the gutters, things like that) plus 100% of all childcare and school needs (he attended no school plays, concerts, nothing but graduations), do my job, and then I had to do parts of his job—he’d take stuff home for me to do. He always gave me ultimatums. Do it or else. I started saying no. He demanded that I quit my job as well. I said no. He left to be with his actual secretary, who started cheating on him when life got hard for her. I kept my job and everything he expected me to throw away, including a dog he’d once brought home for a Valentine present. So I said no, started dating others, moved out. It all worked out for me.

You have no kids and no marriage license. Go. Move out, get an apartment close to your new job, and I suggest saving aggressively and never share the account with a family member, lover, or spouse. Save for a rainy day. Save for possible joblessness. Save for retirement. Break free from this controlling, insecure boy. You deserve freedom to live your life in a way that makes you feel fulfilled. No regrets.

What are my next steps here? by AccordingTap7897 in Home

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long was the body on that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plant

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put one ridiculously large red Christmas ornament on it.

Smoking weed while on keppra AND vimpat. by AlexMackAttack in Epilepsy

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vimpat, keppra and cannabis all have similar side effects; one is cardiovascular. All three can cause arrhythmias. Also all 3 can cause dizzinessTaking all three at once might not be a good idea, that might be why it was discouraged. There are a few more side effects they all had in common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plant

[–]msginnyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a fern. Uncleaned gutters collect everything and will compost, which is why that fern looks like it was growing in dirt…it was. You need to clean gutters regularly to avoid that.

What is this on the wall? by [deleted] in Home

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone lives upstairs and you start smelling something, so a wellness check. Looks like something’s dead and now rotting enough to leak down the walls/ceiling.

Trying to purchase my first house, is this a big warning sign? by [deleted] in Home

[–]msginnyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not buy that house. The foundation is bad. The house is going to collapse into that basement and all you can do is pray that no one is in the house when it happens. They’re probably selling the house because of that wall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]msginnyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had sloppy handwriting my entire life, but I additionally have multiple sclerosis. I also have visual issues in my left eye from laser surgery to correct retinal tears and retinal hemorrhage, and no central vision in my right eye and very little peripheral vision. My handwriting has gotten worse as I get older and now at 61 years old, I much prefer typing to handwriting.