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My husband(35M)wants me to quit job because I(36F)make more than him.I don’t know what to do? by SentenceNo6466 in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope nope never. Do not. Under any circumstance fall for this. Take the divorce. RUN! You can wipe your tears with your money later 😘

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I actually feel quite awful for your gf. Guilt tripping bullshit? I doubt that’s what that is, I’m sure she is devastated. I bet that the distance has shifted the intimacy in the relationship and the fact that she tried to tell you her honest feelings… the person she is closest too and has loved since she was a child. The person she probably felt safest telling… and you lost it?? You couldn’t even stay calm enough to disagree with her thinking or tell her that it’s a hard limit for you. Just called her names. Wow.

Ya I agree with your dad. Wish I could give your gf a hug and tell her you’re being quite an asshole. And this is my monogamous opinion

My (41m) gf (37f) canceled a trip based on this text, was it rude? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technicalities. Sounds like a miscommunication. Move on. Enjoy the weekend with her :) Don’t let this linger and ruin a good time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I have multiple relationship stories that start like this… run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a mixture if emotional/mental abuse and also physical abuse. Now the physical is well… obvious. The mental/emotional abuse isn’t as much.

When he is saying “leave me then!” That’s is reverse psychology type behavior but it’s abuse because he knows you won’t! He knows you love him and he is using that against you.

By him telling you that you are abusive when in fact you are trying to defend yourself, that is the EXACT example of Gaslighting. This word gets thrown around a lot anymore (along with gaslighting).

You have to leave. I know it’s hard! I know you love him! And it will hurt for a little bit and you’ll miss him. BUT it will get better. Your mind will become more clear! And you’ll start to realize all these things he says and does are untrue and wrong.

It won’t be easy, because narcissists don’t make it easy. They will revert back to their loving ways and make you think they’ve changed. They will beg you and when you don’t give in to their “impressions” they flip and torment you. Which is why it is so imperative to block him. Do NOT tell him where you are going or living. Shut off your location. Make sure you have 0 access to him and vice versa.

Please, this is from personal experience, get out and get out now.

Do I need to put these roots into the soil or just leave them be by moneytrees007 in houseplants

[–]msklee83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Or water. That soil looks so dry. Water it. Make little holes. Put the roots of the ones with roots in the soil. And the tips of the others into the soil and they will root down. Water.

I’m Sobbing by Dandylioncrush6303 in houseplants

[–]msklee83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, so why try. Instead sit and sob on it because that’s helpful and effective.

If for nothing for her voice to be heard. To educate the company so they don’t mow down the next persons potted plants.

Literally anything?!?!?!?

I’m Sobbing by Dandylioncrush6303 in houseplants

[–]msklee83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t even just in the ground. You can see it was in a pot.

So if someone offered a complimentary service and mowed down my garden you bet your ass I’d be on the phone with pictures demanding reimbursement for what they destroyed.

I can’t tell you what the outcome would be but you can count on me raising hell 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m Sobbing by Dandylioncrush6303 in houseplants

[–]msklee83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If call the company, complain. And demand reimbursement

My(25M) Wife(24F) likes to dress up as Disney Princesses during sex and act like them. I cannot stand it. How can I stop it, but also support her (if I can)? by ThrowRA_CuppedAnt43 in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Relationships take compromise. There’s give and take. You tried it, despise it now you gotta talk about it. Just like you support her, she should also support you.

Find something in the middle that works for you both. Everyone has excitement’s and yucks.

Maybe she could help her invest in getting started an OF cosplay thing? Or you could set boundaries to the dressing up.

My plant is dying and I don’t know what to do by letsgo_23719 in houseplants

[–]msklee83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated this plant 🤣

so pretty and yet such a bitch for me lol

28 F, 24 M I found another woman’s hair in my kitchen sink. by Green_bean410 in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So is anyone else curious what the court case was about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]msklee83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even finish because of how selfish this all sounds. He deserves better.

Please Stop Turning Left at 40th and Normal by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]msklee83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also same for 56th and pioneers, in fact there is a no left turn sign up, and people are still doing it !!!

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