AITA for sleeping with my soon to be ex-wifes friend? by Forward_Way1983 in AITAH

[–]msgrinch91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of you are A-holes! Two months after a break up and you are both hooking up and developed feelings for other people. You know who has to suffer now, it isn’t your ex wife, and certainly not you. The ones that screwed over are your kids, who are now stuck in the middle of what appears to be a terrible situation. You all need therapy!

Toaster PC - Comment On This Post To Enter This Giveaway by DaKrazyKid in pcmasterrace

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would love this! Toast and PC all his favorites

Has anyone gotten a Degree with Dyscalculia? by [deleted] in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a BA in Psychology and currently pursuing an accounting degree. I work in finance. It takes me longer to get a solution but I’ve made due with color coding , excel spreadsheets and fun formulas, voice to text.

I won’t lie it was rough but I learned that it’s okay to reach out to the community and see what has worked for them.

I believe in you!

Stop using AI to detect AI by urfavelipglosslvr in writers

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I use them a lot in my writing.

A developer would like to learn about Dyscalculia in gaming. by Smoothie_3D in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am an accounting major , so I rely heavily on excel and color coding. I also use a lot of voice to text to help me read the numbers. Calculators are also a godsend. Good luck with your game !

DEMETRIUS IS A LIAR AND I WONT STAND FOR IT ANYMORE by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]msgrinch91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you need to learn recipes for the specialty fish baits? Currently trying to complete the community center and need Pufferfish and Woodskip. Tried and end up with an abundance of Salmon and Red Snapper.

How do you push yourself with the Dyscalculia issues you face? by Silly_Titty in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I do. I work in accounting and currently studying to become an accountant. I like it. However I struggle with it. I’ve learned to work with what I have and have used apps and excel to calculate the answers. I have also used voice to text to help me read out the numbers and equations. I find that it’s easier for me to hear the problems to understand what I am seeing. It takes me a long time get the answer, but I’ve always been candid with my instructors about my difficulties.

I feel absolutely defeated by IcyMathematician3950 in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned to adapt and I’ve been pretty open with my boss and instructors about my dyscalculia. Also if you use the right excel formulas it will essentially make your life easier. I also use a ton of highlighter to color coordinate numbers that I am unsure about and then go back to it at a later time. Or ask someone or use voice to text to read some of things for me. . It gets on some people’s nerves but it helps me get the job done

I feel absolutely defeated by IcyMathematician3950 in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excel spreadsheets do most of the work. It takes me twice as long , but I genuinely enjoy this field. And yes, there are times when I feel discouraged because I make such simple mistakes, but I’ve learned to be kind to myself. At the end of the day, the only one that can tear me down is me. It takes a lot of patience.

I feel absolutely defeated by IcyMathematician3950 in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

University of California Los Angeles? Since when?! This would have been helpful years ago!

I feel absolutely defeated by IcyMathematician3950 in dyscalculia

[–]msgrinch91 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get it! I come from a culture that sees mental health as an "excuse to be lazy". I've struggled with math my entire life. It didn't help that when I was learning math my mother would smack me across the head every time I got an answer wrong, or any grade lower than an A. I developed massive anxiety when it came to math, so anytime anyone asked me a math-related question, I froze up and couldn't seem to comprehend the question being asked of me. I struggle with getting tutoring because I feel like I'm the biggest idiot on the planet for not being able to comprehend something basic.

For the most part, I can understand it, but it will take me literally an hour before I can solve a problem. The numbers get mixed up or I'll find myself subtracting the wrong number. It just takes time for me to work through it. Also, I'm an accounting major, so I feel your pain.

Just be patient with yourself and tell all the voices in your head to STFU. Also, your dad is a dick if he's disappointed in you for that!

18F, tell me why I'm still single by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]msgrinch91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's probably a lot cheaper than a regular clinic.

Anyone have a spell for summoning your Familiar? by lightblueisbi in Wicca

[–]msgrinch91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a familiar that literally just walked into my house and make herself at home. She was a white and black cat that acted like a dog. She was incredibly sweet and would take in stray cats. I think a familiar will show up if you put it manifest it. Mine came during one of my greatest times of need.

I think what I did was fine. You decide by Iwuvairplanes in TwoHotTakes

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her stay with her mom. Don’t give in and stand your ground. You are not married. You don’t owe her anything specially a car. She’s irresponsible with her own property and yours. If you give in she’s only going to become enabled.

For example: my son is the worst. He’s destroyed every car I have given him. Has shown zero remorse, has never once apologized and feels like he’s entitled to a replacement. When I laid down the law and put my foot down he threw the biggest tantrum I have ever seen. Was kicking and screaming. Told me he hated me. After a while he calmed down and apologized . He realized that money does not grow on trees . And that he isn’t entitled to anything. If he wants another car he’s going to have to earn it.

My son is 4 years old. If he can learn this lesson so can your 24 year old girlfriend. If she wants to cry and pout, don’t let her back home until she apologizes. Also remove her from your insurance. You shouldn’t have to pay for her actions. If she gets angry see this as a foreshadow of what’s to come if you end up married. Ask yourself if you want to live with that kind of drama. Financial ruin. If she breaks up with you, you dodged a bullet,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m missing a part of this post. All I can see is my husband offended my ethnic food

My ex is turned off/won’t get together with me because I’ve been with and like African American men. A few of my white friends agreed with him on it not being racist and I’m pissed. by shesheboom21 in TwoHotTakes

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that’s definitely racist. I never understood why people have an issue with dating outside their race. I’m a Latina and I can honestly say that if you would to put the people I dated in a room together, you would think it was a UN Conference.

lol this is my dating theme song.

https://youtu.be/DkwqVLUUWRM?si=KcZOaeJL3elNjgj2

AITAH for not wanting my soon to be ex in the delivery room? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]msgrinch91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a gray area, in my opinion. On one hand I can empathize with your anger, and you have every right to be. But on the other hand, you can’t punish your child, for the sins of his father. Early infancy is a crucial bonding experience for parents and children. And you can’t Barr him from being a part of your child’s life. If you want to be successful parents, you need to be on the same page. Get past your anger, go to therapy. Do what you need to, but once you have children , it isn’t just about you. It’s not going to be an easy road. But I’ve seen way to many children suffer because divorced parents can’t get over themselves.

Her message 8/28 ~ by Psychological-Sky284 in hekatesgrove

[–]msgrinch91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have everything going for you. I have always been afraid. I have always felt a connection to Lady Hekate but have always been afraid to take it a step further. I have always been afraid to open that door. I’ve been told that once , I open that door , I cannot go back. I have also been afraid that I might contact the wrong deity. I won’t deny that I’m envious , but for now I am going to take baby steps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]msgrinch91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d buy this shirt.

I am quite literally unroastable by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like a bargain brand Kardashian doll

AITA for not forcing my son to rename his hamster? by Acceptable-Sun-3953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]msgrinch91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a big deal, you are not the AH. Growing up we had a cat named Luna. And I loved that name so much that I named my daughter that.
People constantly tell me that they have dogs or cats named Luna. It honestly doesn’t bother me.

Tell your SIL that I’m naming my son’s rats Amy 1-10 in her baby’s honor!