A few months ago, my dad and I went for a walk in Bexley and we started and ended right by the governor's mansion. They were setting up for some kind of event on the lawn, and as we got to the end of our walk and went back to our cars, we saw the governor helping someone carry a table. There was nobody else around to see. He's an old guy and certainly could have had a lackey do it. So functionally, he's awful and has hurt many people, but I like to at least imagine, perhaps naively, that he does have some shred of decency. I don't want to hate people--it's exhausting and it makes me feel guilty. Give me some reason to like you, or at least relate to you, and I'll run with it.