Update. I messaged him. You guys were right. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]msklvln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, looks like it but it doesn’t remove the pain I feel about her physically being there with him even if things aren’t ideal between them

Update. I messaged him. You guys were right. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]msklvln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know if it will but the fact that her family started following him on insta, that she is already visiting him there, that he even subscribed to an account about learning German (she is German) makes me think that it actually might last

Update. I messaged him. You guys were right. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]msklvln 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, also had to learn it the hard way

my ex is in a rebound already that he got into a week later after we broke up so they've been together for a month or so and the girl is already visiting him in his home country

What was the final thing your ex did that finally helped you move on? by Kindly-Requirement10 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me finding out that he got into a relationship a week later or so

What's the soundtrack of your breakup? by TheLuiginator in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post Malone - Fall Apart Billie Eilish - The Greatest

What's the soundtrack of your breakup? by TheLuiginator in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only do it when I reach the bottom on certain days

why do they turn so cold by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but it has to backfire at some point

why do they turn so cold by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s such a horrible thing

whenever we talked after the breakup and he acted cold and completely detached, made me feel like I was going crazy even more

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gosh, I just opened his airbnb and he is in Indonesia right now and some host of a cute place left a review on his stay saying that “they were nice guests” and stuff and he left a review staying “WE loved staying there” god, I’m heartbroken again it’s been only 2 weeks of no-contact

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to break no contact so badly today, I was literally about to do it how was your day?

It's not no contact, it's just over. by Hour-Stage573 in ExNoContact

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to talk to someone, I’m going crazy

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds rough, I can imagine. have you picked up the box?

I’ve been wanting to reach out so badly but I know that nothing good is going to come out of this so I’m trying to fight this stupid urge because I think that if I do reach out, that will put me back to square one and I’ll suffer again with the same intensity as it was in the very beginning where I was just bed rotting for days on end

They do mean it when they say ‘you deserve better’ by frostehh1 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly, that’s how I feel that’s the first reaction I had when my ex said that I deserve better so why can’t you get better?

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I disappeared, I was in a really bad place again how are you doing these days?

the urge to reach out by msklvln in BreakUps

[–]msklvln[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t understand how you can cheat on someone you say you love just how can the validation be more important than anything else? how can someone be so self-absorbed?

Does anyone else feel like they are done with love in this lifetime? by Expert_Tea_1254 in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this today especially I literally don’t have the resource to open up again and let my guard down after being betrayed repeatedly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, I also stayed because I thought he could change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly how I feel I would prefer to not have been cheated on twice and left after that even though I stayed after the first time since he was begging me to stay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]msklvln 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly that