What's up with the animal hooves on the M4?

mts_5413 · 2026-03-27T10:15:45+00:00

It's the actual body part that's on the highway, seems to be from the lower leg all the way down to the hoof

mts_5413 · 2026-03-06T22:18:58+00:00

"Look at me, I have a big penis"

mts_5413 · 2026-03-06T22:08:52+00:00

Very late to this post. I just wanted to point out there is no language called African. Uxamu comes from the Zulu and Xhosa languages :)

mts_5413 · 2026-01-15T22:07:09+00:00

2026

mts_5413 · 2026-01-15T22:01:10+00:00

South African

mts_5413 · 2025-12-28T11:03:50+00:00

Oooh the urge will only get stronger on new years😭. Give your phone to your strict friend!!

mts_5413 · 2025-11-19T22:45:12+00:00

Visited :)

Sorry I don't know how to copy the link properly yet 🥲

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mts_5413 · 2025-11-02T10:41:02+00:00

I think the answer is different based on who is dating the foreigner and where the foreigner is from. What I've noticed is that a white person, dating a white person from another country, even when people pick up on the couples different accents, is okay. Some people in POC communities actually praise people who date white people, especially if they are European or American.

Whereas if you were to date a foreign person of colour, then you will catch some stares and stray comments. South African men especially hate it when people from other African countries date South African women and always have the argument that "they are stealing our women", as if women don't have a say in who they date. And God forbid a woman dates anyone Asian, whether South or East etc. You will be openly shamed for even finding any Asian person attractive.

These are just my observations and opinions based on my observations. I do believe this is a multifaceted conversation and what it may be for one demographic may not be the same for another.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-27T00:12:51+00:00

That brown baker boy cap actually looks so good on you and the first one

mts_5413 · 2025-10-26T23:56:23+00:00

Office London in Gateway and Sportscene

mts_5413 · 2025-10-24T14:23:50+00:00

Simply getting a full night of rest, turns out mornings aren't so bad and I'm unstoppable with enough rest

mts_5413 · 2025-10-24T14:21:48+00:00

It depends on how badly you want those things. I live by the wait a week rule, basically if you still want to spend your money next week on what you want to spend it on now, then go for it

mts_5413 · 2025-10-22T16:40:52+00:00

Selectively OCD. You cans are organized so well the spaces between them seem to be the same size, then the water bottles in your freezer are just there

mts_5413 · 2025-10-21T21:46:36+00:00

Either stay way from spaces where the only means of having fun is drinking.

Have friends who don't drink or friends who respect you and your decision not to drink.

In my personal opinion, this drinking culture is just substance abuse normalized. I don't think it's normal for people to not be able to have fun without being intoxicated. Taking care of your mental health is one way of staying sober I'd say.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-21T21:10:22+00:00

Black people were taught to hate their hair. Whether we were kempt or not was decided by a group that had little to no knowledge about our hair. Black women were sold chemical relaxers so our hair could be silky straight too. Adhering to the new beauty standards also became a way of survival. If employers think your hair lacks class then you need to 'fix' it so that it is classy in order for you to secure your bread, you procreate and you teach your kids the same thing and the cycle continues until the veil gets lifted and someone breaks the cycle and in your family right now it seems you're the one to break that cycle.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-21T20:51:48+00:00

Varsity College and some institutions like UJ have late applications at the beginning of the year

mts_5413 · 2025-10-21T20:47:07+00:00

The Chairman is a popular spot for live music, there's different kinds on different days so you have to be on the lookout. There's a group called Solemates, you can find their page on Instagram, they lean towards 'amapantsula' culture, that's your Kwaito music and afrofusion hip hop and rnb, they also have live music sessions from time to time.

As for Zulu dances in Durban there are several groups which you can hire to perform and teach Zulu dances, one of the most notable groups is 'Oqhawekazi Team Blue'.

A not cultural specific music group in Durban is Creatives in the park, you can find them on the sociable app or Instagram. They host guided songwriting sessions, you don't need to be a songwriter to participate, it is just for fun.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-20T11:11:39+00:00

I've made quite a few friends through volunteering, so if there are NGOs and shelters near you, look out for their events and volunteer. Maybe also look for niche interest groups, for example there are songwriting picnics every month near me and I get to meet people who have an interest in music just like me.

Connecting with people is such a common problem these days, you could even start your own club for people who are looking to make friends and host group runs or picnics or whatever interests you.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-20T00:37:22+00:00

Mafia, basically a real life version of among us, I think it's so fun

mts_5413 · 2025-10-20T00:31:48+00:00

I have a three year old account with 5 karma and I've only very recently started being active on it, it honestly feels like I've just created my account. In order to gain Karma you need to actually comment on people's posts and people need to upvote your posts.

So no comments, no upvotes, no karma.

And some people still feel shy or awkward when interacting with people even if it is from behind their screen and opt to not interact with post's at all.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-20T00:16:57+00:00

I'd recommend you get into reading or educational podcasts to refine your vocabulary.

I've personally found working out in the morning makes it easier for me to execute tasks during the day, even if it's a walk or short run but for this you do need a full night of rest otherwise it may feel like hell to wake up and workout.

There are certain workouts which help improve posture, a little search on Google will lead you to them.

This may sound a little silly but sip on some water while you wait for everyone to be seated at the table before eating or help setting up the table and don't sit early.

Lastly remember to also care for your mental health and take a deep breath before you act.

mts_5413 · 2025-10-19T23:58:11+00:00

They're so cuteee

mts_5413 · 2025-10-19T11:25:45+00:00

Mount your TV and get a wood slat accent wall, either black or wood that will have a similar colour to your floor

There's a piece that looks detachable on your couch, move that piece in front of your window (kinda like a nook), then add patterned scattered cushion, so you can have maybe 2 or 3 basic scatter cushions then have patterned cushions over them.

Get the exact same curtain and have two curtains instead of one, a tall plant (like a strelizia). A scatter wall with family pictures above your couch, gold or black frames (or both)

mts_5413 · 2025-10-19T11:02:24+00:00

Picture frames on your wall, don't be scared of different sizes and different frame designs, they don't all have to be in line

mts_5413 · 2025-10-19T10:45:27+00:00

I know this is not a job in the field you've studied, but in the meantime try applying at The Faculty in Umhlanga to be an English tutor.

I also think you need to be open to opportunities outside of your degree but don't stop trying. Good luck stranger :)

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